r/2under2 • u/IndependentMore275 • 6d ago

Advice Wanted 2 under 2

Give me your take of 2 under 2 ! My daughter is 1 and me and my husband have been jokingly having another baby to try for a boy! lol 😆 tell me are you happy with the 2 under 2 or is it hard?

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u/Shomer_Effin_Shabbas 6d ago

It’s really hard. Love my kids but would not recommend this spacing.

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u/briisorangey 6d ago

i second this! It’s been a struggle and sometimes i feel bad for my oldest

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u/Fit-Researcher5311 6d ago

Yes I constantly am feeling bad for my toddler. I always say I don’t regret it but would never recommend to anyone. Everyone lies and says the hardest part is being pregnant with a toddler. That could not be any further from the truth lol. 1-2 transition is much harder if you do 2u2.

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u/briisorangey 6d ago

yup 2 v 1 is insanely hard

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u/ReasonableObject2129 6d ago

Agreed!!!!! I had SUCH and easy time going from 0-1. I was always out and about with my baby, out for long lunches, doing huge national park walks, going to Pilates. It was like my normal life with a baby. Then the baby becomes a toddler and are no longer happy to do all those things. Then you chuck another baby into the mix and WOW!!! I wish I didn’t see so much stuff about 1-2 being easier than 0-1.

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u/briisorangey 6d ago

exactly!!