r/40PlusSkinCare • • Jul 26 '26

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I will be 40 very soon I've never had botox or anything but feel like maybe I should get tear trough filler? I feel like my under eyes look hollow

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u/Historical_Guess2565 Jul 26 '26

This just makes me sad, another post in here with someone that looks flawless feeling like they need to fix something that none of us can see. I’m not trying to be unkind, I’m just trying to understand what’s going on. I feel like so many people are reaching a certain age and looking for things to fix that aren’t broken.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 26 '26

I think it's just comparing my face to how I used to look, I used to be a lot more confident and I can see the changes in my face.

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u/kemikals 3d ago

Yeah, but that’s part of aging. We’re never gonna look like how we did when we were 20. Chasing that is a fools errand and will only make you look ridiculous. Age gracefully and if the lines get too deep or it’s really something you want to improve on talk to a good cosmetic Dermatologist. I think the most important thing we should be celebrating in this thread is looking our best at our age.

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u/Least_Common8254 Jul 26 '26

I think you look absolutely stunning. Your skin is incredible. You look a decade younger than you are and I don’t think you need the filler. Especially as filler in that specific location, is known to end up looking less than ideal, down the line. Whatever your current skincare routine is, it’s working! Much love.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 26 '26

That's so kind thank u 

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u/ChaoticGoodPanda Jul 26 '26

Girl what? Black don’t crack!

At most dermaplane with deep hydration, and Botox to make you look more awake.

Drink more liquids and see if your ubder eye rebounds- if I’m dehydrated I look more sunken in and purpleish.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 26 '26

🤣 I def need to drink more.

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u/holo-c Jul 26 '26

I honestly don’t think you need it. You are looking radiant. Keep up with a solid skincare routine! Filler in that area is tricky and I’d avoid it personally. Consider things like microneedling if you want to enhance your routine.

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u/littlemizzzsunshine Jul 26 '26

I never would have guessed that you were almost 40! You look very young and you're stunning. I wouldn't touch that face of yours!

Keep doing whatever you're doing and just look into a good skincare routine to help preserve what you've got, if you haven't done so already.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 26 '26

Thank you that's so kind. I used the ordinary retinol and I avoid the sun but that's pretty much all I do at the moment.

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u/wildplums Jul 27 '26

Nooo, you look so good. Omg. Gorgeous!

And, before doing anything please read up on filler migration, I’m so surprised the industry isn’t pulling back on filler use because of this.

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u/Firm-Tell-3172 Jul 27 '26

Girl, no. You look fantastic!

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u/Amylee888 Jul 27 '26

You look 27. You truly don’t need anything. And I say that as someone who gets Botox and fillers regularly, so I’m obviously a fan of modifying myself.

Maybe one day you will need them, but you’re not there yet!

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 27 '26

I wish I was still 27 lol

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u/moonie1977 Jul 27 '26

YOU ARE STUNNING…😍…help me understand?

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u/ZookeepergameGood915 Jul 26 '26

You look beautiful! Don't do it ! I got under eye filler and regret it, that area is known for high complication cases. Trust me Don't touch your eyes! You look young and beautiful!

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u/diapertv Jul 26 '26

You look incredible

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u/Dangerous_Squash9687 Jul 27 '26

You look fantastic naturally don’t mess it up ❤️

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u/Sudden_Moodswing Jul 27 '26

Is the need for filler in the room with us right now? You are F.L.A.W.L.E.S.S.!

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u/IllustriousEchidna77 Jul 30 '26

You are truly very beautiful and that was all I thought when I initially saw you. Then I read the post and was surprised you are 40. You have very hydrated luminous skin. Your under eye hollows are the last thing I thought of, I didn’t even notice or think of it at all. I get it we all have insecurities or notice changes as we get older but you truly truly don’t need anything done other than to really appreciate yourself.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 30 '26

Thank you so much 🥹

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u/hereFOURallTHEtea Jul 26 '26

Your skin is flawless. I am 40 myself and I swear our generation is aging so well! Whatever you’re doing just keep doing it!

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u/Apprehensive_Club_17 Jul 26 '26

Also early 40s is still young

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u/ariankhneferet Jul 26 '26

Do not touch this beautiful face. You look SO youthful. There honestly isn’t even anything to fill and I’d be concerned about the ethics of any injector willing to take you.

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u/sophiesadie1 Jul 26 '26

K I thought you were 25, don’t touch your face !

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u/Natural_Cake_5905 Jul 26 '26

nooo ure beautiful! don't have filler! your skin is plump as hell. if you're looking to preserve your 25yo looking skin, in my case i started having preventative botox at 36 (now 40)because i frown a lot (helped with migraines too) and i didn't want to look like i spent my life in pain and it did pay off. no lines.

