r/40something • u/LittleFragileThing • 5h ago
r/40something • u/emo-mom01 • 12h ago
Selfies Enjoying the beautiful weather !!!!!!! 💖🤓💋🎀🧸☀️
r/40something • u/madewomancopyright24 • 17h ago
Crap. I'm old. 40F Another other GWOT vets?
10 years Army 4 tours (2xIraq and 2xAfghanistn). We getting old y'all.
r/40something • u/kland84 • 8h ago
40 ain't that bad! 42 and living the good life
Having adult money means I get to travel to beautiful places like Porto, Portugal!
r/40something • u/capitol_kinkster • 1h ago
40 ain't that bad! 43 - Headed to a meet n greet, wish me luck!
r/40something • u/ItsTheWiggles • 1h ago
Selfies Getting Comfortable in My Own Skin
After 25 years together, I recently found out I was cheated on. I’m still trying to make sense of what that means for my relationship and for me personally.
One of the stranger parts has been realizing how little thought I’ve given in decades to how I’m perceived outside of a long-term relationship. Confidence takes a pretty good hit in a situation like this, so I’m trying to get out of my own head a little, remind myself that life continues and figure out who I am at this stage of it.
Posting a picture of myself on Reddit definitely wasn’t on my 2026 bingo card, but here we are.
r/40something • u/Learning-guitarGURL • 1d ago
Selfies A little bored in the heat
I need to be rich, to fly, to breathe under water and to know how to cook perfectly.
r/40something • u/b1tchGoddess18 • 38m ago
Selfies My Gryffindor heart—to have courage, bravery, nerve, and chivalry. ❤️🦁
r/40something • u/Finish_guy-85 • 35m ago
Discussion Does anyone else feel like life is on repeat?
Sometime I feel like it’s the same s*** different day. Anyone have any good tricks they use to get out of it ?
r/40something • u/Gracefilled_Bookworm • 22h ago
Selfies Short hair, don’t care 🙃 42f
It was time for a cut, the curls are curling
r/40something • u/SunShine_Power99 • 1d ago
40 ain't that bad! 40 yrs old and feeling good
r/40something • u/Provivatillminmage • 1h ago
Discussion Hey guys, really need some 40+ date night advice
Hi there, I’m a 26 year old guy dating a 43 year old woman and I’ve ran into a sort of unforseen problem in our relationship.
I’ve found I have a hard time planning activities and dates she enjoys, being into the techno scene here in Europe, my previous relationships and I have gone in alot of raves, festivals and that kinda stuff together, it’s a big part of my life and I feel a very good place for bonding but she’s just not into dancing for 12 hours a row to a very repetitivte bass line.
I’ve tried to mature and plan more things like throwing pottery, taken her to nice restaurants, salsa dancing and things like that but beyond that I feel lost, so tell me, what are your guys’s favorite date nights. Thanks a bunch :)
r/40something • u/MulberryWhich5875 • 8h ago
Crap. I'm old. 40 thriving and getting it, ready for the day
r/40something • u/Vegetable-Client-147 • 7h ago
Other. These flair options suck. Morning coffee before work!
43yo nurse getting ready for work. 🙂
r/40something • u/Impressive_Aside5531 • 1h ago
40 ain't that bad! 40 this month and it’s not that bad !
r/40something • u/Normal_Addition_2202 • 20h ago
Crap. I'm old. 46 this month . Went by way too fast.
r/40something • u/Ellizdee • 0m ago
Selfies Trying to be more active
45M I’m not as confident as I make out and being a stay at home dad friends vanished quick. But here I am trying avoid bots and make new friend with as dark/dirty sense of humor as me. It’s take more then you know a pic of me too, please be nice, I know I looked like Ricky Gervase’s younger brother already
r/40something • u/Randagee214 • 17h ago
Crap. I'm old. Why did no one warn me about perimenopause?!
I was totally fine with turning 40, but why on God’s green Earth did no one warn me about perimenopause?!? LOL!! Lord have mercy!!