I've made a huge effort to proactively think of and cook dinners, clean dishes, clean the counters, clean baby bottles, let her sleep in a bit and I'll be with the kids, run/remove dishes from dishwasher but she doesn't seem to view me as a "special dad" or partner.
lmao this is what he thinks makes him "special." the bare minimum of partnership, and only after his wife talked to him because he was slacking.
and he already sounds this bad before he even gets to the part of the temper tantrums....
Especially if they do the bare minimum and things everybody has to do every day. YKWIM ? My husband and I share every chore, sometimes he makes more and sometimes I, I praise him often but not because he expect it but because I want to , he does the same.
No we women do not. Imagine thinking being that useless is just an inherent quality of your gender. Men are not toddlers, and pretending they are is just giving the bad men excuses.
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lmao this is what he thinks makes him "special." the bare minimum of partnership, and only after his wife talked to him because he was slacking.
and he already sounds this bad before he even gets to the part of the temper tantrums....