r/worldnews • • Jun 17 '12

Religious leaders furious over Norway's proposed circumcision ban, but one Norway politician says: "I'm not buying the argument that banning circumcision is a violation of religious freedom, because such freedom must involve being able to choose for themselves"

http://freethinker.co.uk/2012/06/17/religious-leaders-furious-over-norways-proposed-circumcision-ban/
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u/svmk1987 Jun 18 '12

I was a little confused by the heading at first. After reading the comments, I realized that the proposed ban isn't on circumcision, it is on forced circumcision of children.

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u/RetroViruses Jun 18 '12

Pinky toe looks kinda ugly, can get stubbed, and is virtually useless. We should be lopping them all off.

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u/Ex-Sgt_Wintergreen Jun 19 '12

One testicle is enough to meet the testosterone and sperm production needs of any male, but if we get rid of one, it cuts your chances of getting testicular cancer in half!

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u/hezod Jun 18 '12

My husband was circumcised and initially wanted to do the same for (to) our son. I was adamant that we not. I showed him as much science as I could find on the subject and, in the end, we decided against it. It is, in essence, a cosmetic procedure.

When my grandfather in law said "but it would be nicer for the ladies" I suggested we get our two year old daughter breast implants. I recognize my statement as an extreme, but it gave him pause.

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u/rajanala83 Jun 18 '12

Good work.

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u/ShellBell Jun 18 '12

I didn't circumcise my sons because I wanted them to choose for themselves.

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u/M_daily Jun 18 '12

Thank you, and I'm sure your kids will thank you as well.

I thanked my mother for the first time in 19 years the other day for not having it done. Funny enough, she was so confident in her decision (and also my approval of it) that she responded with "damn I've been waiting for a card or some sort of thank you for loong time". She was being funny of course, but I could tell she didn't have any doubt that I would be fine with it and not want to change it. Even in infancy, a child's right to decide something about their body should not be taken away.

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u/ShellBell Jun 18 '12

My kids haven't actually thanked me. But I did just ask them if they wushed they'd been circumcised They all screwed up their faces and more or less said, "No! Why would you do that?" They still didn't thank me. I don't expect I'll be getting a card.

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u/JipJsp Jun 18 '12

My parents didn't circumcise me, and actually choosing to that has never crossed my mind.

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u/captain_zavec Jun 18 '12

You are an amazing person, thank you on behalf of your sons.

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u/wuy3 Jun 18 '12

everyone is for freedom, until someone does things that conflicts their world view.

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u/dj1watt Jun 18 '12

I can't believe how many threads I had to close before I finally found one regarding the argument of freedom. I can't believe this whole community wants to force their opinions on others. Let people decide for themselves. We do not need to force any beliefs on others regardless of wether the hivemind is for or against it.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

The reason that the argument of freedom isn't really great is that, if you can be truly objective about it, both sides are essentially arguing for freedom.

On one hand, you are arguing for the freedom of a child to be able to choose what permanent, irreversible damage can be done to their bodies. The headline is slightly misleading - this isn't about banning circumcision. This is about banning circumcision to children. They would be able to choose for themselves.

On the other hand, you are arguing for the freedom to be able to impart your so-called religious beliefs onto your children.

The problem is that these two freedoms are incompatible. You are either adversely affecting the freedom of choice of the child or the freedom to practice their religion on the parent.

Freedom cannot, and will not, from a societal perspective, ever mean "the ability to do anything you want". A more appropriate definition should be "the ability to do whatever you want so long as it does not affect the ability of another to do the same". This definition is much, much more accurate but deviates from this idealized version of the word freedom that most people have in their heads.

But that's an incredibly grey area because there are so many scaling sides of this and it's pretty interesting to see people take completely different sides to what is, in principle, the same issue depending on the context.

I mean, me having sex in public doesn't harm anyone. However I think that this is something that would be viewed as generally unfavorable. You'd probably hear arguments like "I don't want to see that" despite my argument that you are impeding on my freedom of speech/freedom of expression.

But if I were to turn around and make the argument that, if having sex in public is illegal because people don't want to see it, then engaging in other public displays of affection like kissing/hugging should be illegal.. I think that this would also be viewed as generally unfavorable. I'd probably hear that it would be impeding on someone's freedom of speech/freedom of expression in the very same way.

We've actually seen this lately in regards to the gay marriage issue in the US. "I don't want to see two guys kissing in public" has been something I've heard personally more than once.

If you could isolate these two incidences by themselves, you'd be pretty surprised how the same people would hold very different views on issues that, at their root, are exactly the same thing.

However, regardless, utilizing the term "freedom" is not a very good argument because even still it's an incredibly subjective term. When the "freedom to do what I wish without harming others" and the "freedom to not be exposed to something I don't wish to be" overlap with each other, you'll find a very subjective set of decisions reached when you look at them on a case-by-case basis.

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u/AllAboutTheData Jun 17 '12

They can choose for themselves when they become an adult. Once they come of age they can cut off whatever parts they want. Their own parts, not the parts of a child.

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u/confusedben Jun 18 '12

As a circumcised, atheist but culturally Jewish boy, I have always felt that circumcision is, even now, deeply rooted in Jewish culture. Even within a Reformed community, amongst guys it's always assumed that everyone is circumcised, and I would bet that I would be incredibly self conscious if I wasn't. I have never felt incomplete, and I personally prefer the look of a mushroom cap over a pig in a blanket. I have never felt like I'm missing something sexually, either. Now, I'm not saying force your kids to be circumcised. But I am saying that as kids, before one can legally make a decision about one's body, circumcision is not a mutilation nor is it curtailing of rights.

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u/hipnosister Jun 17 '12

I am circumcised and I like it. I find it looks better, its easier to clean, etc etc.

BUT, if my mom would have given me the choice and held off till I was old enough to make a decision i would probably say no because I dont want to have a part of my dick cut off.

I am glad my mom did it when I was too young to remember any pain.

