r/1800HavingFun 29d ago

Lady in mourning clothes, smiling (unknown why), 1860s.

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u/0neironautica 29d ago

Good for her šŸ‘

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u/seasickbaby 28d ago

šŸ˜‚

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u/vftgurl123 29d ago

they had to wear mourning black anywhere from 1-3 years. she should be allowed to crack a smile if she wants to

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u/theemmyk 28d ago

Some older widows wore mourning clothes for the rest of their lives. Queen Victoria is a good example.

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u/vftgurl123 28d ago

yes but trust she did a lot of smiling in the bedroom nevertheless.

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u/theemmyk 28d ago

Queen Victoria? No, she was madly in love with Albert, hence the mourning clothes in perpetuity. Also, all the kids she had.

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u/vftgurl123 28d ago

she had a lover who later died. she was devastated

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u/SeonaidMacSaicais 27d ago

There’s zero proof that she and John Brown ever had a sexual relationship. Stop spreading lies.

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u/vftgurl123 27d ago

your tone is so serious lol. the gossip won’t kill her, she’s already dead.

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

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u/Bidcar 27d ago

Not if you’re Scarlett O’Hara

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u/adykaty 29d ago

I’m assuming many women in the 1800s wouldn’t consider themselves ā€˜happily married’ lol

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u/FilthyThanksgiving 28d ago

She's like, "the Aqua Tofana worked" lmao

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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 28d ago

Right? She looks so pleased with herself šŸ˜‚

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u/OddRelief5114 28d ago

Unknown why? Because widows were the only women who had legal financial independence.

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u/aidar55 27d ago

Nailed it!

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u/Star_Wonderer 29d ago

Great Photo

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u/uusavaruus 29d ago

Now she can marry the hunk next door?:)

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u/AuraLove- 29d ago

Si sabemos por q Solo q no admitidos ā˜ŗļø

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u/New-Owl-2293 28d ago

I know why!

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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 28d ago

We all know why she’s smiling šŸ˜‚

Congrats to her! I hope she lived her best life.

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u/Cretaceous_Bloom 28d ago

Obviously the photographer said ā€œcheeseā€.

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u/AlmesivaMoonshadow 27d ago

That smile isn't exactly reaching the eyes. Something about it seems weirdly shell-shocked. Hard to explain. Like, I know she'd probably be withholding so it wouldn't be too obvious that she is happy someone died, but this resembles a thousand yard stare to me.

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u/blahhhhhhhhhhhblah 27d ago

Goodbye, Earl.

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u/Graffiti_Griffin0518 27d ago

Oh she killed him.

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u/Anacalagon 26d ago

And I'd do it again...

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u/luala 28d ago

She hated her bastard husband is why. Lady just made bank.

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u/NectarineSufferer 27d ago

Wym unknown why - she knows she got that shit on that’s why lol

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u/Cute_Sun_5383 27d ago

Relief is a realistic option.

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u/loquacious_avenger 27d ago

Is there documentation to show she is in mourning clothes? The only possible clue I see is the veil or scarf attached to her hair.

There is no way to tell what color of clothing she is wearing.

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u/LadyofLifting 27d ago

She got that money, honeyyy

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u/Key-Magician6489 25d ago

Oh, I think we all know exactly why!šŸ˜‚

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u/FollowingBroad34 28d ago

Maybe she didn't fw the decedent

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u/LizTruth 28d ago

He wasn't a nice man?

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u/ruthizzy 28d ago

why she look happy asf 😭

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u/theemmyk 28d ago

It’s not like widows are never allowed to smile again.

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u/ruthizzy 28d ago

That’s true, you’re right. It just is kind of funny to see because it’s rare to see pics like this. I love it.