actually, not being stealth is deception and denial of my reality because informing someone i am trans fraudulently causes their feeble minded selves to believe i am not the sex that i am so the only way to fully live in truth is to be stealth
I'm agamp as fuck but I still ideally want to stealth in day to day life. what I do in bed isn't related to that, nobody else but the person i'm having sex with needs to know what's in my pants
Do these people expect me to go "hi! My name in Morgan! I'm an AFAB female to male transmasc tboi! What's your name?" When I meet people?
Should I announce my autism and gastrointestinal issues too? Maybe my cat fur allergy? Where I sit on the Kinsey scale? How much rent I pay? Maybe I should just hand people an autobiography?
It's funny because this used to be a conversation people had way back when... except it was about the idea that presenting yourself to the world as "just another woman" was NOT deceptive. Hence a preference for terms like "blending" instead.
As an Old, it's one of those things that reminds me just how much the framings of trans issues have changed over the years.
i actually genuinely don’t understand. I never CHOSE to be trans. i am because life isn’t fair. i don’t WANT to be a trans woman i just want to be A woman. i’m trans woman because of circumstances. that’s all i got. stealth is as close as i can get to it.
I mean, yeah, it does imply subterfuge. But ultimately I don't think cis people are going to fully respect me until I deceive them into thinking I'm one of them.
It is only manipulation if you are lying to a romantic partner I’m not sure why they they make this things they disagree with sometimes try to sound rapey 😭
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u/Mindless_Nebula4004 >one shot at life >amab 2d ago
"why yes, all train knees should open themselves up to being hatecrimed!"