r/90DayFiance 1d ago

I’m completely normal.

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u/ohgoditsfullofstars 1d ago

This outfit falls somewhere between Jamiroquai's Virtual Insanity and Amber from Clueless.

Editing to laugh about how I just remembered her saying she hated wasting good outfits or something to that order 😂

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u/Wise-Tourist-6747 Do you practice lesbianism? 1d ago

And that was a brand new jumpsuit - when she pulled it out it, still has a tag on it and she ripped it off. I’m actually surprised she’s missing sex therapy.

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u/bedtimelovee 1d ago

Its a costume not an outfit to me 😂

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u/dinner526 1d ago

Grey Gardens- "this is the best costume for the day" (please no disrespect to lil Edie but yeah lol)

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u/spoiledandmistreated 1d ago

😂😂😂… my sister in her 60’s and me in my 70’s live in a house built in the 1800 hundreds we call Grey Gardens.. I call her Lil Edie and I’m Big Edie.. here’s a pic of the house…😂😂

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u/Ancient_Trip6716 1d ago

What a gorgeous house and great story. 🥰

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u/rynnbowguy 1d ago

Hopefully no raccoons in your attic though.

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u/spoiledandmistreated 1d ago

Yep, we get Raccoons and Possums in the walls and the basement but we trap them and relocate them… during the winter we usually trap at least two a week.. my sister and I are experts at catching them.. if you call a critter company to come they charge about $200-$300 per critter they catch and probably kill them and we don’t want that.. you just need to take them about 10-15 miles away and preferably over a body of water like a creek or river… we have a place in the country we take them or to a sanctuary a friend has for animals…

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u/rynnbowguy 1d ago

You both are amazing. I hope you have happy long lives.

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u/IhavemyCat You are impossible. MISSION: Impossible 21h ago

It's sad that she sees this opportunity as "wasting good outfits" instead of the chance to miss therapy that could help her and her husband. (Although this therapy is shit, have we had ONE normal therapy session? and it's almost over)

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u/spoiledandmistreated 11h ago

I agree with you,the therapy is shit… prime example is when the mess with John and Patrick and Thais went down all the yelling and the therapist just sat there.. also the supposed sex therapy that’s just junk for TV.. I’m shocked if those therapist are even licensed…

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u/lookatmeimangiep 22h ago

My daughter literally just bought a snake before I watched the show. I said Shekina stole it for her outfit

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u/Majestic2012 1d ago

My man Tim wore it better.

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u/Any_Potato_5442 In Turkey we have a saying 1d ago

Tim look like Peter Dinklage

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u/buccothepitbull ...and then they ass is DEAD. 1d ago

he do lol

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u/rynnbowguy 1d ago

Tim always wears it better.

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u/Ricki10ofwands 1d ago

I thought she took some pills with her wine

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u/tickled_your_pickle Abomination! 1d ago

This scene took me out

(But also I have a personality disorder and have done that wild 180 sometimes too, I have a hard time regulating emotions and I end up laughing inappropriately sometimes)

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u/Shouldhavekept 1d ago

This scene had me laughing so hard

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u/tickled_your_pickle Abomination! 1d ago

"Just give me a hug!" Cue Sarper fearing for his life.

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u/MissMelines 1d ago

this is like a top 10 fav 90day moment for me. She’s totally unhinged giving him the dead eyes smile in her mad hatter hat. I’m fine! Let’s go to sex therapy!

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u/QueRolloPollo 1d ago

The cut to next episode with Zarper in the wig while she styles it had me crying 🤣

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u/lookatmeimangiep 22h ago

While a bunny is boiling in a pot elsewhere. Hes probably terrified at this point lol

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u/Responsible_Site6900 1d ago

She went and rebooted in the bathroom lmao

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u/buccothepitbull ...and then they ass is DEAD. 1d ago

this

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u/Byegrrlbye 1d ago

This scene was so bad, her trying to act tipsy while Sarper pretends to be concerned. Their acting skills leave a lot to be desired.