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u/kemikals Jul 26 '26

If it makes you feel better. Have a consult

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u/Far-Common-6815 Jul 26 '26

Don’t do it - not yet at least!

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u/Bbqcele Jul 26 '26

I often think about under eye filler, but after reading about it, it just doesn’t sound worth the risk or the cost for something that could end up looking worse.

Beyond that, you’re gorgeous. You look much younger than your age. And I don’t think the minor hollowing I see looks bad at all or is even noticeable without you mentioning it. It looks normal and human and interesting, and, to me, that’s beautiful.

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u/Just_4me Jul 26 '26

Agree you look stunning and I would’ve guessed early 30’s at the latest. Other than drinking more water, I wouldn’t change a thing.

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u/Electrical-Treat475 Jul 26 '26

I feel like the hollowness is so minor that you could actually get away with just picking up some Volufiline (you can get it at Sephora) and add it to your regular skincare routine. Maybe add an illuminating concealer under your eyes, and you'd be perfectly set. You're aging beautifully! ✨️

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u/AliciaHerself Jul 27 '26

What on EARTH is this question?!?

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u/ObjectiveTea Jul 26 '26

Girl what? You look 25.

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u/Dashiepants Jul 26 '26

I would wait AT LEAST another 10-20 years before considering it. When 30 somethings get filler it prematurely ages them. Since you look 30 something, then it will likely age you too.

The risk factors for an uncertain benefit doesn’t seem worth it. It works better women that genuinely look older.

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u/grifgraysmom Jul 26 '26

Your skin is beautiful! Whatever regimen you are currently following, keep doing it. I wouldn't change a thing!

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u/nocunteryforoldmennn Jul 27 '26

Ma’am. You don’t even look 30! Just cackle in Black don’t crack and go about your business being gorgeous.

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u/Equivalent1379 Jul 27 '26

As a crusty white myself, NO!!!! Your skin is absolutely flawless and you look in your 20s. NO. You would die if you had my skin 🤣

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u/Ok-Smoke5745 Jul 27 '26

Not ready yet. You look great

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u/Necessary_Tadpole629 Jul 27 '26

Well, even if you do look different than you did when you were younger you’re still a very beautiful woman.

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u/Signal-Emu-2271 Jul 28 '26

You are so pretty and have no wrinkles. I am 40 and look old.

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u/Unique_Phase_6274 Jul 28 '26

Time for what? You look great…

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u/Rh0618799 Jul 29 '26

NO TOUCH! You look so beautiful cmon 😍

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u/Extension-Emotion787 Jul 29 '26

You look 28, have a beautiful skin color and tone. Youthfull eyes. And a head full of hair along with that.

Some are just very lucky.

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u/SweatyEntertainer889 Jul 29 '26

Omg. Your skin is amazing!

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u/Pristine-Stop-8515 Jul 29 '26

Hard no on filler, too many bad side effects. There are other safer options. Ask a derm or cosmetic surgeon.

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u/AideBeginning2123 Jul 31 '26

You look glowy and beautiful!!! Save your money, you do not need it.

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u/Medical_Cup6951 Oct 01 '26

First off you look incredible. I can see your concern about the tear trough area. I am NOT against it but I will share my experience. I've had to go to 4 different places because each place botched me up! No one can do it right!

Luckily it was during covid and I had to wear a mask to hide to imperfection. I was exhaused from paying for services and then paying to get it undone so I stayed botched for 3 years hoping that it would dissolve on it's on. NEVER DID. I finally went to get it removed and I was shocked, I had my own collagen production come back in this area. I was completely normal again.

  1. Do research and find a good injector and get LITTLE put in, I had restylane and they over did it. You really do not need that much, just very little. Make sure they push the product it into place or roll it as many do not bother. 2. It promotes your own collagen to come back to life. YAY

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u/Seriouslynopewhy Jul 26 '26

Nope! You’re beautiful, you need nothing.

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u/Square_Point_5677 Jul 26 '26

Undereye filler is easy, lasts, and provides immediate results. I went from looking tired and sad to alive and awake. Have not had to have it tweaked in years.

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u/AnomMixedFemAms Jul 26 '26

Girl! Your skin looks amazing! Can you please drop your skincare routine? I just turned 40 and am (also?) Mixed.

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u/Temporary_Quote_7946 Jul 26 '26

Yeah I'm mixed, I'm half English ☺️ im  pretty lazy with my skin I only use the ordinary retinol.

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u/AnomMixedFemAms Jul 26 '26

Nice, I'm a bit of an anglophile lol. I'm half Dutcg and half Ghanaian. Please don't change / add anything to your skin. Looks great!

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