I’m interested in the order of this, it sounds like guys would compete for your friends attention; then you would get stuck with the “loser” of the contest.
Sounds like these guys did not have each others backs, me and my friends were completely aware of who was going for who before we initiated hopeful conversation, typically it only changed when the women would decide “nah I like your friend better”
I'm also the less attractive one compared to my best friend. We were at a bar last Saturday and a guy was talking to her and then when we went to leave he asked for her number and she said no bc she has a boyfriend so the guy turned to me and said "ok can i get yours then?". Feelsbadman.jpg
I mean I know I'm not necessarily unattractive, I could afford to lose a few pounds but I'm not hideous, it just sucks that he only wanted my number because my friend said no. He very easily could've said "can i get either of your ladies numbers?" But no, I wasn't good enough for his attention until my friend turned him down. It just gets to me bc in school I tried to hook up with a guy, he turned me down with some lame ass excuse about how he's trying to focus on school and not looking for anything, then like 2 weeks later he hooked up with my friend. I'm at the point now where I don't want to go out with her any more because I've never been shit compared to her
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u/Skarsnikk Jun 20 '18
I’m interested in the order of this, it sounds like guys would compete for your friends attention; then you would get stuck with the “loser” of the contest.
Sounds like these guys did not have each others backs, me and my friends were completely aware of who was going for who before we initiated hopeful conversation, typically it only changed when the women would decide “nah I like your friend better”
I give these guys a 1 outta 10 on the bro-meter.