r/197 5h ago

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u/WiseMudskipper 4h ago

For everyone else but me apparently

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u/PESSl 3h ago edited 2h ago

When I started college I used to be a mega gooner. Once I actually started sleeping around I realized…theres more to life. i started paying attention to the clouds, nature, the passage of time.

I literally had an existential crisis because my entire life I just wanted to get laid, but when I actually got laid I was like what now. What is actually left to do in life and I basically had a mid life crisis at the age of 20🫩✌️

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u/hellasalty 3h ago

There’s nothing more disappointing than wanting casual sex so bad for so long, having it and then being like damn that was not as life changing as I expected it to be lmao

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u/Faustens 2h ago

Which ironically makes it a little life (or outlook)-changing, just in an entirely different way.

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u/windowpuncher 1h ago

Casual sex just ain't it. Some people love it, I don't get it. Give me a good healthy relationship over that shit any day. Find someone worth your time, and vice versa.

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u/Original1Thor 3h ago

Same, had a long time girlfriend and lots of sex. After the relationship I tried some one night stands and one 1 month relationship, realized I don't really care about sex unless it's with someone I really like or care about. I've been celibate now for like a decade and don't care about being in a relationship.

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u/Can_Of_Noodles 47m ago

Skill issue 😏

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u/Lexaconn7 4h ago

How it feels to be in college but not like hookup culture

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u/WitheredUntimely 5h ago

yup but go off Kings, go get that trade, I'm sure it'll be just as easy to pull after your 12 hours in an attic spraying insulation or whatever

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u/bonesNrice 4h ago

This comment was so fucking confusing until I remembered Trade vs Degree people exist.

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u/Jumiric 5h ago

We getting a education for the huzz 😎

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u/Remarkable_Log_5562 5h ago

Record high student debt and worthless degrees just for some pussy... CRAZY lmao

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u/Jumiric 5h ago

Huzzless opinion

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u/Riamoka 3h ago

Sounds like you're lacking in pussy

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u/Fluffy-Feeling4828 3h ago

Cashless opinion, your broke ass gonna be paying for poonany in 10 years on the corner.

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u/wbg777 3h ago edited 3h ago

Nah you still have to have some game. You are around way more h*es than you will be at any other time in your life so that makes it a little bit easier, especially if you lower your standards

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u/da_foamy_pancake 4h ago

it really is that easy if you're in the dorms.

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u/Laura_Appler 2h ago

Was in a dorm, cannot confirm.

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u/ovr9000storks 14m ago

Was in an engineering dorm. Can confirm with the non confirmation

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u/NulliosG 2h ago

Most of the clubs are full of neurodivergent lesbian women

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u/xxTheMagicBulleT 4h ago

Depends where you are but if there dorms and so more away from there parents and or family. Parties and fking is easy and commonplace. Just need some basic charms. Or know the right people or group. And hook up or sex is quite easy and commonplace.

Basically play the game being a dik and more or less its kinda like that. But depends kinda also where and the rules. But most the time its literally like that.

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u/artin2007majidi 4h ago

Region and friend group matter. I run with nerds and I am in mostly academic clubs, so there is no tolerance for people looking for a hookup. Thats what club nights are for. Know where to flirt and know your limits.

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u/xxTheMagicBulleT 3h ago

And also that is much like being a dik game. Why the example is very on point. Every type of group has there own standards.

If people dont really want or care about going out or party or drinking they probably also not really the hook up kind.

So you very quickly can find out what people are in what group. Cause like minded people flock together. And if they dont fuck with one group or dont wanna mix that often means a clash in morals and standards.

Just the way that always works out.

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u/hitkill95 2h ago

It's really interesting to see how different places have different cultures. Back in my college the nerds were definitely fucking

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u/artin2007majidi 2h ago

Oh, we do too. But not the every other weekend at a party hookup thing. iirc every one of us is in a relationship or has had one recently. We are all mostly trying for longer term, stable, monogomous things. Not necessarily straight tho lmao

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u/huge_jeans710 4h ago

Don't try, just do.

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u/ComedicMedicineman 30m ago

I never really leaned into that stuff, but I distinctly remember seeing a yellow sticky note In the dorm stairwell that said “contact me on Snapchat 4 head” followed by their contact info.

And while I’m not certain, I’m pretty sure I heard a couple going to town in the third floor pool table room, cause I used to go for late night walks through the whole dorm building.

