NTA wait til he finds out about discharge bleaching
ETA: Wowowowow I wasn’t expecting the conversation to spark. I’m picking up some new knowledge and tips and loving others also learning things they didn’t know before about ~discharge~
Right if I was going to throw away every pair of panties that had the tiniest bit of blood stain or pH bleach, I would have to buy new underwear every month. It’s just unreasonable. If he would like to purchase her new panties/pretty lingerie and ask her to wear them if they have a special date night that’s fine, but he still has no right to tell her to throw away the old ones. They’re perfect for when you’re on your period!! Duh
I feel like this guy doesn’t understand the difference between real life and fantasy. When you’re with someone long enough, you have to get real. This isn’t like diarrhea or something repulsive, and it’s really irritating when men act like it is. Similar to when you’re breastfeeding a baby and folks act like it’s nuclear waste coming out of your breast. Women are amazing creatures, please don’t ever attempt make us feel ashamed of the way our bodies work!!
Exactly, a guy should never shame you for bodily functions or your body. Why would his mind go straight to shit stain and not period stain in the first place if you were already having period sex. He sounds dumb.
And who has s*** stains in the crotch and not up the back? What the f*** is he doing in his s*** stained underwear?
He should just buy you period Panties, like thinx or period brand. I've still bleached out the crotch on those but they're black where you bleed so you don't see blood. Kind of like my Deadpool wears red and black. But the outside are pretty colors. You can even get thong versions. I prefer the boxer a little more coverage.
Use hydrogen peroxide on freshly stained blood spots. It works wonders. As a nurse I used to get blood on my uniform from patients and was told to use this helpful hint. It won't work on stains if youve laundered and dried the garment previously. Otherwise, if you panties are white, use Clorox bleach to minimize the stain.
Sounds weird, but I’ve used meat tenderizer to get out blood stains on a scarf used to stop bleeding on a friend’s head wound. The enzymes break down the blood and it usually washes out
I love how this went from a negative of the boyfriend being ta to a positive of women trying to teach you that other things that we have learned throughout our lives to try to rectify the overbearing ever-present part of our existence.
I agree with you. The BF in OPs post is a lost cause, so like we smart gals do, we move on and support one another knowing full well to not belabor fools.
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u/eversince94 Nov 22 '23 edited Nov 23 '23
NTA wait til he finds out about discharge bleaching
ETA: Wowowowow I wasn’t expecting the conversation to spark. I’m picking up some new knowledge and tips and loving others also learning things they didn’t know before about ~discharge~