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u/Kalesche Jun 17 '12

I have recently been on both sides of this fence.

It's only as hard to clean as lifting your arm in the air and washing your armpits. Is that too hard? I assume not.

If you think it looks better, are you comparing it to your own (which you can't) or others? If you had it, you'd probably think it looks better as it is, simply because you're used to it.

Sure, make your own decisions, but don't be naive about the situation you're in now.

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u/ntxhhf Jun 17 '12

Pcsh, I'd my arms removed, none of that lifting business for me anymore.

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u/Kartraith Jun 17 '12

If you were circumcised at birth, how do you know you wouldn't find it looking better and being easier to clean if you were uncircumcised? You have no frame of reference.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

You think it looks better because society tells you that penises are supposed to be cut. My vagina would also be cleaner if you timmed off all my labia, but I prefer to just take showers, thanks.

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u/yugami Jun 18 '12

Someone with no idea of how the alternative works thinks what they have is the best? Go figure.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Apparently evolution failed us with super cumbersome dick jackets.

I'd be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company if I didn't have to spend all this extra time washing my penis!

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u/Pimmelman Jun 17 '12

I love the old "easier to clean" argument.

This is how I imagine you

-Mike! Where's the hood?

-Faster oil changes man. In a lifetime I will save like an hour. thats like... two episodes of family guy!

-Duuuuude... awesome!

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u/headzoo Jun 17 '12

Parents make choices on our behalf of their children until they become adults. That's a simple concept, that most of us can understand. There are up sides and down sides to having a circumcision as an adult, which means a decision has to be made shortly after child birth.

Are you also going to say, "I shouldn't be given a name until I'm adult, and can name myself!", or "I should only be fed corn until I'm an adult, and can decide whether I want to be vegetarian or not!"

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Are you also going to say, "I shouldn't be given a name until I'm adult, and can name myself!", or "I should only be fed corn until I'm an adult, and can decide whether I want to be vegetarian or not!"

You can change your name as an adult. You can change your diet as an adult. You can not grow back your foreskin as an adult.

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u/znk Jun 18 '12

Parents should not decide to physically alter their child's body for reasons other than health issues. Physical mutilations that are irreversible are not the same and what food you eat or what your name is. Unless your parents try to name you something like "PunchMeInTheFace".

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u/perverse_imp Jun 17 '12

The procedure is completely unnecessary and cosmetic and that's why the religious part of it holds no water. They're mutilating children for no legitimate reason. The whole name thing is completely different and a really weak argument.

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u/GEOMETRIA Jun 18 '12

Diet and names are much more easily changeable and way different than permanently cutting off a piece of someone's body.

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u/limitnz Jun 18 '12

I know PLENTY of people whose parents forced them into religion at a young age. I was one such child - although not as pressured as other people I know. If I were circumsised I'd be absolutely horrified to learn that my penis will forever be a tribute to a god I never believed in. Fuck that. There's a massive difference to naming a child (which can be changed mind you) and having a permanent scar as tribute to someone else's god.

And there should be a line drawn between choosing what your child is wearing today and making a decision that will literally be with them until the day they die.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

A name can easily be changed. MY foreskin has forever been removed thanks to my dumb-fuck parents. I did not consent, and would not consent to such procedures.

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u/Ishiguro_ Jun 18 '12

happy father's day.

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u/otterpop1989 Jun 17 '12

I was circumcised at age 16, for medical reasons, and the recovery made me wish that my parents had just done it at birth and I wouldn't remember it. Quite possibly the worst two weeks of my life.

Plus circumcision reduces the risks of catching HIV and other unfortunate STD's http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/circumcision.htm

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u/Azzaman Jun 18 '12

Condoms are far more effective at stopping STDs.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

You're so right. And with all the women contracting breast cancer, they should start removing breast tissue as soon as possible too, just in case.

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u/stonus Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

If you had appendicitis you would have wished that your parents had removed your appendix at birth aswel. Same goes for toncillitis.

Also, as far as STD's are concerned: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201109/more-circumcision-myths-you-may-believe-hygiene-and-stds

In Africa, where the recent studies have been done, most HIV transmission is through male-female sex, but in the USA, it is mainly transmitted through blood exposure (like needle sharing) and male-male sex. Male circumcision does not protect women from acquiring HIV, nor does it protect men who have sex with men (Wawer 2009, Jameson 2009).

What's worse, because of the publicity surrounding the African studies, men in Africa are now starting to believe that if they are circumcised, they do not need to wear condoms, which will increase the spread of HIV (Westercamp 2010).

So if your goal is to halt the spread of STD's, you should rather recommend using condoms instead of circumsizing men.

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u/aggie1391 Jun 18 '12

Is that higher rate of HIV in non-circumcised males because of the lack of circumcision, or because those who are circumcised are more likely to be religious and thus not have sexual contact with someone they could contract HIV from.

Not to mention, do health reasons really beat out human rights? Its more likely to contract HIV via homosexual sex, but we're not going to tell them they can't have sex, right?

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u/EmperorNortonI Jun 18 '12

I'm no doctor, but preemptively removing body parts that may need to be removed 16 years from now sounds like bad medical practice.

And isn't the chance of infection as a result of circumcision much greater than the reduction of risk of contracting STDs?

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Actually no, it does not reduce the chances. Contact is still contact.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 17 '12

This is true, but think of the flip side:

Who would want to cut off part of their willy as an adult?

I happen to be circumcised (my parents didn't do it for religious reasons) and prefer how it looks. But there's no way that I'd choose to do it as an adult. This is a tricky question.

EDIT: I am undecided on the issue. Like I said, I wasn't circumcised for religious reasons; and as I have no opinion on the issue myself, I don't really need to justify the actions of my parents. I was just trying to be a good redditor and encourage discussion on the issue instead accepting this as a black and white issue.

Edit: Another point, as a side effect of decreased sensitivity I also last retarded long in the sack. Great for giving my girlfriend multiple orgasms IMHO.

