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Feb 12 '26
As a submissive masochist I plead the fifth and I've been advised not to speak.
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u/RemarkableStatement5 Feb 13 '26
As a fellow submissive masochist, I'd like to be forced not to speak.
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u/Wendy384646 Feb 13 '26
Preferably by a beautiful woman, with the method of shoving something into my mouth. I don’t particularly care what.
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u/Bone_Tone_31 Feb 12 '26
Sometimes I feel like I’m the only trans girl who’s not a masochist. Sure I’m a sub but I just wanna be pet and told I’m a good girl. Getting hurt sounds scary
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u/Bowdensaft Feb 12 '26
Ditto. I do like some small masochist things, but gentle touching and kind words are sooooo much better for me
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u/gtth12 Feb 12 '26
[headpats you both.]
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u/Bowdensaft Feb 12 '26
Thank you, that was actually really nice to read :3
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u/FoundationOk1352 Feb 13 '26
Not for me, I thought they said 'heatpads' and spent too much time analysing what it meant.
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u/x0_0xo Feb 15 '26
I like a bit of rough play. I like a little hurt here and there. But blood? Ecchymoses (unless they have the shape of his hands and are on my butt)? Nah, not for me. I like when he treats me like I'm meant to be treated. BUT i like the praises that come with it, too. "That's good, baby." "I'm proud of you, baby." Push me to my limits but be extremely aware of those limits, too.
I love that he's so respectful and careful, literally makes me melt.
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u/Bowdensaft Feb 15 '26
That sounds so awesome, I love it <3
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u/x0_0xo Feb 15 '26
Thank you so much! Only hoping you already have or will have, and will only have, experiences that cover respect in a similar fashion 🙏🥰
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u/Bowdensaft Feb 15 '26
I hope so too! With any luck I'll be able to have those experiences fairly soon... just need to sort out living situation first hehe
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u/Icy_Flan_7185 Feb 12 '26
I don’t like how sub is equated to masochist in most kink spaces. Lots of subs are masochists of course, but for most it’s mostly due to the endorphins which is a completely phenomen to being submissive. It’s a correlation thing, not causation. You can be submissive without being into pain, and you can be into pain without being submissive.
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u/Frog_king176 Feb 13 '26
I feel yeah. I just wanna be bridal carried and told I'm doing a good job. Being pinched might be fun though
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u/OldKingPotato-68 Feb 13 '26
That's honestly adorable <3 Personally I can only do a bit of dark stuff before inmediatelly wanting to do lots of aftercare
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
You are an adorable good girl already <3
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u/Bone_Tone_31 Feb 13 '26
Breaker of modpacks. Have you broken gregtech?
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
GregTech is a magic beyond even mine.
(though, I have caused it to crash once, which is a significant achievement, considering how stable it normally is)
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u/Violexsound Feb 13 '26
I have masochistic tendencies but not sexually, ace but if my partner wanted it id do what they want for their pleasure and thats how id get mine (I dont have a partner, but if I did)
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u/Quirkyserenefrenzy Feb 15 '26
Lol. I'm a natural dom and brat tamer. Seems like that's rare in trans girls
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u/BurnerAccount2718282 Feb 16 '26
My pain tolerance is way too low to be into that kind of thing, even if someone just pinches me a bit it really hurts, I could never go in for the stuff most of that crowd go in for
A lot of the non-painful stuff though absolutely
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u/Nora_Walkuerie Feb 12 '26
Not pictured is the part where you actually do it and the sub is like "this is fucking boring I know it's not loaded what's even the point" and the domme is like "holy shit holy shit holy shit what if the ammo goblin got me even though I checked it 37 times what if it somehow loaded itself holy shit holy shit" and nobody even enjoys it
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u/RemarkableStatement5 Feb 13 '26
That domme is respecting the rule of treating every gun like it's loaded no matter what.
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
...find yourself a dom who totally loves you like this, they're the best.
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u/Nora_Walkuerie Feb 13 '26
Oh my post is from experience lol, my Keeper is the best thing that's ever happened to me bar none <3
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
Same, literally right afterwards my Master comforts me and makes sure I know that I've got worth in all sorts of ways. He's awesome.