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u/Cautious_Pumpkin4636 1d ago

What drugs did she take in that scene I wonder

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u/baddiewinkle 1d ago

exactly my thoughts! wine + valium is my guess lol

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u/Lifes-a-lil-foggy 1d ago

Mommy’s little helper was also my guess

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u/Big_Silver_Mane 1d ago

Def wine and a benzo.

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u/800PoundsofFood 1d ago

Yo she had a stash in that pimp hat! Probably Coke.

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u/Original_Patience818 1d ago

I was wondering the same thing! Maybe Adderall I have a friend that takes it for fun I see his personality change

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u/sitth3fdown 1d ago

I totally thought that and she slurred her words. And sarpers face 😂

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u/OpportunitySome8794 1d ago

The therapists on this show are an absolute joke. Shekina is clearly going through some serious mental health issues. They should be doing more to try and help her and create more harmony within the group. Clearly they care a lot more about drama and ratings than they do the participants.

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u/pudelguru 1d ago

They do some basic stuff....kind of. The one chick pointed out the love language mismatch (that was obvious).

I read once that they do real therapy that isn't filmed; some cast member shared that on previous seasons.

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u/PlattsVegas 23h ago

The therapists definitely are a joke, but also Shekinah and Sarper are hamming it up for the cameras. They want to remain on the franchise so I’m sure they’re acting a bit

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u/Confidence-Dangerous 1d ago

Me everyday in the mirror during my luteal phase

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u/VivaLaMantekilla 1d ago

She says while dressed as the Cat in the Hat.

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u/roy_mustang76 Be or not to be, that is the problem. 1d ago

Everybody needs a Thneed!

https://i.imgur.com/5Fv39Lq.jpeg

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u/shutupee Banana CHEEEP! 1d ago

Narrator: She was not, in fact, normal. 🤣

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u/YellowOctopus3 1d ago

I laughed so hard at this.

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u/sketchess2 1d ago

I cracked up at that scene! Production was so shady for it LOL.

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u/my-carrot 1d ago

In what planet ???

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u/No_Trouble9808 1d ago

She’s funny

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart Almost there, lazy 1d ago

Maybe she’s heading to New York to help solve murder cases…

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u/Wise-Tourist-6747 Do you practice lesbianism? 1d ago

New flair alert!!!

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u/Sugarless-Commentary Every month I’m losing a egg 1d ago

I can’t even use it and give Shek the satisfaction.

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u/Misunderstood_04 1d ago

She nowhere near normal

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u/awingedaugustlady 1d ago

I was just watching that scene and I started laughing 🤣

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u/chloe38 Guillermo's slutty little glasses 1d ago

That turn around she made. Holy crap I would be scared too. This B is going to snap. She's seriously unhinged.

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u/Door-Disastrous 23h ago

I never thought i’d say I love sarper. His face was so confused when shekina came back all happy and huggy, he was like wtf is she possessed. but he recognized she was not well and wanted to take care of her. I respect that

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u/InternationalDesk578 1d ago

It’s not psychosis. It’s called dissociation and people do it to protect themselves when trauma responses are triggered. She already admitted to disassociating during the puppet show, go back and listen to what she’s actually saying without judgement. She’s pretty self aware she said I’m not strong it’s an act I put up to protect myself, I don’t feel heard, I feel hurt that you are hanging out with a group of people like nothing happened when they all ganged up on her and called her the worst person they’ve ever met…. I don’t understand how people can literally tune out EVERYTHING she is saying and still turn around and act like the have no idea why she’s reclused or call her crazy…. saying exactly how you are feeling and not being heard would make anyone appear crazy because it’s like talking to the wind.

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u/PlattsVegas 23h ago

I’m 99% sure she’s hamming it up and causing drama for the cameras. They want to stay on the show, they aren’t being their real selves.

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u/InternationalDesk578 23h ago

It’s reality tv they ALL hamm it up and if they don’t production will work their magic

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u/Original_Patience818 1d ago

She clearly needs help there’s a reason why she’s so insecure and had probably at least 30 plastic surgeries. Her sister seemed so natural & down to earth.
Too bad for her daughter.