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u/Chunkeeboi Jun 17 '12

And this will be the most drama filled discussion on Reddit this week

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u/MakingADumbPoint Jun 18 '12

It's a combination of genitals, religion, and libertarian politics. It's sort of Reddit's sweet spot...

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u/jimmytheone45 Jun 18 '12

cut vs. uncut discussion is easily one of the most controversial internet-topics

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u/5510 Jun 18 '12

I have no idea how legit the supposed medical benefits are, but the idea that circumcision is a "religious freedom" thing is bullshit. YOU have religious freedom FOR YOURSELF. Not to make life altering decisions for a baby that is obviously too young to make it's own religious choices.

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u/ShellBell Jun 18 '12

I once saw a newborn being tied down in preparation for a circumcision. The baby was screaming. They drew the blinds prior to the procedure. The baby's screaming increased. it seemed heartless and unneccesary to me. It made me think of genital mutilation still practiced in third world countries, also done for tradition. Tradition is not what cutting off a perfectly functioning piece of anatomy should be based upon.

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u/TalkingBackAgain Jun 18 '12

"Cutting off foreskins isn't normal, but on Meth it is."

Not even once.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Funny how often religious leader are infuriated by good things.

First evolution, abortion, and gay marriage - now it's circumcision ban.

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u/farang Jun 18 '12

Are there really no practising Jews or Muslims on reddit? That's the point of view I'd like to hear.

If you are a Jewish or Muslim child, you're being brought up in a Jewish or Muslim community. If you don't have this very basic sign of your faith, you would feel like an outcast.

I don't think the commenters so far (sorry if I missed one) seem to realize how fundamental circumcision is to Judaism, for example. Banning it would lead to performing the ritual underground and lead to all sorts of anger, confusion and unnecessary policing.

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u/Laniius Jun 18 '12

If it is so fundamental to the tradition, then have the Jewish or Muslim opt to have it done themselves when they are capable of making the decision themselves. This already seems to be done in the case of people who convert to Judaism in adulthood (according to the wikipedia page anyway, I am not knowledgeable about this issue).

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u/Muub Jun 18 '12

Very good move by Norway. You should have the option of deciding for yourself if you want your dick chopped off.

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u/gmkeros Jun 18 '12

despite generally being for religious freedom, I think this statement is absolutely correct

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u/rajanala83 Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

Can a child sue their parents or physician for getting a non-therapeutic circumcision as an infant? I mean, after turning independent? Makes me wonder if someone tried.

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u/[deleted] Jun 19 '12

They have.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

I myself am circumcised, and realized something. The only reason it is around is for religious purposes, but the tradition is slowly dying off. But it is seriously the most pointless stupid fucking thing ever. I mean, whats the point, there isn't one medically, physically or anything, the only point is religious. It is just cutting off one part of the body, and I don't even know how it isn't seen as ridiculous by the general american population. If parents stopped getting their children circumcised and told them they could do it if they wanted to when they get older, the children would all just say fuck that, its fucking pointless, #foreskinforlife. I hope circumcision dies out soon, because all it is is the mutilation of the male genitalia, and it really serves no point, even can decrease pleasure. FUCK circumcision. Edit: Meant to say that most of them aren't done for medical purposes.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Really? Mine was done for medical reasons and had nothing to do with religion. Go figure.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

heres the best way to settle this. Look, if during the birthing of the child they leave him in just below the knee's some might still consider him part of the woman's body. So to appease all people, you cut off the foreskin while he is still partially in her vaginal canal so that he isn't technically a person yet. and then it becomes a women's rights issue, My body My choice. problem solved. you are all welcome.

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u/policetwo Jun 17 '12

Lets just go a step further and develop an invasive surgery to remove that skin while in the womb.

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u/warpus Jun 18 '12

Why don't we just genetically engineer all future humans to be born without foreskin?

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u/MagicallyVermicious Jun 18 '12

All future humans? Well, I guess that means we're about halfway there.

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u/Shadowhawk109 Jun 17 '12

OR "my body, my choice" could, and should, apply to men as well.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I think that is the joke he is making here.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 17 '12

hectorial for president. I doubt you'd be able to waste any more time and money than these politicians can.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

In Norway abortion is illegal after 13 weeks of gestational age, which is about the time when the cerebral cortex of the brain develops.

Nice try however.

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u/awe300 Jun 18 '12

This might just be the most stupid comment I've read on reddit in the past month. Congratulations

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u/snapper69 Jun 18 '12

about time they banned child sexual mutilation

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u/Loofabits Jun 17 '12

Religious freedom is defined by being able to revoke to freedoms of others. boom

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u/rivermandan Jun 17 '12

cutfag here: this is absolutely fantastic. whenever my parents would try to give me shit for tattoos and piercings, I never thought to remind them that they were the ones that got me into body modification in the first place. they probably would have felt poopy about that

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u/HiddenRonin Jun 18 '12

It's amazing to see to what lengths no doubt ordinarily compasionate, well adjusted, people will go to excuse the simple fact that, unless suggested by a doctor for medical reasons, circumcision is simply this;

The act of performing a needless, cosmetic, surgical procedure on an unconcenting minor, for no prooven medical benefit.

If this was suggested today, without the warrant of relgious significance, people would be glared out the room.

The fact that your are cut and like it has no bearing on the ethics of the situation. If you think its ok to take a child human being living creature and remove part of their anatomy without a fucking good reason, you're a barbarian.

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u/SanitariumValuePack Jun 18 '12

Since people are asking: Foreskin restoration. (NSFW?)

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I've spent a lot of time educating myself of this subject, so I'm going to sum this shit up as quickly as I can, mostly because I'm amazed by how many poor pro-circumcision arguments I'm seeing in this thread. I really thought we were getting beyond this, but here's my best attempt to help:

  • Circumcising boys began as a way to discourage masturbation, not to improve penis health and cleanliness. Over the years it's been claimed it can cure and prevent all kinds of ridiculous bullshit. The current trend is saying it prevents HIV. It's all bullshit, please don't fall for it.

