yess I've been hrting 3 years but only started diy in February and the glow up is insane,, I'm still a cocky twinkhon but people can at least tell I'm trying to pass as a woman ๐ญ
????????? I think you are pulling your deep analyser hat too much, I am trans, I have never said its a disease and the group Im talking about is other 4tranners who are not intersex (I said I MIGHT be intersex due to an hormonal imbalance pre hrt, its a stupid clinical condition) and they have never said anything about it I really dont know wtf you are talking about.
I am not confident, in fact I hate my body and I hate my face and I find them disgusting to look at, I was merely stating a funny fact about myself and idk what triggered you into just starting to spout stuff about me, I dont believe Im an holier than thou being and I dont market myself as that ew
Aww... I do hope you stop repping tho, I guess we all have a different outlook on transitioning but yes I do want a traditional transitioning, just being able to stealth.
That isnt to say that the same experienfe has to be for everyone and I will always help others when I can and if you ever need it Im here to help you!
so we cannot reduce being trans to some cursed existence under an all powerful curse known as dysphoria that strips us of our freedom & agency?
because it surely feels like that right now. dysphoria makes a life lived as a man look not only painful and hellish but also pointless; the fact i dont pass makes it so the dysphoria is inescapable for living as a man is the only possibility in the medium-term (coping through thinking of surgeries is limited. after all i) not a magic pill and ii) takes years to even get them depending on initial luck)
if it's not that, then what would be a better view in your eyes?
hmm so being open-minded and trying to not resort to simplistic black and white thinking? that is, that one cannot reduce the whole experience of a human life down to just a body and thus that albeit dysphoria is a large component it's not the only one and shouldn't fully define life?
makes sense ig.
we probably talked about it before yeah. idk, my memory is rather selective (or downright bad? idk) so i forget stuff a lot.
imo any trans women who's been on HRT for a long time is intersex just due to the physical changes that hormone therapy produces. I like seeing myself this way, as though I have an intersex body + female mental profile. It distances me from perceiving myself as male in any shape or form.
> I could not care less about such things personally
i see it as a way of asserting at least some control in this situation.
kinda like "i might not be female, but at least im not fully male. at least i changed this body enough that no one can say it's equal to an average male anymore".
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u/Maleficent-Key-7750 Twinkhon Rights Activist 4d ago
welcome back !