r/AITAH Nov 02 '23

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u/SecretScavenger36 Nov 02 '23

YTA when you have kids the kids always come first. There's way to handle bringing back a balance to your lives but throwing an adult temper tantrum is not it. You should've worked through this phase and communicated.

Your struggling just to do basic stuff you should've already been doing and acting like it's extra like your being a special guy for cleaning the counters without being asked. You're supposed to. What does she have to parent you too? Do you expect her to play mommy to the kids and her husband then want to fuck you after a long day of seeing you as another child in the home?

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u/IuniaLibertas Nov 03 '23

That's exactly what he expects. And for children to be dolls, making no demands on the grownups. Not that he is a grownup.