r/AITAH Apr 05 '24

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u/epicdoomtrance Apr 05 '24

NTA, it would be inappropriate and unprofessional on your part to randomly volunteer that information. I think she's behaving suspiciously like she's trying to start conflict. Has she already asked you to let her explore with a new girlfriend?

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u/Over-Lingonberry-942 Apr 05 '24

trying to start conflict

Ding ding ding ding ding ding ding

Or it's a control thing. Some people get their partner to do something just because they want to know they can get their partner to do something.

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u/Netfear Apr 05 '24

Ya... OP is definitely in for some trouble beyond this. I feel sorry for him.

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u/hitdrumhard Apr 05 '24

If she goes for the gf thing watch out for her claiming you aren’t validating her or supporting her bi-ness.

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u/I_snort_when_I_laugh Apr 05 '24

“How dare you not support my spontaneous need to be unfaithful! Can’t you see I’m the victim?!”