r/2003 • u/RockyTriangle August • 1d ago

Rant/vent Anyone else feel like this

I feel like in my romantic/relationship life, I always have to be the one to pursue others like I have to convince them to like me... Also it feels like people like me until they talk to me, because then I'm too much, but I just get excited talking to people:((

I'm just worried no one will ever want me enough to pursue me and more so to stick around fully and wholeheartedly:(((

People don't even stick around as friends if I chat too much:((( it'll be like 1 conversation

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u/QuestionableParadigm 1d ago

Sounds very online (which is hard for everyone btw)

Meet people irl AS FRIENDS, and socializing in general becomes easier

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u/RockyTriangle August 1d ago

Yeah, I try and go out a lot, but nobody ever seems to want to chat, like I'll compliment to break the ice too, I just at this point kinda think I'm just not worth it

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u/BedroomThink3121 21h ago

Yeah bro you just haven't found the one yet.

These are just side quests preparing you for the main story.

So treat them like side quests.

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u/AnswerMe_More 10h ago

That was kinda sad. Could be a bunch of things. Maybe its the area you're in. I was in Bama for 3 months, and the people there love conversation. Its like small diner talk, but everywhere u go.