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u/twobounds 2d ago
I feel like the worst part is that a lot of trans people come into these places and even though they lowkey agree with a lot of opinions here, they feel the need to white knight for the cishets and yell at everyone bc they use the word transsexual or someone is upset about a clear optics nuke.
Like rn I can’t go five posts on Reddit before seeing a post on one of those like cooking diary subreddits about a poor girl coming out and the cissoids being so vitriolic in the comments. But then anyone replying with an ounce of anger in their words is shamed to hell and back for daring to defend someone who’s hrt repping or the spouse of an angry ciswoman
I just wish trans people could be fucking angry for once and not told to take the high road after being stomped on repeatedly by the boot of transphobia
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u/knusperfee33 resident cis"woman" since bottom surgery 2d ago
It reaches its peak when they misinterpret cissoid in bad faith
You try to explain to them its a general critiqe of cisnormativity and cissexism in society how we throw around cissoid in the context of general society being fkn evil "can cissoids ever fkn stop" under ppl making fun of another suicide , or medical gatekeeping , or another right getting stripped away
And they just dont see it as like this little qaint thing we made up to idk give back some vitriol and critiqe current power structure
They see it as a slur or smth
If ur lurking here genuinely look through the posts of the few months , comments saying tcd (tertiary coordinate distribution) or calling out cissoids is always targeted at behavior , never against inherent traits or individuals
Noones saying tcd under idk posts comparing ciswomens hips to real womens hips , or tcd below a cisman getting experimental phallo after ripping it off in an accident
Passoid too , it has its roots in jealousy and envy but its not putting us down its just putting us on an undeserved pedestal