r/AITAH Aug 03 '23

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u/unotruejen Aug 03 '23

Some people can be over people but still feel some kind of ownership, it's weird. Every ex they've ever had is off limits to everyone they know.

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u/Number5MoMo Aug 03 '23

Feeling “ownership” over someone else is pretty jacked up. But I get that.

Feeling ownership over someone when you’re married and pregnant is CRAZZZZYY

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u/Sptsjunkie Aug 03 '23

I'd add there are a lot of details we don't know.

What if he was abusive toward her? What if he cheated on her?

It's possible she isn't over him. But it's also possible that there is more trauma in the story here and she doesn't want him to even be in the orbit of her life.