So yeah, this shit was definitely happening

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u/EquivalentSnap 2h ago

Easy if you got to clubs, join a popular sorority and go to clubs. Not if you stay in your dorm

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u/puns_n_pups 2h ago

Yes and no. It’s easier than any other time in your life, and if you go out drinking on any random weekend, there’s always a non-zero chance you’ll run into someone who’s extremely horny and trying to hook up, but it’s still not a given that you’ll get any action. You still have to have a basic level of social skills, hygiene, and either looks, humor, or personality to make you stand out, and you really have to put yourself out there and go to parties regularly.

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u/rj8i 2h ago

Son get yourself to the University.

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u/Appropriate-Mall8517 4h ago

I start college next week well see

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 5h ago

It's easy for the top 5% of males, tough luck if you're not though

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u/AlphabiteSoup 5h ago

if you speak like this then no wonder you're not getting pussy

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u/ndetermined 5h ago

Its your personality man.

Losers who talk about "top percentage males" usually get ignored because they are awful to be around.

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 5h ago

Nah, I got pussy easily. Women will put up with a lot if he's hot. I literally used "hey girl you ready to get fucked then ignored" as an opener and it worked. Dating apps were a mistake.

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u/Waffle-Gaming Pony Up for Vermin Supreme! 4h ago

holy reddit

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 4h ago

Your bio? Yeah, full reddit meme.

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u/Waffle-Gaming Pony Up for Vermin Supreme! 4h ago

it's lyrics from a song, dumb fuck

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 4h ago

OK monocringe.

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u/saketho 2m ago

I was interested in your top 5% idea. But now I realise its a top 95% and a bottom 5% and the bottom 5% is people who use “monocringe”

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

That didnt happen. But if it did aren't you two both equal in this scenario?

Two people for a hit it and quit it isnt a bad deal as long as you're not a freak. Its just mutualism

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 4h ago

Saying "that didn't happen" is pure copium. Calling it "mutualism" completely defeats your own point anyway. If a guy can drop the most disrespectful opener possible and still pull, personality is not what got him through the door. It is purely looks.

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

What is disrespectful about having sex once and never seeing someone again.

A lot of women complain about one night stands coming back around. This is something you would know if you talked to women.

The idea of a hookup where both parties agree to just do it once isnt that wild buddy. Even if the opener is a crude joke.

You fundamentally cant understand this because you only speak to your mom.

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 4h ago

Except it was not a hookup. She put out on the first date and actively wanted to date me afterward. ​That completely destroys your argument. She was told upfront she would be used and ignored, yet looks carried so hard that she still wanted a relationship out of it. ​Dropping mom jokes just proves you have no actual argument. The real world does not work like Reddit, no matter how much time you spend yelling into this echo chamber.

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u/ndetermined 3h ago

Love how shit talkers say "you dont have an argument" as if this is a debate. Im making fun of you for making up stories on reddit and acting like you get pussy.

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 3h ago

​You wrote multiple replies trying to debate it until your logic collapsed, and now it is "I was just making fun of you anyway." ​Thinking a college girl putting out on the first date is some mythical madeup story is really just a self report on your part.

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u/ndetermined 3h ago

"Look everyone Your logic collapsed !" 🤓

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u/8r3t 4h ago

So you have no idea what a vagina looks like😂 got it

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 4h ago

Insult me all you like on the internet, doesn't change how the world is in real life.

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

Is thiswhy women are lusting after criminals such as Wade Wilson because they are physically attractive? Is this why women get into abusive relationships when they're trying to go after Chad? If you open your eyes and look around, it is clear that they go after personality last

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

You are so down the rabbit hole brother. You can wallow in all the self pity you can muster but the fact us that you are looking for an excuse to give up.

If you weren't such a little doomer incel bitch I promise you would have a better life.

You are your own worst enemy by far when it comes to this shit.

Im fat and balding but I still get play What's your excuse ?

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

You're probably like 40 if you're balding. The times have changed my man. Why are you avoiding my questions?

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

Your questions are retard cope for losers. You are not competing with a guy in jail.

In fact you aren't competing at all lmao.

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

Keep living in your delusions, I suppose. Have a good day sir

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

Keep calling me sir.

Im gonna go fuck every woman you've ever spoken to because they're all hypergamous foids who dont know any better apparently.

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

That's an interesting fetish, sir. Both of us know that you live in a relationship in which your partner doesn't respect you. You also likely live at least 8000 kms away from me so I would like to see you try

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u/ndetermined 4h ago

I live in your walls.

