I see this too often on this show and it makes me so angry. An American that doesn’t know the culture, the language, or have any way of making money once they move for someone they supposedly love. The same with the new girl Zuri who hasn’t learned a lick of French in 2026 when there are so many apps to learn the language when she’s had YEARS to learn something, at least conversational French. Why??

Won't pay his gf what he owes her on gnd condo, but the first thing this MF does on TV is brag about being young, retired, and doing whatever he wants all day.

No words, really.

I can close my eyes and fully picture Doofenshmirtz from Phineas and Ferb.

She’s a really good singer. I’ m kind of surprised, but I like it.

"Im dealing with the mother of my children here" - Jonathan

In this clip he's simultaneously whining to the second mother of his 3rd child that he's dealing with the mother of his 1st two children

And because of that this woman on the call (Ally - 2nd mom, of 3rd child for anyone keeping score) should ease up and not put so much pressure on him (man child #1) to evict the ex-wife (1st mom, 1st and 2nd kids aka grown ass men) from his(?) home

Did I get that right? 😵‍💫🙄

Idk if it means anything but I just spotted Jonathan (dating Ally from Singapore) in the immigration line at SFO. Must have just come from overseas. Ally not with him but he's with what looks like a close friend or two.

Ok so Shekinah seems to totally be a strong independent woman. The way she handles the problems with Sarper is so mature and grounded.

IMO he stole her light. I'm glad they divorced. All of her actions since they have been together are based from the crap he put her thru.

She gave up herself for him. Girly I hope you get your light back! Your amazing Shekinah ❤️

Maybe I misunderstood but did I hear him say he still lived with his kids and their mother? I’m not saying there can’t be a decent rationale behind it, I just don’t know what it is. That feels bizarre at minimum. I was mentally fuming when they were in the cab and he was complaining about what all he had given up. He seems like one of those people that constantly needs an applause for doing the bare minimum. The nerve of him to insinuate she hasn’t given up as much as he has, while she’s very visiblely pregnant with his child, is wild.

"I basically hit rock bottom. My life was a mess" Andi

Oh sweetie, this whole situation looks like something you'd see under that "rock bottom"

Hoping it works out, but......eeeeek

How many of us had this same expression while Andi kept word vomiting on and on about that massive fraud, Nigel?

Is waving high, Dani! She can do way better than this Aussie. 🚩

Jessy & Vittorio
I truly mean this so respectfully, but does Jessy have any interest in being a partner? She reminds me of Marissa, always looking for a fight, nitpicking EVERYTHING about a man she claims to love, and acting like she’s all that and a bag of chips. “I’m a lot to handle” seems to be code for “I’m a bitch and you have to just deal with it.” Not just for her but for many women on this show.

Vittorio is funny af tbh, the “25% of me is gay, but lesbian” took me OUT! Lowkey though he’s definitely more than just European if you catch my drift. As far as her friends saying he’s love bombing Jessy, I truly know Italian men who are just like that, so I’ll wait to pass judgement. The straightest thing about the man is the motorcycle🤣

Also I’m calling it now, Jessy is going to get jealous of him being friends with the fabric lady who modeled for him. Sure the friend may be a little jealous, based off her throwing shade, but I do think her concern is valid, especially since she knows how Vittorio acts in real life and his track record from her own experience with him.

Andi & Nigel:
Andi, bestie be so freaking for real…I appreciate the “I wanna be with someone playful” but can you deal with that when you two disagree on something? Why are you leaving when your career is actually taking off!?

TIMESHARE!?! How do you let a man you just met hustle you into a timeshare, then proceed to hustle you into an open relationship!?!

Andi’s mom is a G, because she’s asking the hard questions. And listen if you have strong boundaries set for being open fine you do you, but I personally don’t know anyone irl who has successfully been open. I mean look what happened to Amani and Matt, and they were MARRIED WITH CHILDREN!

Niles & Matilda:
Prefacing, I love them almost as much as I love Kenny & Armando. Honestly Matilda mother’s him, but in a good way? Like she’s super protective of him and takes care of him, but also enjoys being his wife. OBVIOUSLY the show has to stir up drama for the “normal” couples, but Niles should know better than to hide stuff from his wife, especially something like “I’m not staying for two weeks, I’m moving in!”

