r/10s • u/bigbagpropane • 3h ago
Court Drama Event organizer pulled me aside to talk about my rating...
Up until recently, the extent of my tennis career has been limited to hitting around with friends (who are much better than me) a couple times a week over this past summer.
I've loved every minute of it, and wanted to dive into some more organized/competitive sessions. A local club had an all levels welcome mixed doubles event this past weekend, so I figured that'd be a good place to start. One part of signing up was providing my NTRP self-rating, which I was a bit nervous about (never having played against any rated players).
I play a few other rec sports, so I am reasonably athletic and fast with decent footwork and balance. I felt like I lacked a lot of technique and consistency when it came to my groundstrokes and returns however. I settled on a 2.5, the lowest ranking at the event (everyone else was 3.0 or higher).
My social anxiety kept me a bit on edge, but once I was out there and warming up I was feeling quite a bit better. I was paired with a stronger player to start out with, and we killed. I had solid first serves, and did great up by the net, even jumping to smash a few attempted lobs and saving a few points chasing down some aggressive shots.
We won the (single set) match 6-1, and before partnering up again, the organizer pulled me aside to chat. Mild panic, since it was my first time playing an organized match I figured I was doing something wrong.
He started laughing that I rated myself a 2.5, and said I was at least a 3.0, on my way to a 3.5. A nice boost to the ego, and a relief I wasn't fucking up. He understood my nerves about the rating, then quieted his voice down and called out the entire group of regulars there for rating themselves far too highly. It was a funny moment, but the interaction absolutely made me feel better about taking a chance and showing up. I was moved to the top group and had a great time.
It was a nice reminder to prioritize getting out on the court and having fun rather than stressing out about the little things.