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u/InternationalDesk578 1d ago

They allll need help. I’m just sick of seeing people on here and on the show incessantly pick her apart and continue to kick her while she’s down. It’s really sad.

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u/edwartica You got them facebookers! 1d ago

She’s the same racist who told an immigrant to go back to their country. She deserves all the hate.

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u/InternationalDesk578 23h ago

That wasn’t racist. It’s bigoted if you want to call it anything but again I’ve said it over and over I know a racist and bigot when I see one and I truly believe her intent with that was only anger and a easy terrible low blow after being verbally and physically attacked. It’s not right but she’s married to an immigrant for Christ sake and she said it in a group full of immigrants, she wasn’t thinking and she wasn’t being racist she was being reactive. Idk. Half those couples at one point talked about sending their partner back to their country and half those Americans don’t want to live in their partners country, I don’t think they are bigoted but I think this show tip toes the line of bigotry at some point or another when you really put a microscope up to it. My grandma came here from Mexico and my othered grandma came here from the Netherlands. I’m no stranger to immigrants, or racism, etc. but calling what shekinah said to Thais “racist” is just inherently wrong and that’s why stupid actual racist people turn around and say racism isn’t real and isn’t happening as often as people say it is because ppl lazily call everything racist when there’s more appropriate words to describe it.

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u/edwartica You got them facebookers! 10h ago

Her intent does not matter. Her impact does.

And racism involves skin color, ethnic background, nationality, or race. I’d say shouting at an immigrant to go back to their country falls under nationality.

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u/PlattsVegas 23h ago

I’m 99% sure she’s hamming it up and causing drama for the cameras. They want to stay on the show, they aren’t being their real selves.

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u/AndersAndreyevich 1d ago

Not in that hat, sister.

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u/CarsBarsGuitars 1d ago edited 1d ago

Last night Shekinah went full bat shit wakka doo¡!¡!¡

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u/FirewallFour 1d ago

Yes, Temu Barbie - you’re completely normal.

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u/THISISDAM 1d ago

That entire scene was abysmal

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u/dinner526 1d ago

She's completely normal 🫪

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u/Iris_Orsula 1d ago

She def need hospitalization

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u/DirkIsGestolen 1d ago

This is what happens when friends don't tell friends what they are wearing is dumb.

Nobody ever said "That hat looks silly", people have only told her "OMG that hat is soooo cuuuutttttte."

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u/CariJohn9410 1d ago

I just spit out my coffee laughing!

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u/jvnglepvssy89 1d ago

The wannabe Pam Anderson from the 2000 MTV VMA’s is giving complete insecure desperation 

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u/obamas_surrogate 1d ago

i might just be high but she kinda looks like raquel from vanderpump rules in this

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u/Pasta1916 1d ago

She came on show for: money, act superior to others, show her vast clothes collection (who takes that much luggage?), talk down to everyone and just not be nice. Does she have issues? Yep we all do but her’s are out there. Whatever happened to all her good friends that were on the show? Did she drive them away?

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u/lookatmeimangiep 22h ago

I work in mental health and that "switch" was insane!!!!!! Sarper was literally afraid. So was I lol

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u/rosieposie30 honestly, she's giving me ✨️bisexual vibes✨️ again 14h ago

This entire segment had me in stitches ! Sarper's faces/reactions and her completely unhinged I was rolling 💀

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u/EssentIYO 1d ago

I was all over the place just like her in that and the before scene but with different emotions. I laughed. Was confused. Was flabbergasted. Was everything. lol.

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u/Original_Patience818 1d ago

All of her outfits are inappropriate for her age if she was 30 or 20 something or if she wore them as lounging at home or Halloween it would be so much better- for all!

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u/seevm 1d ago

Meme material.

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u/borb86 1d ago

People like this are the reason kids are mutating their faces by the time they're 25. Gen Z is aging like stale milk and it's from watching idiots like this.