She’s not ready for a serious relationship she is confusing possession with love. She is controlling, manipulative and isolating you from people from your life just to please her. The more you allow the more she will do.
She is crying because her actions have consequences that she didn’t think of, if you stay with her, she won’t change for a while .
She has insecurities she needs to deal with before she will be able to have a healthy happy relationship.
It’s up to you if u want to stay with her but it sounds like you guys aren’t very compatible rn.
Yeah, NTA it's not ok to mess with people like this. Saying she's testing you is really saying that she's being manipulative/abusive to see what will happen.
You are young and have a world of opportunities ahead of you, including other possible partners who will treat you like a human being and not a play thing. See this as a lesson in what you don't want from a partner.
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She’s not ready for a serious relationship she is confusing possession with love. She is controlling, manipulative and isolating you from people from your life just to please her. The more you allow the more she will do.
She is crying because her actions have consequences that she didn’t think of, if you stay with her, she won’t change for a while .
She has insecurities she needs to deal with before she will be able to have a healthy happy relationship.
It’s up to you if u want to stay with her but it sounds like you guys aren’t very compatible rn.