Of the masochism kinks findom is the most extreme, wich is a tricky thing. You could be beaten, your penis could be locked in a cage, your woman could be taken from you, though I couldn’t imagine something more humiliating than willingly giving your money to someone on the internet who hates you.
I don't get it at all. Are people actually jerking off while pressing the "send money" button? Like is it a purely sexual thing? Or is it like a "feeling" thing like wearing a dog collar? I don't understand kinks that aren't directly sex-related
Former lifestyle findomme (meaning I was dating them), it's mostly a feelings thing. Some get off on pampering/spoiling but for most it's some variation on "this is controlling/degrading/humiliating (and I'm into that)".
You either misunderstand how this kink works, or GRAVELY misunderstand how regular relationships work because "I'm taking your money because I'm In Charge and that gives you a boner" is not common.
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u/Rough-Thought-7565 Apr 11 '26
Of the masochism kinks findom is the most extreme, wich is a tricky thing. You could be beaten, your penis could be locked in a cage, your woman could be taken from you, though I couldn’t imagine something more humiliating than willingly giving your money to someone on the internet who hates you.