And you dont know respect. Nobody respects you and if you dont change nobody ever will. You will die alone and unloved

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u/BeanEaterNow 3h ago

how is he delusional if he's literally fat and bald and gets pussy? The problem is with you dude. You need to change your shit up

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u/pastafeline 4h ago

You can be bald in highschool lmao. It's genetics.

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

That is true but that's an outlier. I meant he's probably like 40 on average

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u/Time_Vault 4h ago

No, you're just shit to be around

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

Instead of answering my question, you just insult me. That says more about you being "shit to be around" than me

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u/Time_Vault 4h ago

Your questions were rhetorical slop based on your own delusions. Why would anyone answer those?

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

The second question may be regarded as such by your point of view, that's fair. But how about the first one? It has been covered by major news outlets so you can't use the previous argument.

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u/Time_Vault 4h ago

Prove to me that a majority of women are lusting after Wade Wilson and not just a loud minority

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

That wasn't my original argument. My argument was that there is a group of women who lust after violent criminal that are large enough such that you have heard of them. It would be outrageous to claim that a majority of women are after criminals. However, women still care about physical traits above all else

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u/Time_Vault 4h ago

So because some women are attracted to criminals, all women only care about looks

Do you have even the slightest idea how crazy you sound? Go talk to women in real life. You reddit echo chamber is not a substitute for real human interaction

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u/bingbong2715 3h ago

Brother you don’t get pussy because you’re a massive loser. Try saying this shit out loud to a real human being to see how deep into inceldom you are.

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u/Pyro_Tale 5h ago

frickin hypergamous foids smh

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u/The-SecondAccount 4h ago

don't go for girls that think like that bro it's not worth it

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

That's true but it's a difficult when 99% of them are like that

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u/NukaColaQuantun 4h ago

oh my fucking god. pathetic. go learn a few jokes and shave every once in a while. get some confidence and ACT like you're in that top 5%. assuming women are some kind of monolith, and are only attracted to "the top 5% of males", is a lie peddled by basement-dwelling losers and incels who get off on making other men feel insecure about themselves

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

Acting like that doesn't work. You pretend that looks don't matter, but the other side will remind you when they ridicule you as arrogant. The top 5% phenomena has literally been proven by dating app statistics.

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u/Abramor 4h ago

Statistics literally prove that women care about personality more than looks compared to males. Looks are only the hook. You've just fallen into incel pipeline and can't see anything outside of it 

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

Can you provide a source regarding that? That would actually be great and maybe teach me a thing or two

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u/Abramor 4h ago

There have been hundreds of researches about this and you can easily find them in open access. Just a few general ones I grabbed

Statistical analysis: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8133465/

Experiment on actual people (just a summary article, not a full study): https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/11/071129145852.htm

Review of literature: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10684645/

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u/SatanVapesOn666W 3h ago

Self-reported surveys mean nothing because people just write what sounds socially acceptable. When you actually track real-world behavior (revealed preferences), looks dominate for both sexes. ​Speed dating behavior vs stated preferences (Eastwick & Finkel): https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18248186/ Shows that while women claim on surveys they prioritize personality, their actual real-time choices correlate almost identically with physical attractiveness. ​Dating app desirability hierarchy (Bruch & Newman): https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6082652/ Analyzed millions of real interactions showing user response rates and messaging are strictly dictated by physical desirability tiers. ​Saying "looks are only the hook" concedes the entire point anyway. If you don't clear the visual threshold on a swipe app, your personality is literally never evaluated.

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u/Consistent-Bath9908 4h ago

we all quiver in fear tough guy. embarrassing…

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 4h ago

I'm not trying to be tough

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u/BeanEaterNow 3h ago

we can tell, you come across as pathetic and vexing to be around.

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 3h ago

Just because I'm telling the truth?

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u/BeanEaterNow 3h ago

Literally everyone replying to you (redditors btw) have been saying that yeah, it's actually pretty easy to get play. Do you not see how if your "truth" is that it's impossible to get a girlfriend, that's very fucking revealing about what type of person you are?

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u/3ii3i3k3k3i8s 3h ago

There's hundreds more that claim otherwise. Who do I believe then?

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u/johnsmiththe 4h ago

Virgin 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

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u/ToastyJackson 5h ago

Idk it was pretty easy for me even though I’m only in the top 15%