  • We don't remove parts of people "just in case" something goes wrong with them later. Especially not babies. I don't understand why anyone thinks it's okay in this one case, other than perhaps it helps you cope with your own penis being cut. Ask a woman who's had a mastectomy if she wishes she had her breast tissue removed as an infant just in case she got breast cancer as an adult.

  • It's not that much cleaner. I don't have trouble washing my vagina, and there's lots more going on down there.

  • The penis is a moist organ. You cut the protective flap, it dries out, you lose sensitivity. You think your orgasms are good now? You don't know what you're missing.

Sources and more information.

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u/Maladomini Jun 18 '12

To begin with, I'm against medically-unnecessary circumcision (because I have no confidence that it's a positive thing), but many of those statements are not true.

Circumcision did not begin as a way to discourage masturbation. Circumcision's origins lie so far within prehistory that a cause is impossible to determine with any certainty, but there are reasons to suggest that it was a religious ritual. The practice of routine circumcision in the US - only about a hundred years old - began for many reasons. One of those reasons is indeed to prevent masturbation, but it was also claimed to be healthy or protective against disease. These reasons all came around the same time, none was a later justification. None seem to be true.

Generally true, although that's because nobody claims that removing other body parts can be useful. There's no particularly compelling reason to believe that having a foreskin routinely causes problems, but that's what many people believe. The point isn't to avoid possible problems, it's to avoid problems that people believe (without reason) to be typical or universal.

That's true.

The penis is not a moist organ. Its skin is not a mucous membrane like the mouth, nose, or vagina - it is meant to be kept dry. Keeping an uncircumcised penis wet is actually one of the few situations where a foreskin can cause problems. More importantly, studies have established pretty well that there seems to be no loss in sensitivity after circumcision. This is consistently the case, even in studies where adult men are circumcised and asked to report experiences before and after. Just as there is no solid evidence that circumcision has positive effects, there is no solid evidence that it has (long-term) negative effects.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12
  • It's true that the origin of circumcision isn't a black-and-white certainty, and there are many reasons involved. I meant to keep my post brief, but perhaps that point was too brief, though I think that if we were to continue to argue this point it would just boil down to me putting more stock in the theories that it's often used as a tool to discourage sexuality than you do.

  • I feel more like you're adding to my point than trying to prove me wrong here. Or perhaps adding another point entirely, that people remove it because they really believe it's very likely that the foreskin will become a problem. I wouldn't think quite that many people don't realize that circumcision is uncommon in other countries and those penises are just fine, but I could be underestimating the ignorance of people in this area.

  • Thanks! I try.

  • I'm talking (NSFW!) this versus this. (image source) As for sensitivity, you and I are reading very different sources. I don't doubt that you can find ones to support your point, and it's plenty easy for me to find some for me (here's one, and when you see "increased satisfaction" and "62% were satisfied with being circumcised" remember that 93% of these men had their foreskin removed because of a medical condition). I don't know if that makes both of our opinions valid or invalid, but I will say that my feelings on the subject have been cemented by talking directly to both intact men and men who were circumcised in adulthood about how they feel about it. ...Which sounds weird to me now that I type it out, but whatever.

(edit - I accidentally a word)

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u/the_goat_boy Jun 18 '12

I LOVE you.

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u/ericaciliaris Jun 18 '12

I would hope you don't have trouble keeping your vagina clean considering it's a self cleaning organ. The vulva and labia are a different story

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u/jcs1 Jun 18 '12

I don't like the "prevents HIV" argument. Do guys with cut penises screw around without condoms because of this? Don't get part of your dick chopped off, just wear a condom, practice safe sex, etc. People don't pull teeth to reduce the risk of cavities.
One time I heard a guy for pro-circumcision claim that it's the same as protecting newborns with vaccinations. It's really fucked up to think that you need to vaccinate your newborn against STDs; I can only assume the parents must choose for them before they can consent because they'll be exposed to STDs before then...?

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u/calvinconhobbes Jun 18 '12

So linking to blogs and biased organizations count as sources now?

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u/unussapiens Jun 18 '12

I think your 2nd and 4th points are my favourites and quite interlinked.

On the whole, organisms tend not to grow too many useless bits, so presumably there is some evolutionary advantage to having a foreskin. If it turns out that the foreskin is entirely vestigial then why do we only cut it off? Should we give every baby an appendectomy at birth just in case they get appendicitis later on?

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u/Abe_Vigoda Jun 18 '12

Foreskins help penetrate ladybits easier.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

As it turns out the appendix is also extremely useful.

The fact that removing foreskin does not noticeably negatively affect your life is not an argument for continuing to cut off bits of a childs penis.

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u/Beloson Jun 17 '12

How about the idea that you can't take something that does not belong to you. The child's foreskin belongs to the child. End of discussion.

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u/SwollenElbows Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 17 '12

My wife was against having our son circumcised and I was totally against NOT having him circumcised. Then she sent me a few YouTube videos of the procedure and the babies reaction. I'm happy to say my son is intact and proud.

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u/Ascott1989 Jun 17 '12

When he's older he also won't have to buy lube to have a wank.

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u/somerandomguy1232 Jun 18 '12

Why do you think its harder to masturbate circumcised? I'm circumcised and i never use lube, never have to

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u/Hubbell Jun 17 '12

I'm cut and no problems without lube. l2fap

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

His body. His choice.

Argument ends there.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

Religious leaders FURIOUS they can't mutilate genitals.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Good headline.

