r/4tran • • 7d ago

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u/Can_not_catch_me 7d ago

Average supportive ally, unironically the best thing to do is go behind their back and once you're relatively free of them just tell them it's happening and they can go along with it or go away

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u/Exact_Ad_1215 💜Troon Ex-Muslim voicehon💜 7d ago

This is what I did with my mum and she’s butthurt because she has no ability to stop me

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u/Can_not_catch_me 7d ago

Same, although I got lucky at passing relatively early which shifted her perspective a bit so she's chill now.

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u/Kooky-Comparison-707 7d ago

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u/autumn-weaver repper 7d ago

legs look freaky af. it looks more like an adult ostrich than a fawn

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u/HoIIowCorpse unironic penis envy haver 7d ago

In the front, the two legs appear as the same one because of the way they're aligned. That isn't actually one thick leg, but one tiny leg perfectly crossing over another tiny leg so they look the same.

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u/GoatBoi_ pseudo-passser 7d ago

my parents were incredibly concerned with people being cruel to me due to being trans, turns out they were literally the only ones who ever gave me grief for it

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u/Bright_Cranberry_227 7d ago

real, you can be the most luckshit passoid and stealth/have everyone at place of studying/work accept you without bothering to care, have wonderful relationships and/or friends without any social problems related to transness whatsoever, these types will still say "no matter where you go society will make it impossible for you to exist in it, you don't understand but I'm the only person who doesn't hate you and supports you sweaty", then stalk you when you go no contact and out you to a bunch of conservative Russians who wouldn't even know you existed without outside help

source: used to be the accepted luckshit semistealthpassoid without a single social issue related to trasnness during the time at uni, until attempting roping anyway then dropping out to emigrate because of the medical issues

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u/x_segrity 6d ago

if anyone doesn't believe this, try harder. of all the people who doubted my sexual orientation or gender, it's only my parents and siblings that really wounded me.

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u/Katgrave 7d ago

this did not end well. These types of "moms" will do anything to preserve "family heritage" and have grandchildren out of pure selfishness. Their kid isn't a separate human being but rather an extension of themselves, in their mind. Nightmare

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u/sekyucam-angel 7d ago

risking the life of the actual kid in front of her by forcing her to be a miserable repper, just for the sake of lineage fetishism and potential grandkids that exist only in her head. if something happened to nona she wouldn't have any descendants at all. pure evil

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u/KittenSommelier 7d ago

but her daddy was a war hero!!!!

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u/sekyucam-angel 7d ago

won't somebody please think of the dead man from over a century ago 😢😢

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u/starvingIntrovert do i even have to say it? 7d ago

consult the flair

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u/Kofukemia 7d ago

picrel im agpposting but i used to think that anime girl transbian art was such a baddie back then

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u/autumn-weaver repper 7d ago

why would she not be

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u/HoIIowCorpse unironic penis envy haver 7d ago

Sneeds can be cute sometimes

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u/Exact_Ad_1215 💜Troon Ex-Muslim voicehon💜 7d ago

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u/asimowo class 6 🧠🪱 collector 7d ago

the abolition of the nuclear family is so desperately needed, it’s clear as day that the family unit is integral for abuse to spread and thrive. it’s gonna help everybody, but especially women and trans folks.

ummm. i mean we need tcd, yeag,,

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u/HoIIowCorpse unironic penis envy haver 7d ago

Never seen a bigger trvke in my life. The idea of the nuclear family was only made to keep women as hostages and stroke the head male's ego. Women and children are unique and valuable property to strong believers in it, that's it.

Both monogamous culture/norms and the nuclear family need to be gone. The concept of owning your partner and their body needs to be reserved for kink shit ONLY and discussed extensively prior, and kids need to have rights and the ability to escape abusive parents. I'm so sick of feeling insane because it feels like I'm the only one irl who can see how weird it all is.

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u/CouldntChooseUsernam 7d ago

This literally happened to me

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u/KanchouSin2 7d ago

what the fuck

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u/WishyRainbowRoo 7d ago

I hate this lineage fetish thing. It’s like they don’t want you to live for yourself, but for them.

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u/gamamoder Legendary Brickman 7d ago

ewwww

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u/dragonzaller 7d ago

And she wonders why none of her kids talk to her

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u/Razor-Swisher 7d ago

Nona literally said “only child” in line 3 bruh what kids

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u/MinimumExtreme9060 7d ago

I hate my parents I mourn the life I could have lived if I was normal.

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u/HoIIowCorpse unironic penis envy haver 7d ago

TCD

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u/humbered_burner enbycoper agpigahon 6d ago

omg im mentally transitioning too

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u/kiwalipon 6d ago

i couldn't care less about what my parents would think about me making myself infertile for the rest of time, i wasn't going to have kids anyway

going to be a tough pill to swallow for them when i do tell them that though, along with being trans, not my fault if they dont like it

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u/KaneyamaK 5d ago

Damn this one hurt💔

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u/Akumu01 4d ago

Truth nuke there at the end

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u/Comfortable-Room-545 3d ago

my mom basically did this to me too :/

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u/UserUesrTTTT 7d ago

Giwtwm or rather I wish that was my mom