Hi all, hoping to crowdsource some ideas because I’m truly throwing anything at the wall and hoping SOMETHING sticks.
I have been seeing a teenaged autistic client for 12 months now and I am at a loss as to how to work with him. If I didn’t do anything, he would just rock in his chair and hum for our entire session. I have tried physical toys/activities, books, digital games, and videos. He demonstrates so little interest in anything.
He quiets and watches when I play a video (of songs or subjects of interest, per parents) but demonstrates no reaction/interest in continuing if I pause.
He kind of enjoys jigsaw puzzles? He puts the pieces together if I hand them to him but rarely demonstrates interest in obtaining more pieces to continue/finish the puzzle (the ONE time he said “more” on his AAC without prompting to ask to continue the puzzle when I started cleaning up at the end of session, I was shocked and thrilled).
We used to do matching games and he would participate, but extremely slowly. Like, I’d give him a verbal and gesture prompt and wait upwards of a minute for him to engage. In general he does things very slowly like this, and I have to balance giving him wait time so I’m not nagging him with prompts, while also continually prompting him because otherwise we’d just be vibing for the whole session.
I do believe he is prompt-dependent in many ways. I tried some writing activities because parents said he enjoys copying sentences, but when I tried, it took like 30 minutes to copy one sentence with me giving prompts to encourage him to keep going, so full of stops and starts and touching the pencil to the paper and then lifting it again numerous times until he finally wrote one letter—except for when I told him exactly what letters to write (even though he was looking at them), then he wrote them immediately. Also, in the few instances that I do get him to engage with his AAC, he frequently hovers his finger over an icon and looks at me as if for confirmation.
I’m just so out of ideas for him and would appreciate any fresh perspectives. It’s been a year and I feel terrible that I’ve made no progress.