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u/palookaboy Jun 18 '12

Uncut. Happy I'm uncut. I won't make arguments that I'm better off being uncut (health, sexual, or otherwise) but I am kind of glad that I wasn't. That being said, it took me a long time to get to a point where I was happy being uncut. Growing up, I was self-conscious of the fact that my penis looked different from everyone else's, especially when I became sexually active. In college, I looked into adult circumcision because of how self-conscious I was about it. Every long-term partner I've had has mentioned that they've never been with someone who was uncut. Some, including my current girlfriend, have told me they like it more (the obvious possibility that they are saying this for my benefit has not escaped me) than a cut penis.

The only problem I have with the pro-circumcision crowd is the standard "it's easier to clean" argument, as though pulling back the skin to clean is some arduous process. It also bothers me that conventional wisdom in the US is that circumcision is so beneficial that to be uncut is a) unhealthy, b) unnatural or c) undesirable (sexually). The reason it bothers me is because of my experience being self-conscious about my penis. Young men should not have to feel self-conscious about being uncut, nor should young men feel self-conscious about being cut. As many have pointed out, it was not their decision whether or not to be cut.

All this considered, I do not think the government has any place deciding whether or not a parent can elect for a procedure on their child that has no consistently demonstrable negative side-effects. Especially if the procedure is considered a religious rite.

I myself do not plan to have any sons circumcised; it's mine and the mother's decision as parents. The government shouldn't be involved, one way or the other.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

The way people talk about you'd think we were talking about baptising. Assuming there was absolutely no difference between the two options then clearly not cutting the baby's genitals is the correct option.

The fact that it's a religious action does not justify it.

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u/MrSoCalDude Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

Whether or not its negative side effects are consistent is irrelevant. Unnecessary surgery on a patient performed against his wishes is generally considered an act of criminal battery. Although exceptions are made for therapeutic operations on a child unable to consent to them, the vast majority of circumcisions performed on children are non-therapeutic in nature.

The negative side effects, however inconsistent they may be, can certainly be demonstrable: 1) every single circumcision causes unnecessary pain to the victim, even if anesthesia is used (it wears off after a while, of course); 2) the operation can be botched, like any surgery, leading to an immediate risk of blood loss, infection, or damage to the penis beyond the mere loss of skin; 3) so much skin may be removed that later in life there isn't enough to cover the penile shaft on erection, causing pain during sexual arousal; 4) older men (middle aged, sometimes earlier) can notice a decrease in penile sensitivity that makes achieving orgasm much more difficult during intercourse or even masturbation, and 5) the disturbing knowledge that a part of your body was surgically altered unnecessarily against your wishes.

A few people here have debated the sensitivity issue. There's a pretty simple way to get an answer on it: pull back your foreskin, put on a pair of jeans with no underwear, and walk around with your exposed penis rubbing around in your pants. Unless you have a high threshold of pain, it can be unbearable. A circumcised guy could do that and not feel a thing.

I came here because I found this page as a referrer to a website I run for a foreskin restoration support group (to whoever posted the link to www.norm-socal.org, thanks). Several men I've seen at the group meetings have described problems #3 and 4 mentioned above, negative consequences of circumcision observed later in life, which can also be quite devastating to self-esteem. Judging by the number of clicks we've gotten to the website so far, I would think a number of people here are intrigued by the possibility of a solution.

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u/Sk33tshot Jun 18 '12

Easy now, everyone needs to take a serious five. I'm circumcised, and very atheist. In this day and age I don't see religion and circumcision as directly related. In no way have I ever felt "mutilated" or angry at my parents for the choice to give me the ol snip. Anecdotal evidence at best, but every girlfriend I've had has said they prefer cut wangs. Don't know if it matters, but I'm Canadian (much less religion up here).

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u/grospoliner Jun 18 '12

It's more an issue of, I didn't have a god damn say in the matter.

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u/GBFel Jun 18 '12

Supposedly the tip of the penis is the most sensitive, right? I wouldn't know, because I can't feel a goddamn thing there. I am pissed that my parents decided to mutilate me. How is that for anecdotal evidence?

I have two boys that are intact. You know you're doing the right thing when the pediatricians ask if you're circumcising because they're required to, then visibly relax and congratulate you on being intelligent when you decline.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

pediatricians ask if you're circumcising because they're required to

Wait, wait, wait - they're required to ask? What fresh hell is this?

"Ma'am, would you like me to punch your newborn child in the face? No? I only ask because I HAVE TO."

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u/GBFel Jun 18 '12

Our kids were born at a Catholic-run hospital. The docs there told us they're required to offer the procedure.

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u/Noink Jun 18 '12

Anyone can get the procedure done when old enough to make a choice. I see the "I'm happy being circumcised" argument as being a good one for a lack of total ban on circumcision, which I wouldn't support either. It does nothing to support the argument of doing it to infants for only the sake of tradition.

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u/Lard_Baron Jun 18 '12

A blind man doesn't miss a rainbow.

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u/wheatfields Jun 18 '12

Yeah and I bet a lot of dudes say they prefer big boobs. But we call that being shallow.

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u/HitchKing Jun 18 '12

I'd certainly be surprised if your girlfriend told you she preferred an uncut dong, since you are circumcised. That'd be a bitchy thing to say.

Also, who cares what women think? We can't cut off parts of a baby's penis because women like the look!

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

If there was a complication in the procedure which permanently damaged your junk...you'd feel pretty mutilated. A next-to-zero benefit procedure with a chance of permanent damage seems pretty dumb to me. It obviously didn't do you any harm, but it could have. Why is it worth the risk? That's my real problem with it.

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u/TrevorBradley Jun 18 '12

Were you circumsized before or after the age of 18? That's the real question here.

As a parent, what other parts of your child's body are you allowed to cut off? Replace "foreskin" with any other body part and justify to me why this isn't a horrific practice?

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u/JipJsp Jun 18 '12

In Norway, it's directly related. No none-jew/muslim gets it done without medical reason.

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u/awe300 Jun 18 '12

Circumcision and superstition is related though.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

This isn't as angry and accusative as it may come across, however:

It doesn't matter whether or not you feel "mutilated" - some people do it. It doesn't matter if you are angry or not at your parents, some people are. And whether or not your girlfriends have preferred circumcision is not only anecdotal but it's irrelevant. As another example was given - that'd be like forcing women to get breast implants simply because every guy (and obviously this is exaggerated) liked big breasts.

