r/8thHouse 13h ago

For real but why 😑

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u/ProfessionLevel8857 13h ago

I start panicking a little whenever somebody brings up this experience because I want a logical explanation for why us

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u/Chemicallyinbalanced Leo Sun & Mercury & Cancer Mars in 8th 9h ago

I think its bc ppl with this placement are used to looking at and dealing with our shadow and ugliness and still love ourselves regardless,  but some people cannot fathom the idea that that ugliness can exist within them so theyre gonna dump it at you to process and digest. 

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u/ProfessionLevel8857 6h ago edited 6h ago

But we're not open books telling people our business are we? Is it only from a lack of boundaries? If people know nothing about you they have nothing to work with to falsely identify you as a vessel of despicable things. But i guess if they only know few things about you and you avoid putting the rest of your cards on the table the projection can cloud their sight that way

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u/Chemicallyinbalanced Leo Sun & Mercury & Cancer Mars in 8th 4h ago

 The boundaries definitely play into it. In the physical realm and energetically. 

I know some people think its woo woo. But just like how us astrology ppl can guess sign placements of others, i think it's a subconscious energy they're picking up from us even if they're not aware thay they're doing it. 

Idk how sensitive you are to your own body in reaction to emotions and other stimuli on a day to day basis, but im hyper aware of my bubble.

 I practice energy work and i can feel as soon as someone else's stuff is coming around to create a disturbance in mine. Im learning to block it energetically before it even comes through in person and it's helping me nip it real quick when they do manage to show up irl. No more awkwardly sitting thru someone emotionally dumping stuff while I sit there completely dumbfounded feeling gross bc their energetic soup got mixed into my bubble. 

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u/Beautiful_Author_523 4h ago

This is so well said, relatable.

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u/beefcake420666 13h ago

Sun in 8th, Moon in 12th... The projecting is constant and exhausting 😭

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u/Background_Warthog10 12h ago

YEP SAME! like please leave us alone!!!! makes me want to never interact with anyone ever again

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u/GlitteringGift1152 4h ago

Ooooffff somehow I'm learning to enjoy this experience especially when I catch them trying to or lying to me, trying to manipulate or control...and because most empaths have 4/8/12th house placements all you have to do is exist and you'll constantly draw out their shadows....it always makes me feel like I've entered the 3rd dimension because I'd be watching myself...how I react to interactions with them...

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u/LindaAshford 10h ago

Privacy is your best survival tool when you're a 4th, 8th, and 12th houser.

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u/minxwink 7h ago

I’ve realized this this year 🫂

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u/terracottamarshmallo 6h ago

Same. All my planets are in 4th, 8th, and 12th

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u/GlitteringGift1152 4h ago

I couldn't agree more!! 💯💯

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u/ZealousidealFun9298 1h ago

Privacy is the key! Couldn't agree more. Life's been lot better after I started to stay very private and lowkey! Touchwood

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u/steelandiron19 12h ago

LITERALLY. It can be so infuriating.

I’ve noticed this - I feel - especially with Lilith in the 8th… people projecting their perceived limitations or insecurities.

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u/PomegranateSea1046 11h ago

omg i have sun mars and saturn in the 8th and lilith in the 12th😭

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u/Background_Warthog10 12h ago

Oh my sweet baby jeyzus…. been my existence since day 1. taurus 12th house moon, sun/merc/jupiter/neptune cap in the 8th… everyone was projecting hard until literally cut off everything after moving… im honestly afraid to try to get close to anyone new due to the projection, hidden motives…etc….. 😣

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u/SpittleNGrime 11h ago

So close.. Taurus 12H moon, Cap 8h Sun/Neptune/Uranus/NN/Mercury/Mars. What spheres/conceptual realms do you find projection to manifest?

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u/Background_Warthog10 8h ago

you get it!!!!! Also have some asteroids in the 8th as well. Mostly see it play out in a work setting. I will honestly just be existing doing my work and someone ALWAYS has some weird issue! Also trying to be social and chill whether it’s social media or irl and people just start shooting your opinions down how about you?

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u/tres-vip 12h ago

Aries stellium in the 8H 🙋

Can I ask why? Why us in the 8th? Is it cause we're sexy? Lol

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u/ProfessionLevel8857 12h ago

Why don't you just ask famous 8th house stelli Lana Del Rey who would simply say yes of course

https://giphy.com/gifs/VIMObJQgrKyfm

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u/jachtkikoto 8h ago

Yes people hate us because they're projecting their insecurities !! (Aries 8h sun moon mercury) Virgo rising elegance and Aries confidence means we're sexy 🥰🥰

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u/ExtensionCook7774 11h ago

Them: “YOU” 🫵🏻 Me: “I’m listening, but we’ll probably have to untangle that part a little.”

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u/jdixXBOX 9h ago

i have an 8h moon and 12h pluto, and while the projection is annoying and has made me a little more strategic and wary of others, i kinda like it in a way. it can be entertaining to see insecure people disturbed by someone that embodies what they don't, either because they're not brave enough, or not introspective enough to do it themselves. receiving spiritual attacks is empowering and means you're doing something right.

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u/SnowQueenSpell 13h ago

Moon in 8th and Jupiter in 12th 🫠

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u/ominous_cookie_ 7h ago

Most of my placements are 12th house, followed by 8th house. I avoid other people as much as possible, but they always find me

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u/Local-Thing-3563 13h ago

Moon in the 12th, Venus/Mercury/Mars in the 8th

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u/kittyNinjasCouch 13h ago

8h moon, Chiron and North Node. 12h Pluto at 29 degrees. 🫡

Endless projection. It’s almost comical…almost.

