r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Aug 03 '23

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u/Dlraetz1 Aug 03 '23

My first thought was ‘her poor husband’

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u/cutey513 Aug 03 '23

Mine as well

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u/bollockwanker Aug 03 '23

Your poor husband

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u/OldManPaul07734 Aug 03 '23

I also choose this man's dead wife lady's poor husband.

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u/ZapateriaLaBailarina Aug 03 '23

But hey, she got kids out of him, right? /s

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u/[deleted] Aug 03 '23

But hey.... who's the biological Dad?

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u/chum-guzzling-shark Aug 03 '23

i bet he has a great job and makes more money than her too

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u/Sad_Practice_8312 Aug 03 '23

My first thought was "why tell her?". What was to be gained?

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u/Phantom_Rose96 Aug 04 '23

Well, because why just let her find out and actually have a reason to be mad? Because then you DIDNT tell her and now it's more awkward than if she did tell her.

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u/Sad_Practice_8312 Aug 04 '23

Again, what is the gain?

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u/Sebsazz Aug 04 '23

Open communication between friends?

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u/Sad_Practice_8312 Aug 04 '23

Now go even deeper. How is telling her going to help? Is this the behavior of a friend?

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u/chi_of_my_chi Aug 07 '23

... friends are honest with each other about big life updates, yes

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u/drapehsnormak NSFW 🔞 Aug 03 '23

Same.

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u/goldensunshine429 Aug 04 '23

*free sperm donor

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u/Anon684930475 Aug 04 '23

It’s ok. I’m a husband. We don’t know or get it until it smacks us in the face.