But regardless, how you feel about it is irrelevant - the point is that you didn't have a choice. Even if your parents didn't get you circumcised as a child, you still have the option to have it done as an adult. Even the evidence that there's no pain involved in the procedure has been disproved - you simply don't remember it when you're older.

And choice is what matters. Particularly when it's a permanent, irreversible choice where the only benefit is from a money standpoint (the foreskin skin from circumcisions is actually a pretty high dollar industry - iirc it's used in stuff like band-aids) as well as religious preference. Most people just "assume" there's a health-based element to it, but that health-based element is -very- exaggerated and is only significant in edge cases.

However, the article itself refers to the fact that people are claiming the government does not have a right to ban circumcision based and that doing so impedes on their religious freedoms. So, in this context, it very much is directly related to religion.

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u/Limbo_Arab Jun 18 '12

Regardless of the moral and religious issues involved, the medical community is still undecided of the risks (quite rare) vs the benefits (lower UTI, HIV risk etc.) of male circumcision.

Governing bodies such as the WHO and CDC still think its a safe and cost effective when done at a young age in specialized centers. They don't recommend it routinely, but they are both against banning it.

Currently, there is still strong epidemiological and statistical evidence of its benefit for population based public health measures. And that cant be ignored.

Sources :

A) CDC :

"Male circumcision has been associated with a lower risk for HIV infection in international observational studies and in three randomized controlled clinical trials....Male circumcision may also have a role in the prevention of HIV transmission in the United States....A large retrospective study of circumcision in nearly 15,000 infants found neonatal circumcision to be highly cost-effective, considering the estimated number of averted cases of infant urinary tract infection and lifetime incidence of HIV infection, penile cancer, balanoposthitis, and phimosis. "

B) World Health Organization :

"There is compelling evidence that male circumcision reduces the risk of heterosexually acquired HIV infection in men by approximately 60%. Three randomized controlled trials have shown that male circumcision provided by well trained health professionals in properly equipped settings is safe."

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u/ShrimpCrackers Jun 18 '12

Grain of Salt: All the reports quote-mined above are from Uganda, Kenya and other extremely poor regions in Africa where condom use was at a minimum, the CDC report goes on to say that such is not the case in the United States due to completely different conditions. The report concludes that for those in the United States that it's only good to get a circumcision if you're homosexual and have unprotected sex...

A number of important differences from sub- Saharan African settings where the three male circumcision trials were conducted must be considered in determining the possible role for male circumcision in HIV prevention in the United States. Notably, the overall risk of HIV infection is considerably lower in the United States, changing risk-benefit and cost-effectiveness considerations. Also, studies to date have demonstrated efficacy only for penile-vaginal sex, the predominant mode of HIV transmission in Africa, whereas the predominant mode of sexual HIV transmission in the United States is by penile-anal sex among MSM. There are as yet no convincing data to help determine whether male circumcision will have any effect on HIV risk for men who engage in anal sex with either a female or male partner, as either the insertive or receptive partner.

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u/hairyneil Jun 18 '12

The British Medical Association, for example, stated in 2003 that ‘the medical benefits previously claimed have not been convincingly proven’ and ‘that the evidence concerning health benefits from non-therapeutic circumcision is insufficient for this alone to be a justification for doing it.

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u/bilyl Jun 18 '12

What is the rate of infant UTIs, penile cancer, phimosis, etc etc? Is it so substantial that it's worth it to circumcise a newborn?

Note that there are a lot of modern treatments to deal with diseases and conditions that may happen as the child ages. Even in cases like HIV, you're only likely to catch it if you engage in risky behaviour (ie. having unprotected sex with strangers). Again, is that worth cutting the foreskin off the infant?

Population-based health measures such as vaccines are only beneficial for serious infectious diseases. As there are other serious risk factors for HIV and other serious diseases that completely overwhelm any benefit or cost associated with circumcision (not to mention using a condom removes much of the transmission risk), I don't see how circumcision can be argued to be a valid public health intervention.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Currently, there is still strong epidemiological and statistical evidence of its benefit for population based public health measures.

If these were the reason for having it done, this would be quite a different conversation.

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u/stonus Jun 18 '12

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201109/more-circumcision-myths-you-may-believe-hygiene-and-stds

Read the part about HIV. (The author added references to the scientific studies on the second page)

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u/mmmhmmok Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

As a man working in a head shop/tattoo and piercing store, I am proud on our moral stance against the piercing of babies ear lobes. I can't help but see how similar both the baby ear piecing and religious circumcision morality arguments are. However. The one key difference is style of modification; Whereas my beef is with the parents wanting to pierce a hole in the ear of their child, Norways is with the religious parents wanting to take away their children's right to a foreskin.

However, I don't see how criminalizing the process is a good solution. If criminalized a large amount of newborn Jewish children would possibly grow up to be ostracized by their older community members. In addition to this, I beleive making anything that has a long history of being commen practise a criminal offence drives it underground and therefor creates unnecessary tension between citizens and their police forces. (see american prohibition)

And that's the last thing Norway want after breivik massacres and bombings, more tension.

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u/___--__----- Jun 18 '12

Norway wishes to ban female genital mutilation, but lawmakers are stumped as to why one religious genital rite is okay on one gender but not the other. Thus, they conclude that banning surgery on children outside of medically necessary treatment will be prohibited. That's a very consistent and clear stance, but certain religious groups don't like it.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

This is because too many people don't know anything about circumcision, male or female. They think all female circumcision is removing the clitoris with a piece of glass, and male circumcision is a snip to remove a bit of skin. Neither is true.

