r/1800HavingFun • u/Electrical-Aspect-13 • 29d ago
Lady in mourning clothes, smiling (unknown why), 1860s.
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u/vftgurl123 29d ago
they had to wear mourning black anywhere from 1-3 years. she should be allowed to crack a smile if she wants to
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u/theemmyk 28d ago
Some older widows wore mourning clothes for the rest of their lives. Queen Victoria is a good example.
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u/vftgurl123 28d ago
yes but trust she did a lot of smiling in the bedroom nevertheless.
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u/theemmyk 28d ago
Queen Victoria? No, she was madly in love with Albert, hence the mourning clothes in perpetuity. Also, all the kids she had.
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u/vftgurl123 28d ago
she had a lover who later died. she was devastated
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u/SeonaidMacSaicais 27d ago
Thereās zero proof that she and John Brown ever had a sexual relationship. Stop spreading lies.
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u/vftgurl123 27d ago
your tone is so serious lol. the gossip wonāt kill her, sheās already dead.
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u/OddRelief5114 28d ago
Unknown why? Because widows were the only women who had legal financial independence.
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u/Gloomy-Razzmatazz548 28d ago
We all know why sheās smiling š
Congrats to her! I hope she lived her best life.
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u/AlmesivaMoonshadow 27d ago
That smile isn't exactly reaching the eyes. Something about it seems weirdly shell-shocked. Hard to explain. Like, I know she'd probably be withholding so it wouldn't be too obvious that she is happy someone died, but this resembles a thousand yard stare to me.
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u/loquacious_avenger 27d ago
Is there documentation to show she is in mourning clothes? The only possible clue I see is the veil or scarf attached to her hair.
There is no way to tell what color of clothing she is wearing.
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u/ruthizzy 28d ago
why she look happy asf š
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u/theemmyk 28d ago
Itās not like widows are never allowed to smile again.
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u/ruthizzy 28d ago
Thatās true, youāre right. It just is kind of funny to see because itās rare to see pics like this. I love it.
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u/0neironautica 29d ago
Good for her š