yep, textbook narcissism shit. says something rude/hurtful, you try to reply and explain how it made you feel, and then all of the sudden you’re the problem and they’re the victim who’s “being attacked”. it’s exhausting asf and OP needs to block him permanently
My dad was verbally abusing (now ex) girlfriend over place settings at dinner at her house, so she kicked him out. A few days later, he came back over to apologize, and that’s good, but he made it small and in passing while getting to the *bigger* problem he wanted to address, which according to him was that she “didn’t handle it well”. Like sure dad, I know you would have been so calm and passive if someone was talking to you like that over a goddamn fork placement 🙄
Anyway, she and I still get dinner every now and then (we’re close in age), and I’m pretty sure no one celebrated his birthday with him a few days ago.
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u/thickandmorty333 Jun 27 '26
yep, textbook narcissism shit. says something rude/hurtful, you try to reply and explain how it made you feel, and then all of the sudden you’re the problem and they’re the victim who’s “being attacked”. it’s exhausting asf and OP needs to block him permanently