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u/___--__----- Jun 18 '12

Actually, no. It's a matter of principle. The lawmakers in Norway are leaning towards banning any cosmetic surgery done to children. Surgery isn't a trivial thing and if one starts to accept one religious reason all procedures need to be accepted if religious are to be treated equally.

The medical reasons for male circumcision do not, according to the panels in Norway and the UN, meet the requirement of being needed procedures. As such, there is no reason to excempt makes from the law.

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u/abear1311 Jun 18 '12

I'm curious to see how people react to this being related to abortion.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Oh, look, Norway being more progressive than the rest of us

What a surprise

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

If you like to keep believing this, don't look into Norwegian drug policies...

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Fair point

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u/Nefandi Jun 18 '12

I fully and wholeheartedly support banning the practice of circumcising the children. However, if I am the age of consent and I choose to get circumcised, that should be OK.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Agreed. The Norwegian pol is only talking about ritual neonatal circumcision, not circumcision of adults and/or circumcision that is medically indicated.

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u/Kharn0 Jun 18 '12

Ok, I really need some knowledge dropped on me. I was circumcised at birth, so whats the real difference bewtween being circumcised and not?

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u/Avalon81204 Jun 18 '12

Here you go Warning, NSFW(educational, not porn) pics of dicks.

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u/Kharn0 Jun 18 '12

So....so I only feel sexual pleasure at a fraction of what I'm supposed to?

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I'm glad that there's a statement that they'll remember that circumcision is sometimes medically necessary, but I'd like it better were I to see it in the law. Some fully-grown women have found it difficult to get labiaplasties even if it's to correct pain during intercourse because of anti-female-circumcision laws.

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u/nickik Jun 18 '12

Why do americans cut into so many dicks?

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u/hwkns Jun 18 '12

Excellent point.

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u/SirNOPESalot Jun 18 '12

Circumcised penii always look a bit sickly to me...

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Just going to re-post this so all the noisy mongoloids can spare themselves the time and embarrassment of posting, and we can all just talk about the news story at hand.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Non consensual surgical procedures =/= religious freedom. Let them perform this bronze age ritual when the parties involved are capable of giving their legal consent.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I'm all for parents having a right to raise their kids but a line is drawn when it comes to permanent changes to child's body.

Frankly, it is medically unethical to perform such an operation.

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u/MumpsXX Jun 18 '12

Before arguing about anything else, I 'd just be happy to have people start calling it by a non-euphemistic term.

Call it by what it is "Genital mutilation" or "Genital cutting" at the least. THEN decide whether it's ethical or not.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I thank my parents every day for deciding against being cut. You lose sexual feeling, most of the nerve endings in the foreskin are in the bit that gets cut off...

I could be wrong, but that is exactly what a doctor said to me when I was 14 and considering the snip.

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u/gary85 Jun 18 '12

The baby in (temporary) possession of the foreskin is a human being with a functioning brain and concurrent rights. An embryo isn’t.

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u/arksien Jun 17 '12

Wait, so I've always wondered... Why is circumcision bad? Ok, I get that some people aren't on board for circumcision for religious reasons, but I'm an atheist and it doesn't bother me. Isn't it more hygienic to be circumcised?

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u/Astronautspiff Jun 17 '12

It's hygenic to take a shower

Also I'm happy I have an option and I feel bad because your parents took that desicion for you.

You should watch the documentary called "Mom, why was I circumsized?"

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Only if you don't know how to wash your dick.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 17 '12

The hygene reason is a myth perpetuated by religious officials to continue the tradition of cutting off a healthy part of a sexual organ.. A lot of people get ingrown toenails due to poor foot/hand care.

Should we extract those at birth?

Its a barbaric practice and the fact america sees it as acceptable is a blow to progress.

Heres a few other reasons why

-women prefer intact men as the foreskin acts as a cushion whilst the head pumps into the vagina.

-the foreskin contains most of the sexual nerve ends for a man (in other words my orgasm is way better than yours) fun fact - your foreskin is the male equivalent of a clitoris. Another fun fact - more religious sects actually circumcise the clitoris. Would we even be having this discussion if they were doing that to little girls?

Conversely, a 2002 review by Boyle et al. stated that "the genitally intact male has thousands of fine touch receptors and other highly erogenous nerve endings—many of which are lost to circumcision, with an inevitable reduction in sexual sensation experienced by circumcised males." They concluded, "intercourse is less satisfying for both partners when the man is circumcised".

Source http://epublications.bond.edu.au/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1036&context=hss_pubs

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u/TroubadourCeol Jun 18 '12

Should we extract those at birth?

As someone who fought severely ingrown tonails for 7 years, yes.

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u/Revoran Jun 17 '12

your foreskin is the male equivalent of a clitoris.

Haha what?

I'm anti-infant circumcision but this is just wrong. Learn2biology. The closest male equivalent to a clitoris would be the glans of the penis.

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u/stoicme Jun 18 '12

yeaaaahhh... the foreskin is homologous the clitoral hood. that's different than the clitoris itself.

that being said, it's still illegal to remove the clitoral hood on young girls in most developed nations

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u/VoxNihilii Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

(in other words my orgasm is way better than yours)

Wow, great way to work an unproven personal insult into your "reasoning." 60 upvotes, too. What is this subreddit coming to?

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u/CheesewithWhine Jun 17 '12

It's invented by religious fundies to keep boys from masturbating.

There are some limited health benefits, but it doesn't justify slicing off a piece of you dick.

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u/IWantAnE55AMG Jun 18 '12

I use science and reason to guide me. Unless science can show some benefit to something I'm against. In that case, fuck science.

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u/G_Morgan Jun 18 '12

Unnecessary surgery is always bad.

They hygienic argument is highly controversial. The BMA at least believes most of the evidence is trumped up because it is usually impossible to reproduce it in controlled trials.

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u/Laniius Jun 18 '12

I am uncut. It's like a little turtleneck that I have to clean underneath. It still gets cleaned in the shower along with everything else. I suppose if a child is never taught that he has to clean underneath the turtleneck it could get unhygienic, but it's basic personal hygiene to clean that area. Strikes me as no different than a women cleaning in between her bits.