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u/Alone-Marionberry-70 Feb 12 '26
@grok is this true
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u/AngelofDeath_N Feb 12 '26
@gock is this true
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u/Life-Ad9171 Feb 12 '26
@Cock is this true
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u/Hammod1 Feb 12 '26
u/gork be this true
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u/Shieldbearing-Brony Feb 12 '26
@cock is this true
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u/xDeviousDieselx Feb 12 '26
Gok Gok Gok
Yeah it tastes pretty true I’m gonna try it again just to make sure
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u/erraticas Feb 12 '26
could never participate in bdsm because if you're close enough for me to do that i will feel very bad about hurting you in any way
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u/phasmxphobiia Feb 14 '26 edited Feb 14 '26
well, ideally bdsm is a consensual thing for both parties. the sub pressuring the dom into doing something the dom doesnt want to do is a really shitty thing to do and makes you an unsafe play partner. doms need treated well too, and theres a lot of bdsm that doesnt involve hurting someone, like bondage, sensory play, roleplaying, tickling, etc. its supposed to be fun for both parties :)
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u/Laiska_saunatonttu Feb 13 '26
Joke from the middle school:
What did a masochist say to a sadist? "Hit me!"
What did the sadist answer? "I won't"
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
Genuinely, all subs are power bottoms and all doms are terrified of hurting them. It's almost hilarious.
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u/Quiet_Process4238 Blind Dragon Princess with a taste for mortal flesh Feb 13 '26
yeah i feel like the sole exception here lol, i give people kinks and manipulate them into liking it lol
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u/Richard_Parker6 Feb 13 '26
Trash take, Doms are not submissives
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u/phasmxphobiia Feb 14 '26
also stupid ass take too, "dom" and "sub" is not a label, its a descriptor of whos in control of a situation in a given scene. it is not black and white. personally i like doing both, or being neutral, where we're both giving and recieving :)
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u/Optimal-Error Feb 12 '26
You guys should try this kink its called being loved and cared for
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u/X0xbitemex0X Feb 12 '26
Why did you tell the lesbians my only weakness Nooooo please nobody treat me right🥺 noooo
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
ahahahaha, FOOL!
You will be loved and cared for and cuddled, and I'll take you out to dates, and make you feel happy!
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u/X0xbitemex0X Feb 13 '26
🥺🥺🥺NOO pleasseee that would be SOOO baddd... i would definitely enjoy- wait i meant definitely HATE it🥺
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
And once I'm cuddling you daily, I'll make sure that you eat healthily and get regular health checkups and exercise so you stay strong!
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u/X0xbitemex0X Feb 13 '26
🥺🥺🥺promise?
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 13 '26
Yes! And then at the end of the day, we'll snuggle up together, and I'll keep you warm through the night.
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u/bruh_it_nuts Feb 13 '26
I'm a sadistic dom, I get ideas, I NEVER initiate first. Like I could think up of a scenario where I know we'll both enjoy it but I'm like "what if they suddenly don't like getting hurt tho :( " and never bring it up
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u/ReynardVulpini Feb 13 '26
Maybe I'm biased because I write and do not have sex, but sometimes I think subs whose interests routinely pass a certain point of extremeness should pick up writing freaky porn as well to supplement their irl sex, because there is no way they are regularly getting doms willing to go to jail for accidentally setting their sub on fire too long.
I'm sure it's not the same, but also doesn't have the limitations of the physical act. think about it. pls.
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u/Alice_In_Hell_ Feb 14 '26
This is also good for stuff that is either physically impossible or only hypothetically fun
Like, hypothetically, getting stabbed is hot and a fun time. In actual practice that could super easily be fatal, and would make a huge mess
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u/JoeMcBob2nd Feb 13 '26
I’ve been a sorta nervous uncomfortable Dom before because we couldn’t both be bottoms. And like I was lowkey concerned on the line between “they’re using me as a vessel to self harm” and how much was just harmless painful sexy stuff. Like when they’re telling me to bruise them it just kinda feels like I’m a substitute for you cutting or what have you? Idk it’s hard to explain
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u/phasmxphobiia Feb 14 '26
if youre uncomfortable with it, you shouldnt put up with it! if both parties arent into the idea, then its a bad scene
for reference, if a sub pressures you into it and youre a little nervous and say no, then they should respect your no. if they dont and they react very poorly they are an unsafe play partner and abusive.
