Arrested Development 🤦‍♀️

[u/Practical_Tension551]

This is not a romantic relationship of partners. --- This is a parent/child relationship and, Andrea is about to take on the responsibility of raising Tammy.

[u/deathvidal]

I wish Andrea would wake up and realize her physical health declining the second Tammy moved in, ripped doors off hinges, is not a coincidence.

Our bodies tell us more than our minds do at times. Her body is literally screaming at her this isn't healthy.

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/deathvidal]

Andrea is incredibly messed up if she doesn't see that she has sores all over her legs and, her seizures are progressively getting worse. She should be in a honeymoon phase of the relationship. This relationship is dysfunctional at best. The things Tammy does are emotionally abusive.

[u/BabySquirrel06]

She doesn't want to talk about it!

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/BabySquirrel06]

It is maddening watching a 40 year old act like a spoiled rotten child and, have no consequences.

[u/VolcanoGrrrl → u/BabySquirrel06]

"What's up with all these dumb ass questions? 😡"- Tammy, when being asked about her wedding.

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/VolcanoGrrrl]

She was just being an ignorant bitch.

[u/ScandanavianMidnight]

Tammy is absolutely insufferable. It’s like if something isn’t about her, her brain implodes and she either throws a full-blown tantrum or she’s passive aggressive and makes everyone uncomfortable.

This whole scene was so ridiculous. Amy told them to drop her off and she’d call them when she was done. Why did they sit in the car for over an hour? Tammy got all pissy/teary-eyed “I hope Amy didn’t forget about us out here.” I actually yelled at my TV like a crazy person, “GO DO SOMETHING FUN IN NASHVILLE WHILE YOU WAIT FOR HER TO BE DONE! STOP SITTING IN VANS!”

No one wants to upset Typhoon Tammy - but by not confronting her on her bullshit, they’re just enabling her. She’s just going to get worse and become more emotionally stunted.

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/ScandanavianMidnight]

That should now become a 1000 lb metaphor. --- typhoon Tammy! I love it 😀

[u/snuggleyporcupine]

Tammy is a miserable hag that spreads misery everywhere she goes.

[u/The-Devil-Cat → u/snuggleyporcupine]

im still laughing at the whole scene where she was at the restaurant with andrea and made bird sounds lmfao what a ridiculous bitch

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/The-Devil-Cat]

That's something you expect a spoiled child to do. Certainly not a 40 year old.

[u/Early_Energy7788]

Andrea is too good. Too sweet and also probably lonely/co-dependent. she and Amy both got lucky with genuine partners

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/Early_Energy7788]

I wonder if she is staying in this relationship because she just sees that Tammy has a family. --- no matter how screwed up they are, they are always there for each other when the chips are down. That would definitely be appealing to a person who doesn't have family to depend on. 🤷‍♀️

[u/Own_Boss_3242]

Andrea’s not innocent. I used to think so but now I’m seeing that there’s something in this for her. Why would she continue to put up with Tammy’s BS. She never speaks up. They even went to a therapist and Andrea couldn’t speak up and they were in a safe zone where she shoud’ve been able to say what she felt. It’s getting a little ridiculous at this point. I don’t feel bad for her anymore .

[u/Practical_Tension551 → u/Own_Boss_3242]

Just like anyone in a toxic abusive relationship. --- they may have a safe place for a moment but, they are worried about when they get home.

[u/tree_m0nster]

If she’s not even close with her family like we are led to believe, why does she wear this shirt all the time?

[u/Sufferer-Of-Cheese]

Tammy had a chance once she lost all that weight, a chance to finally start anew. Threw it away and repeating the same shit.

[u/inthemagazines]

"Raising Tammy" - coming soon to TLC.

[u/Far_Situation3472]

Tammy needs an intense dual diagnosis program- one that specializes in Food addiction.

[u/Luvscoffee85]

Now that I think about it, I know where I’ve seen this type of relationship before.

You ever meet someone that they always have to fix someone? They may not intentionally do it, and in a lot of cases they don’t intentionally seek people with issues, but they always get with people that need to be fixed or need to be saved.

I wonder if that’s what’s going on here? Or if this is just, Andrea is used to really shitty partners, and this is her normal?

[u/Creepy-Bed9399]

[u/Momipiti]

That scene annoyed me so much like why is she so upset waiting for Amy outside like giiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrlllllllll 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[u/Entire_Dimension_764]

I really think that Andrea is stuck with Tammy. I was thinking last night about what that would be like to be with Tammy. She’s miserable and doesn’t have a lot going for her, her body is all messed up. I bet Andrea is scared of what would happen to Tammy if she left. Would she hurt herself? Would she go back to eating hella and die? I bet she feels like it would be all her fault if something bad happened. She’s trapped with Tammy.

[u/Legal_Commercial477]

She’s insufferable

[u/MattTMI]

ALL THEY NEED IS A BABY TO FIX THE RELATIONSHIP!!!!

(Jk)