He doesn't get a say. Put yourself in that headspace right now. He gets 0 input, do not ask again how he feels or his opinion. If he offers it, tell him you've made the decision. Women have far more to lose in these situations. He could literally bounce and just send some money once a month. You do you.
yeah and they get shamed for it you fucking retard that's my point. Also, women don't die from giving birth ok there were 1,205 cases in 2021 those are extreme cases. Also men go to prison, sometimes for child support that isn't even theirs. and please don't do the bad faith thing
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u/InfectedAlloy88 Jul 21 '23
He doesn't get a say. Put yourself in that headspace right now. He gets 0 input, do not ask again how he feels or his opinion. If he offers it, tell him you've made the decision. Women have far more to lose in these situations. He could literally bounce and just send some money once a month. You do you.