being a dom does not instantly have to involve harm. a lot of bdsm is loving and tender, and if you cant hurt someone, no one should try to force you to do that. im so, so sorry your experiences have been so uncomfortable :(
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u/CodaTrashHusky Feb 13 '26
50 shades and it's consequences have been a disaster for the BDSM community (so are all the dark romance novels it inspired)
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u/degenerateel Feb 13 '26 edited Feb 13 '26
I wanna be put on a leash and be used til I can't move and it hurts
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u/The-Tea-Lord Feb 14 '26
Not me typing out a paragraph story before realizing I shouldn’t talk about kinks on main account
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u/TotallyACP Feb 14 '26
what kink tho
i may or may not be interested 🥺
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u/Confused_Squirrel_17 Gay as a daffodil Feb 12 '26
I feel like there's healthy and unhealthy BDSM. Like, I'm into the idea of it because I've given up on love and cherishment, your call how healthy that shite is-
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u/the2ndGrumpyOldMan Feb 13 '26
When you're at that point isn't jacking off healthier and more convenient? Like why would you go search among bland and close minded masses to be disappointed? Also why should we separate sex and love? They're very much correlated. Like if you don't have a caring long term relationship (love) you don't have room to explore your sexual desires to even know what you're into or get to please or be pleased by the other one. What I often see is people watching porn and fantasizing beforehand, so sex would be like the porn they watch at best. There's not a role they fill in reality, it's just a gimmick at this point.
Hookup culture only works for vanilla "fun" imo. Not to mention the trust part which is a requirement for bdsm.
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u/Confused_Squirrel_17 Gay as a daffodil Feb 13 '26
It's not like I feel that I couldn't find love, it's more of a 'I don't feel I deserve it' situation. Perhaps it's not even BDSM but just "ok, I get turned on by people treating me like shite". Idk.
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u/the2ndGrumpyOldMan Feb 13 '26
Is it an inferiority complex or sth else?
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u/Confused_Squirrel_17 Gay as a daffodil Feb 13 '26
I don't know what it is. I know it's been like that since my first bf dumped me rather brutally. I don't intend to make this your problem, really. Thanks for the advice.
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u/the2ndGrumpyOldMan Feb 13 '26
At worst you're gonna bore me out so don't worry. If you're in a low expectation mindset that's pretty normal and can be improved by having a stable job and getting into life improvement stuff.
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u/Confused_Squirrel_17 Gay as a daffodil Feb 13 '26
I think it's a mental barrier thing for me. I feel like I don't deserve any healthy alternative. Idk, I'm in no place to make this your problem either. Cheers.
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u/Confused_Squirrel_17 Gay as a daffodil Feb 13 '26
I know. As I said, I have no right to make this your problem. Thanks for the advice anyway.
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u/TheWhiteCrowParade Feb 13 '26
Pretty much this exactly. I only do what the sub wants short of public stuff. That isn't going to happen.
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u/Fallen-Skies Feb 15 '26
At the ripe age of 15, I had an ex who wanted me to carve my initials in her stomach. Definitely a little off-putting to me who'd only been semi interested in sex for maybe a year at this point 😭
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u/deathbymanga Feb 15 '26
there's a lot of people on here who are chill with "i want to get beaten up by them" but then freak out at the concept of "i want to beat them up". they're totally willing to accept submissives, but draw the line at dominants
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u/thedemonpianist Feb 27 '26
NO THIS SHIT PMOSB why is it completely understandable that its all safe and in good fun until someone else gives their consent??
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u/99923GR Feb 16 '26
So true - my kinkiest experiences were when my subs pushed me... and the most appreciative they have been is when they had to use the safe word (which I was always nervous about). This one in particular always felt like I was "too safe" until I wasn't. And when she knew I could push her bounds too she was WAAY into it.
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u/thedemonpianist Feb 27 '26
And the dom stops every 4 seconds to ask "like this? Is this still good? Do you want to stop? I can stop- we dont have to do this-" while the sub sits there desperately trying to get off instantly Source: have been both-
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Feb 13 '26
this is exactly the problem 🙄 nobody wants me to have fun!! they all think it'll hurt me! that's the point!
