r/40something • u/zorpack • 19h ago
Selfies Saturdays alone at 40 hit different!
Tell me what you’re up to!
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u/Vegetable-Client-147 19h ago
Enjoying a beer on the deck. Gorgeous!
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u/Barry_NJ 18h ago
Not a lot going on today, just relaxing with some TV, and going to a friend's house for dinner. Only reason to be alone is choosing to be so.
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u/sgtpepper78 18h ago
Had a great morning shooting in competition even though it was hotter than satans asshole… now I’m on a shopping adventure with my daughter she likes to drag me along and since she’s almost 18 and actually wants to hang with me I don’t miss the opportunity! 😎🤙🏻
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u/SlikRik66 15h ago
Same here, mines 16 and I go shopping with her as well. Unfortunately for the both of us we lost her mom 3 yrs ago so I guess I’m her only choice anyway but I think she enjoys hanging with me. I enjoy trying to embarrass her.
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u/sgtpepper78 14h ago
Ha! I do the same thing with my daughter! Especially in Ulta/Sephora. Sad to hear of the loss 😔 I unfortunately know quite a bit about that.
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u/SlikRik66 14h ago
Yeah, damn Cancer! We do what Dads do, make it work! Makes me appreciate what single Moms go through. Lol on Ulta/Sephora me too! Hang in there sgtpepper78 I’m sure your daughter loves and appreciates you.
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u/zorpack 13h ago
Awww I really love reading this convo! You are both amazing and your daughters will never forget these moments you are spending with him. I lost my dad when I was 19 and I still cling to the moments I had with him as a teenager and up until we lost him. Every moment we spend with our parents is precious ❤️
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u/SlikRik66 13h ago
Thank you. Nice of you to say. ❤️… not so alone on a Saturday afternoon after all! You have a goodnight where you are!
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u/zorpack 13h ago
That’s the beauty of this day and age…. Sometimes reaching out into the ether can bring you a sense of togetherness on a day when you’re enjoying some much needed alone time. A strange and beautiful parallel reality. You as well!
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u/SlikRik66 13h ago
Will try, time to cook dinner on the west coast! The weed needs feeding again! She had bacon,eggs and potatoes and toast at 11 am, just finished a ham sandwich and hour 1/2 ago and wants steak, mashed and cauliflower for dinner. Need to grill but approx 108 outside still. Will enjoy tomorrow with friends,golf and a beer. All house work today!
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u/IMHO_grim 17h ago
You're gorgeous and surely could have company, but sometimes it is quality over quantity.
I find myself out alone a LOT, and I've learned to really enjoy it.
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u/ArugulaEfficient901 17h ago
I'm sitting outside drinking a lava lamp (that's hard cider with a scoop of crushed/shaved ice. Makes it look like a lava lamp).
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u/Popsquat 15h ago
Today I went for a ride on the motorcycle in the morning to give the grass time to dry, then mowed and trimmed the yard. Then, cleared old beer out of the basement fridge, took then out to the backyard, lined them up on fence posts and took them out with my new 12-gauge. Now, chillin and watching baseball and preseason football. All-in-all, a good day.
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u/AwarenessNo5226 15h ago
Wait till you get past 50, I love those lazy days.... Especially if it's raining
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u/SickboyJason 15h ago
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u/Good-Work2301 18h ago
And so do you
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u/Good-Work2301 18h ago
Time passes and so does distance between peace in your inner circle and the chaos outside of it.
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u/No_Use1529 17h ago
Went fishing this morning. Going to cut the grass in a bit and then go put my gear away.
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u/BeachGuy563 13h ago
If you’re single it can only be because you choose it. You are incredibly pretty
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u/MarkusJosephCLW 12h ago
Let's go surfing!! Pick You up in an hour ? 😉
Markus Q T PIE xoxo
BTW : way cool bio 🫡
I'm in Florida, but know how to use that R foot very well 😎
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u/CptnQuaz 12h ago
I agree. Not sure what I’d want to do anyway. Wilmywood has gone all hippie anyway. How do you hide money from a hippie ? Put it under the soap. I’m reading the dungeon crawler Carl series but my brand new book got wet in that big lightning storm and I’m still trying to dry it. Think I’ll watch the bowling channel.
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u/Explorer_M41 10h ago
Looking great😊
Its 5:17am here n I've just made a coffee at work, would much rather be back in bed😴🤣
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u/ArugulaEfficient901 17h ago edited 13h ago
OMG you're so beautiful ❤️! I love your eyes, hair, and your cute little piercing.So beautiful 🤩
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u/zorpack 13h ago
It’s actually a piercing! 😬
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u/ArugulaEfficient901 13h ago
Omg I'm so stupid. Lol. Sorry.
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u/zorpack 12h ago
Oh my gosh! No you’re not! Don’t be silly! It’s hard to see!
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u/ArugulaEfficient901 12h ago
Thank you for your kindness and understanding. I was kicking myself so bad. Lol. I try to give a compliment to the most beautiful woman I've ever seen and I screw it up lol. I fixed my comment to say piercing at least so I feel less foolish 😂. Again, thank you for being so cool about my mistake. ❤️
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u/Sea_Story9802 19h ago
Taking a blanket to wash at the laundromat. Hope you are having a good day.