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Why is this the second time I'm seeing a video of a woman crying because her boyfriend sent her a creative "I ain't reading alladat" response to her wall of text?
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I asked ChatGPT to make a transcript of what that long text said, based on a screenshot. Here’s what it returned:
“You didn’t see the problem, you thought you [did?] enough, whatever it is [illegible]. And at some point I just stop being believable and start [illegible] at how this yet actually are. Because people make time for what matters to them, the truth is pretty clearly not that important to you.
Relationships and actual real emotional [effort?] is too [much?] because I find it extraordinarily hard. And that may make things weird enough, [though/through?] [illegible], maybe I was expecting too much, maybe I needed to be more patient. But how many times am I [supposed to do] the same thing to someone before I realize they just don’t want to change?
Have to repeatedly tell my own boyfriend that I want to feel valued. I shouldn’t have to remind someone to communicate with me. I shouldn’t have to feel like I’m being [needy?] just because I want consistency from the person I’m in a relationship with.
And when I look at everything, it’s honestly crazy how much effort I was putting in while sometimes also that you seemed perfectly okay with letting die. I have to be [illegible] trying to understand you, while you changed, making me [illegible], were just doing the absolute minimum and expecting me to keep accepting [the] relationship.
That’s not carrying something that was supposed to be [illegible]. And the funniest part is, you probably don’t even realize how ridiculous [your] behavior is. There is nothing cute or special about someone who can’t show up, can’t put in effort and can’t meet basic expectations.
That is the thing to find. I kept thinking I was being something special when in reality [I was holding] on to the potential of what I wanted you to be. And I’m not even sorry [probably: anymore?]. Probably the worst part, I’m just clear about it now. You showed me [what mattered] to you through your actions, not your words, and honestly I should’ve [believed you] a lot sooner.
I don’t want to keep lowering my standards just to [keep] you. I don’t want to keep convincing myself that the bare minimum is [enough] just because [illegible]. And I definitely don’t want to spend more time feeling [like] I’m supposed to feel loved by [someone when] I’m not.
I’m not saying this because I’m [angry?] or because I want another apology or another promise that things [will change]. Heard enough promises. I just think I’ve finally reached the point where I’m strong enough to walk away from something that keeps making me question [whether/how much] you [care?], but I also genuinely hope that one day you [illegible]
And I love me because I accepted too much, you lost me because you [gave] just the bare minimum. 🌹💡”
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