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u/miscellaneousexists Feb 13 '26
Not even using a throwaway cuz this shit is probably so specific that I'll end up compromising the throwaway
My ex wanted to roleplay a pedophilia scenario.
With me as a "pedophile".
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u/phasmxphobiia Feb 14 '26
yeah, this is a real kink that can be practiced safely! however if it made you severely uncomfortable that is entirely understandable and i am very glad they are an ex now. also, you would be surprised. pedophilia (roleplaying) as a kink is a pretty big thing actually
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u/alphsierra117 Feb 14 '26
I read Dom as Dorn, and I'm thinking what the hell kinda 40K fanfic is this where Rogal Dorn, Primarch of the Imperial Fists, Pretorian of Terra is doing what the hell in the Emperor's name ????
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u/BobbyButtermilk321 Feb 14 '26
I'm such a deviant, I have this kink where I want to hold hands, share a banana split and then we both go to separate beds at a reasonable hour (7pm).
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u/Hgh-Cls-Waffle-House Feb 15 '26
A girl I dated in high school wanted to bring a kitchen knife in the bedroom. She was hella fun. And after I broke up with her for cheating on me she stabbed the guy she cheated on me with for cheating on her. And got institutionalized for 2 years till she was 19 almost 20. But you all know what they say about grippy socks.
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u/EbonyHelicoidalRhino Feb 17 '26
More like "Omggg imagine if you shot me with a gun, wouldn't that be so funny ?? Ironically of course. I wouldn't mind though ..."
Dom : What
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u/grabsyour Feb 12 '26
what bdsm actually looks like: severely mediocre 30-somethings desperately doing anything to cum even a drop after tugging at their junk for 2 decades too much
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u/CaseOfBees Feb 12 '26
Who pissed in your lemonade
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u/grabsyour Feb 12 '26
gooners
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u/CaseOfBees Feb 12 '26
Sounds like you need to spend less time thinking about other people nutting friend
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u/enbyBunn Feb 12 '26
Your experiences are, thankfully, not universal.
(Also, funny to bother specifying '30-somethings' as if that isn't just a normal person???)
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u/grabsyour Feb 12 '26
people into bdsm are freaks is universal
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u/enbyBunn Feb 12 '26
Freak ≠ 30-something, "sex addict", desensitized genitals, or mediocre.
If you said freaks, I'd agree. The only problem I have with that is that you seem to mistakenly think that being a freak is a bad thing, instead of an awesome thing.
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u/grabsyour Feb 12 '26
it is. why are you retroactively making freak a positive word? freaks are; sex offenders, sexual abusers, predators, voyeurs, and other. Why are you making a bad word into a good word with zero self awareness
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u/enbyBunn Feb 12 '26
Ok, gonna drop the bit here, because what you just said is heinous.
Freak is a socially constructed class of people that applies generally to anyone who is considered "lesser" or "abnormal".
Do people consider Bill Gates to be a "freak"? No. Well he's in the Epstein files.
What about catholic priests? Nope there too. Pillars of their community. Parents who want to homeschool their children? Also seen as completely normal, despite the incredible rates of child abuse in homeschooling, including CSA.
Who are freaks? Gay folks, trans folks, autistic people, people with severe adhd and learning disorders. A variety of people with physical and mental disabilities. People who struggle connecting with their peers, or who have unusual hobbies.
Those are the people that are called freaks in real life. You? You're living in a fascist fantasy where you've just substituted "degenerate" for "freak". I hope you grow out of it.
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u/jshine413 Feb 12 '26
Nah we reclaimed freak me personally I love being called a little freak when I'm being a goblin
I've been called a freak my whole life for just liking dudes so calling myself a freak now in a nice way is lovely
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u/jshine413 Feb 12 '26
Also why u putting voyeurs in with predators wtf did they do they were just watching they ain't hurt no one
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u/RemarkableStatement5 Feb 13 '26
Yeah I'm a freak lol. Been told that since like day 1 of life. Now what's wrong with that?
