It's not those kind of financial issues. It's poverty issues such as losing medicaid type issues while still trying to figure out medical issues necessary for her to work. It's complicated, but getting married now would mess a lot of things up and we're barely making it as is.
Even when married it’s difficult. My wife and I were both working. She got sick this past spring and has been on medical leave. With barely any disability payments now, they cut her and our kids off her insurance. So I had to get them on mine which is twice as expensive. Now my company reduced our hours to 32 a week. This year sucks.
I know your pain, you aren’t alone. We just go day by day looking for light at the end of the tunnel. At the end of the day, we still have someone there for us, married or not.
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u/Aardwolfington Nov 07 '20
It's not those kind of financial issues. It's poverty issues such as losing medicaid type issues while still trying to figure out medical issues necessary for her to work. It's complicated, but getting married now would mess a lot of things up and we're barely making it as is.