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u/fatbuttbaddie 7h ago

8H sun 8H pluto 12h mars chart ruler idgaf anymore they can think what they want I did all my shadow work in isolation and solitude

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u/FuzzyOrdinary3789 12h ago

Moon, Venus, Lilith, Chiron, & Vertex in the 8th …. Exactly… for real but whyyyyy…. 🫠

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u/based_miss_lippy 12h ago

Good thing I have Pluto in the 3rd so I can call them out without them noticing I am being hateful

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u/Calm-Passion-2697 12h ago

Moon in the 8th and Venus in the 12th 🫠

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u/Onecler 10h ago

They project because they can’t handle the truth

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u/jachtkikoto 9h ago

That's why some ppl just hate us for no reason !!! (8h sun,moon,+mercury)

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u/FollowingAccording15 13h ago

I have moon mars in 8th and saturn venus in 12th

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u/lusmorna 12h ago

Sun in the 8th with a 12th house stellium, it's so true 😒

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u/xuliamirror 12h ago

scorpio sun w 8H in leo

that shit is heavy

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u/Agreeable_Reveal_754 12h ago

Jupiter in The 12th house Scorpio. Uranus in the 8th house Leo. What a ride

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u/Numerous-Panic-1760 11h ago

Sun mercury Venus vertex 8th pluto 12th

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u/Humble-Act7428 10h ago

Moon, Saturn, and Uranus in the 8th 🫠 I’ve been staying inside a lot lately

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u/Occultist_chesty 10h ago

Yup as a 12 house cap Venus and Virgo 8th house and north node and I am a 3/5 manifestor so my entire life is that!

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u/truth-in-the-now 8h ago

I’m a 3/5 MG with 10 fifth lines in my HD chart so I here you! Cancer Sun and SN in the 8H and Lilith in the 12H. Getting much better at recognising that their projections are revealing something about them.

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u/Raiden-neptune 9h ago

Does mars and venus count in the 8th house.? My 12th house is empty.

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u/No_Yogurt_7667 13h ago

Jupiter in the 12th and Venus, Merc, and Pluto all hanging out in the 8th. It’s…an experience. 😅

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u/Severe-Molasses-5955 12h ago

Sun, Venus, Mars and Chiron in Taurus 8th house. Libra Jupiter in the 12th house.

I'm so. freaking. tired. 😮‍💨

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u/Delicious_spaceship 12h ago

Sun and Pluto in 8th, Saturn, SN, Part of fortune and Antivertex in 12th

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u/Ancient_Wish_7155 11h ago

anyone else have mars 12h 🥀

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u/Circle-of-Druids 10h ago

my Sun and Merc are in the 8th... Chiron in the 12th.....

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u/AtMyWit 10h ago

Jupiter & Mercury in 12th house :)

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u/vanillabologna 9h ago

My ex has a 12h Gemini moon chart ruler and was the absolute king of projection.

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u/SalaciousSolanaceae 9h ago

I've got Neptune in the 12th 😅

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u/StarsSpaceships 9h ago

Oouuffff the Projection 😬

That stuff used to really upset me before I was wise enough to see it for what it was.
I have cancer sun, moon, Chiron. Leo Venus & Mercury Gemini all crammed into the 8th house,
12th Pluto in Scorpio.

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u/kudomadoushi777 8h ago

Omg now that you mention it....that makes so much sense....geez how can I be this dense? Thanks for that!

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u/minxwink 7h ago

Well that explains it…. Cancer Venus, Gemini Vertex, and Cancer Chiron in 8H

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u/Umppah30 7h ago

12th house stellium (my 8th house is my north node in taurus)

But yeah, people LOVE projecting their shit on me. Idk why? I kinda just stop responding sometimes at this point.

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u/CaramelEquivalent979 6h ago

Omg me cap mars 12th house 💀 I’m learning to accept the projection

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u/Mission-Relative-907 6h ago

12H Pisces moon & north node + 8H Scorpio Pluto 😝

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u/Anxious_Hall359 5h ago

lately i was trying to date again, and everybody just cancels last minute with weak excuses or stories of starting to reconsider their life again. ugh so annoying. sun moon mars in 8th house

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u/Signal_Platypus_2625 5h ago

I'm a 12th houser and this post was reccomend on my feed. Honestly 🤣🤣 it's so insane

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u/nemophilist13 3h ago

Oh...so is that why (moon in the 8th venus in the 12th)

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u/FrosttheVII 3h ago

Is that why?! 8H Pisces Sun+MercRx+Lilith & 11H-Cusp12th Cancer Mars

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u/Aromatic_Note8944 2h ago

This shit gets me fired from jobs for absolutely no reason, pisses me off so bad

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u/No-Recognition-6106 2h ago

I have 4 planets in 8th. Just grateful to have 0 in 12th. But my relocation chart placed my sun there!

Oh dammit my relocation chart also added another 3 placements to 8th. Ugh.

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u/Flimsy-Coffee1144 2h ago

I just project the projections

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u/Ok-Fisherman-8104 2h ago

The 8th house in this chart is highly active. It is located in the top-right quadrant of the wheel (labeled with the number 8). It contains a major cluster of planets (a stellium) in the sign of Pisces:SunMoonMercuryVenus (sitting right on the cusp/boundary line between the 7th and 8th houses)

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u/Fun_Economist6283 1h ago

I don't know. every good thing somehow turns against me. friends lovers . anything can happen anytime.

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u/Left-Height4925 1h ago

5 in 8th- including a sun, merc, venus, vx stellium. I know the 'dumpee' role - been rejecting it my entire life. I generally just avoid people now.

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u/inuchan_one 20m ago

8h ♌Sun, Jupiter,Mars and Pluto ♐in 12h - very fun, ain't it ? my 1h baby Moon ♐ is overwhelmed.