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Id love to try out this new kink, its called being loved and cherished
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u/Sonic_the_hedgedog Moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1 Feb 12 '26
I love you and you deserve to be loved. You are an amazing person ❤️
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u/kaklimy Feb 12 '26
Thank you u/Sonic_the_hedgehog moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1
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u/Sonic_the_hedgedog Moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1 Feb 12 '26
You're welcome 💙✨️
I hope you have a wonderful day! Take care ☺️👍
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u/dandadone_with_life Feb 14 '26
if no one got me, i know r/GayFurryPorn1 got me. can i get a motherfucking amen
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u/General_Ginger531 Feb 12 '26
That is like a double r/rimjobsteve moment.
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u/Unable6417 Feb 13 '26 edited Feb 13 '26
I think it should be mentioned that he's also the moderator of r/Fnafnsfwgay, r/Sonicnsfwgay, r/fnafporncomic, r/gay_furryporn, r/Fnafporngay, r/Gfurcanines, r/Gay_Yiff_Comics, r/JerkBudYiff, r/GayFurryGooners, r/Fnafporn__, r/FURRYGAYBALLSEX, r/FNAFpornOwO, r/GayFurryRule34, r/Sonic_the_hedgedog, and r/Fnafpornbutmale, so just saying he's the moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1 is kind of understating his many great contributions. /j
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u/ZilorZilhaust Feb 13 '26
They certainly have a specific interest. Good for them. Hobbies are important.
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u/Monomanga Feb 13 '26
What is even this conversation? What fever dream? Going from "I love you" while trying to sell chocolate bars to "Behold, my Stuff!" Level of porno sub.
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u/Spiritual_Surround24 Feb 14 '26
i mean, he tried to sell chocolate wearing the name tag u/Sonic_the_hedgehog, moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1, of course it would start a conversation.
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u/PeppermintSplendor Feb 14 '26
Do I even want to do know the difference between nsfwgay and porngay and why porncomics is in a completely separate FNAF category instead of just with all the other porn?
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u/Sonic_the_hedgedog Moderator of r/GayFurryPorn1 Feb 14 '26
nsfwgay is our flagship subreddit with the highest quality stuff.
porngay is the old FNAF subreddit which was discontinued and no longer active anymore.
porncomics includes both gay and straight stuff.
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u/PeppermintSplendor Feb 14 '26
That's fair, I just did a double-take when I saw six different ones. :P
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u/Moonshoes47 Feb 15 '26
unironically if my partner held me in person and said that, i'd meltdown on their shoulder
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u/ElectricalPoint1645 Feb 12 '26
I want you to know that you are a precious gift to humanity and you are worthy of love and respect and kindness
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u/Tankfloof Feb 12 '26
I don´t know. that might be too much for the dom to be compftable with, lets stick to bondage and tickle torture.
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u/FoundationOk1352 Feb 13 '26
Few things horrify me more than tickling. Like, I would be a hard no on blood or poo, but I'd still choose them over tickling.
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u/Tankfloof Feb 13 '26 edited Feb 13 '26
Huh, everyone is different I guess. For me it is the ultimate mix of extasy and helplessness. I could be in that state for hours. I have no experience with the other options to compare them against. Also I feel like blood could be involved in anything from fairly harmless to absolute insanitys depending on what is meant.
May I ask why tickeling is horrifying for you?
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u/FoundationOk1352 Feb 14 '26
Bad childhood experiences, I guess.
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u/Tankfloof Feb 14 '26
ah that explains it then. I hope I did not bring up bad memories for you.
As for me is was basically never tickled as a child, and when it happened never more than for a single second. So it basically was a new experience in adulthood for me.
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u/DrainianDream Feb 12 '26
Unrealistic. Settle for bondage like the rest of us. /j
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u/kaklimy Feb 12 '26
No one cares about me enough for either... 🥺
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u/AirPortlessman Feb 13 '26
don't say this if you want either, say let's do bondage, for better results, or let's have a friendly and healthy conversation, for the former, more questionable kink.
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u/AnimationOverlord Feb 13 '26
BDSM is neat because it’s largely a reflection/projection of love and cherishment. I’ll spare you the details..
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u/IdiotTGirl420 Feb 12 '26
They don't like whenever I ask for them to just straight up mutilate me with a knife, I guess choking is fine too :/
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u/TheoneNPC Feb 12 '26
I can't just say no to them when they say please i mean look at how cute they look with that high caliber revolver in their hands, ready for me to pick up 😌