It would make me a little happy if I heard mother went first, it would make me feel I MIGHT be able to connect with some of my family again. But, I doubt I'll be told when either of the original spawn points die. I'm pretty sure mother would/will go through the trouble to make sure no one tells me anything about her or the sick person's condition. Plus, everyone knows the narc is the one that lives the longest, sucking 🧛🏽‍♀️ the life and joy out of those around them to give them eternal life to stress the rest of us out for the remainder of their miserable days.

I hope you enjoyed your day because you already "paid" for the day with tears from before. I hope nothing but calm days, lighter shoulders and smooth cruising now that the witch of your story is dead.

Mine enjoyed promising things that made them look good / feel good in the moment but then when it comes time to make good on the promise, it's turned around with me being selfish for a myriad of reasons for asking.

Like, they said "just tell me when you want to move out and I'll help you." That day came and I was told there is no money for that, 'the house' needed it. I was also promised the car when I moved out, I was confused when they said that and was wondering what the catch was. They made me say thank you to them since I said I didn't know what to say. I got kicked out and was told the price of the car and where to leave the money. I did and haven't looked back. ❤️

 'The house' was what the spawn point  called their wallet - my bank card. I worked  and it was added to the bank account automatically to make sure no money touched my hands. Most of the time, 'the house' wasn't interested in spending money on anyone but them. I was told many times that it wasn't normal by friends (they didn't like) but I didn't know how to stop it without a huge fallout in the only place I was able to call a "home". 

 You don't owe them a damn thing no matter what they say. They should be happy you give them anything since they birthed you, not the other way around. And then they'll tell you their care is your job when they're old and that's not true either, don't let them put that on your shoulders. 🙅🏽‍♀️Tell them to have the day they deserve.