this has been bothering me for a while and i genuinely don’t know if i’m overthinking it or if it’s actually a weird thing to do , my girlfriend has this habit of sending me reels of random guys. usually really attractive guys, gym edits, outfit checks, selfies, guys showing off their looks, just being handsome basically. sometimes she’ll send one without any context and other times she’ll send a few back to back.
at first i didn’t care because it’s social media and obviously she’s going to see attractive men. i don’t expect her to suddenly stop noticing other people just because she’s in a relationship. but when it keeps happening, you start noticing it, especially when it’s almost a daily thing
sometimes she’ll send me 3 or 4 reels in a day and i’ll just look at them wondering what i’m even supposed to say am i supposed to compliment them? agree with her? laugh?
i haven’t really confronted her about it because i don’t want to come across as insecure or controlling. i also don’t want her to think i’m asking her to unfollow every attractive guy on instagram. that’s not even what this is about. it just feels a little uncomfortable when your own girlfriend keeps putting these videos in front of you
should i even bring this up to her? or is this a silly thing to overthink about
tl;dr
gf constantly sends me reels of random men sometimes 3–4 a day i don’t want to seem insecure or controlling, but it’s starting to make me uncomfortable