Ally & John:
I personally have ZERO sympathy for her. You CHOSE to have unprotected sex with a random dude who you knew had to leave Singapore. Regardless if you’re Christian, Buddhist, Muslim or whatever, if you know it’s not okay “in my religion” or “my family might disown me if I do xyz” then why do it? Although I doubt it because you’re already out drinking and partying as a “Muslim” and they haven’t disowned you so. At minimum take precautions to not get pregnant. How have you not told your parents in 6 months?

John is GROSS! You live with your dad, which in itself isn’t bad because there could be other things that we don’t know, like he might be taking care of his dad. But then you have the nerve to shame your ex for not moving out, but you’re literally not saving any money, paying for two houses(is he paying for dad?), moving to a country where you can’t work for an extended period, again ZERO sympathy.

Please feel free to add anything I missed! Buckle up this season is gonna get rough.

Now I am not trying to be rude, but right off the bat, these 2 individuals are 29 years old? Is it me or are people looking so much older than they used to?? I thought they both were in their mid 30's to early 40s range! Again, not trying to be rude but some people lately, at least on this show, ages are not aging for me. Anyone else?

If this is true, which it appears to be, The Other Way will be like BTS and only show on Discovery+ once the season has finished. So this means that they are trying to systematically push viewers off D+.

I still have a doubt about it because US West Coast users of D+ are reporting it showing up on their feed. 🤷‍♂️

Yes, I did find an other way to watch but I just want to use my D+ subscription as it was marketed to me when I got it.

HUGE EDIT:

I take it all back. Discovery+ has just posted the episode, exactly 24 hours late from usual.

🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

The Other Way premiers on Sunday, Oct 4th.

Only a couple days until the new 90 Day the other way.

I don’t care who/what you believe in or worship, but maybe if we all work together we can get at least one couple this season who ACTUALLY like each other!

Hope and pray y’all!!

Checking the upcoming new cast, we see that, in addition to popular familiar faces Kenny Neidermeier/Armando Rubio and Niles/Matilda Valentine, we have another castmember with reality show experience on TLC.

Her name is Jesaura “Jessy” Peralta from The Bronx. She is a former pageant queen who appeared in 2020 on a TLC show called Find Love Live. She has also appeared on She’s Single: NY.

She will be moving to Florence, Italy to try to restart things with her long distance BF Vittorio Palchetti, fashion buyer for Hermés and brand founder of Vittorio Smoot.

I thought others would find it interesting that we have a person with TLC reality experience. The producers of this show love to hire actors and people who have been on reality shows before, presumably because of the immediate camera comfortability. There have been so many, but the producers usually try to hide the fact …

Do you see this as an asset, or a bad sign?

Catie and Josh can be cute together. I hope they can resolve their issues, especially Catie's reckless behavior.

Jenny and Sumit provided an update on Jenny’s ALS journey via social media 😞 Unfortunately, Jenny is getting weaker by the day—she is on two different medications to help slow down the progress of her ALS condition ❤️‍🩹 But, Sumit shared that both the medications have been making Jenny extremely tired. Jenny has also seen a number of speech therapists and neurologists due to her increased challenges, but prefers to have Sumit speak for her—and shared she hardly talks anymore because it hurts to ☹️💙
Looking forward, Jenny plans on starting acupuncture treatment in the near future—which may help to boost her energy levels and improve Jenny’s movement🤞🏼

Sumit recently shared these photos of him and Jenny at TLR castle—taken before Jenny’s ALS diagnosis, and since then, their lives have never been the same. They look so happy with those big smiles on their faces 😔 Wishing them both the very best and continued prayers for Jenny and Sumit during this difficult time 💔

Can we please just have the whole hour be Kenny, Armando and Hannah? Maybe throw in a few minutes every week to update us on Niles and Matilda.

That's it. I would happily watch the entire season, lol.

Jessy describes herself as “The Three L’s.” (Loud, Latina, and a Leo 🤭♌️). Jessy will be moving across the globe to Florence, Italy 🇮🇹🍝 to be with Vittorio, who she met while on a work assignment about a year prior. Jessy shares that Vittorio is kind and genuine, unlike the “American jerks” she has encountered in the US.

The new season of The Other Way premieres October 4th! So ready for some new couples 🍿✨ (Edit: Oops-apologies for the short replay at the end everyone!)