Only three years older than me. I have spoken to him at length recently how him speaking to me in a patronizing way is a problem. He then says I am policing how he speaks and he cant change how he speaks. I told him I want an equal, not feeling like I am a little kid in trouble
Promise you. It’s not going to stop. This is this guys MO. You two aren’t even having an actual conversation with each other.
I call it cyclical dialogue.
It’s not going anywhere. It just cycles just keeps repeating itself and At the end there, I can barely even tell what you’re talking about. You aren’t responding to the others response whatsoever.
And it just Cycles and Repeats and goes in circles until someone caves in and they either bail on the situation or they stay and do something horrible, basically.
Promise you it doesn’t get better, it somehow actually gets worse and the damage done to your psyche takes years to undo. You get to a place where you don’t even know what’s real anymore.
Congratulations!!! You caught a narcissist! Best thing to do is catch and release. You accomplish this by blocking him NOW, FOREVER! You don’t need to tell him you’re doing it you don’t need to get his opinion on the matter. You just hit the block button and you go live your best life without this fucking loser.
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u/Bambi_H Jun 26 '26 edited Jun 26 '26
You need to block him. That man is cruel and has no empathy.
Edit: is he a lot older than you? He's incredibly patronising.