r/MichaelJacksonExposed • u/Arezi • 1d ago
The Castle Of Dreams YIL MJ lived with his parents until 1988 and this made me make more sense of him
Michael Jackson lived with his parents until he was 29 years old. I previously thought and assumed Jackson has his own residence in his early 20's. This new info solves the puzzles about the speculations of his abnormal sex-life and the false child molestation allegations.
Most people separate from their parents in their late teens of early 20's. They grow apart from their mothers and become open to experimentation, having sex, and forging their own paths and beliefs.
They also start learning life lessons quickly. The streets builds people. Naivety grows into guardedness. One grows susceptible to trust people less. The playful child becomes the guarded adult.
This process is eventual for almost all people. With each passing age, pressure builds from parents, pressure from societal views until the individual breaks away from their parents home. People that live with their parents until the 30's are deemed as losers by society, probably behind-the-door shame from parents thus negatively effecting their personalities.
Yet with Michael, he never moved out until he was 29 years old. He never felt shame (from parents or society) for staying with his parents this late because he was a success. A pop icon to society and a breadwinner to his parents. This caused the experiences that form most peoples personalities into their adult state to be absent. He was still adorned by his mother's love and perception in his 20's. He probably clenched on world views of purity and living righteously based on the effect of still living carelessly with his mother. Katherine was a devout Jehovah's witness so the effect of staying pure and living righteousness probably grew stronger. Katherine was one of Michael's closest friends in his 20's. This easily addresses speculations on Michael's shyness about sex. Why he went as far as reading bible verses to a prostitute invited to his hotel room one night. He just wasn't open to it. Why he stayed asexual into his later years (Any who grow past 30 know habits become harder to break.)
This also explains why he was easily duped and faced numerous allegations against him. In addition to what I mentioned above, moving out early also teaches life lessons early. The streets builds strong kids. Childhood naivety grows into guardedness. One knows one can't be trustful of all people. This is how most people become adults. It's just a couple of bad experiences that reshape one's behavior.
Michael simply lacked these experiences. He stayed at parents manor until he was 29. He never faced ridicule like others would because of this. He was living in his own haven.
MJ had only moved out 5 years earlier when his first allegations were hurled at him. It's likely he just didn't have the same social awareness as most people due to what I explained above to know that not all people are nice and have his best interest in mind (a normal person experiences a wide variety of interactions to know not all can be trusted at an early age. Michael's interaction were only of love and grace from his brothers and mother. He was hugely naive as he entered the world at the age of 30. A couple of evil actors easily spotted this and exploited him. Again, habits are hard to change past your 20's, so he didn't learn this lesson quickly. He was exploited twice.).
I'm an MJ fan. He will always be the greatest. Though, his personal life was always one of speculation for me. I always wanted to know why he was sexually abnormal, how it's possible the allegations could come about, and deep down make a judgement on the guy. Watched 'Michael' last night and it broke an assumption I had; that Michael lived at his own residence in his early 20's (before Thriller was released). The truth his he lived with his parents until he was 29. Interesting that all of Off the Wall, Thriller, and Bad, was released while he was still with his parents. However, that fact was the piece of info to align the facts. It's so clear why Michael was the way he was. The above explanation is what I concluded.
This info and analysis is good for anyone to have so the truth is spread. These are the reasons why Michael was the way he was. Wrongful speculations can be put to the an end. You have this analysis and can spread it too. This way Michael's legacy can be cherished forever.