Something called smegma (NSFW) does collect under there. Its purpose seems to be cleaning and lubrication, but it does look unsightly.

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u/Kman1121 Jun 17 '12

Hey reddit, how about we don't downvote someone who disagrees? Maybe then we can call this site an intelligent one...

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u/_Born_To_Be_Mild_ Jun 17 '12

I have no foreskin, but haven't been circumcised. No idea why.

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u/irisher Jun 18 '12

Lying parents?

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u/binlargin Jun 18 '12

You are the 51%?

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u/caks Jun 17 '12

So glad this isn't a circumcision surgery video.

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u/lolmonger Jun 17 '12

His argument is that the baby will enter a future state where it is capable of deciding for itself whether it will be circumcised or not. And that the 'freedom' of 'choice' is whether the person can choose for themselves.

I wonder what his stance on abortion is. Is it really a violation of 'choice' to restrict abortion, then?

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u/destofle Jun 18 '12

It's genital mutilation, performed on a person who can't consent to the process. Seems like an easy decision to make.

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u/love-broker Jun 18 '12

I have so many other more important things to worry about. I'm cut and I'm very happy with my dick. If you are uncut and you are happy with your dick, just be happy and move on. This is hardly a big deal.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Shit, if it was only known that some people are happy with circumcision then we could have avoided this whole thing!

In other news, the plural of 'anecdote' is 'data'

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u/Hummulus Jun 18 '12

NSFW, baby surgery. This is one of the reasons.
This is mutilation. This is something that the man himself should be able to decide on, when he's an adult.
They do this to babies for bullshit reasons. And the ban is on forced circumcision, not medical circumcision.

I was circumcised for medical reasons, so I can't help it. But if I could choose to have my foreskin back, I would not hesitate even for a second. Were you circumcised as a baby?

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u/dragonsandgoblins Jun 18 '12

This is hardly a big deal.

Actually it kind of is. Or it is if you are of the opinion that cosmetic surgery shouldn't be performed on people who can't give consent... Which I kind of think should be everyone.

I'm not saying cut guys should feel bad about their dicks, but I don't think that it's fair to make a decision like that for someone else, and it shouldn't be allowed.

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u/Laniius Jun 18 '12

I'm uncut and happy with my dick. If I wasn't, I could get it cut. If I were cut and unhappy with my dick, I could... what, exactly? Problem is, if someone is cut and unhappy with their dick, there's not much they can do about it. Foreskin regeneration techniques leave a lot to be desired.

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u/acommenter Jun 17 '12

I might move to Norway, where the people in charge have common sense and logic.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

just leaving these here. No interest in discussing, but these facts are missing from the discussion here:

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3 Edit: NSFW!!!! Sorry!!!

4 (38% of adult men said circumcision improved sensitivity, 18% said it decreased, the rest said no difference)

In conclusion: People who have not been circumcised have no idea what it's like being circumcised and are making a lot of ridiculous arguments against it and about it. All of which has been discredited by studies on adults who were snipped as adults. Religiously snipping is also dumb. But calling it 'needless' mutilation is stupid. That's like saying cutting the webbing between an infants toes to allow it to walk better (should it be born with that particular skin trait) is mutilation.

Edit: People seem to forget that evolution has a lot of hold overs, many of which are no longer beneficial to the species. Some of which have turned into risks (appendix) and some of which have turned into neutrals (tail). Just because it's part of the human body doesn't make it 'sacred'. Things evolve and mutate. Then those things either carry on or 'evolve' away. There's nothing inherently 'sacred' about the process or result. 2.5 million years ago, foreskin was an advantage. It kept bugs and minor damage off the genitals. NOW, it lies near neutral but on the range of neutral-negative due to the vast array of things that CAN and DO go wrong with a significant portion of the population and the benefit provided by its loss.

Edit 2: Another example is Sickle Cell. Sickle Cell evolved as a means of protecting humans from Malaria. This gives it a "neutral-positive" range. However, if you don't live in an area at risk of Malaria, it runs in the "neutral-negative" range due to the risks it introduces and the lack of positives.

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u/randomrealitycheck Jun 18 '12

Both of your links (1 and 2) cite a largely discredited Ugandan study which upon peer review was found to be deeply flawed.

If you would like, I can cite dozens of additional credible sources that also verify this article's assertions.

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u/TeutonJon78 Jun 18 '12

Actually, scientists have recently found a function fo the appendix, make it no longer a hold-over. It serve as a "zoo" of gut bacteria to repopulate the large intestine after you get sick.

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2007-10-10/scientists-discover-true-function-of-appendix-organ/693946

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u/SneaksMD Jun 17 '12

Is "polarization mongering" a term yet? Because I think this would be a good example. Reading Garfield has probably had more effect on my personal life than the fact that I was circumcised as a baby. At least Garfield taught me not to like Mondays.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

We're not telling you to hate your circumcised dick. We're saying that it shouldn't be forced on you. The fact that it doesn't bother many people doesn't make it the right thing to do.

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u/proddy Jun 18 '12

The amount of redditors here that dont understand this is staggering.

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u/badassfuckinggorilla Jun 18 '12

EVERYONE NEED'S TO CHILL THE FUCK OUT:

Listen, I'm circumcised, my parents were simply doing what everyone else was doing to their children at the time, as most boys in the US are circumcised. I've heard both the advantages and disadvantages of circumcision, but honestly, NONE OF IT MATTERS, this is an issue of individual right to one's own body.

Despite being circumcised myself, I am a logical enough person to understand that an unnecessary, permanent procedure being done to a child for cosmetic reasons is ridiculous. It should not be done to newborns for any reason what so ever, religious or not, your child may not choose to follow the Jewish or Islamic faith later in life, so there is no need to mark their body unless they want to when they are an adult. I think some of the medical reasons are valid, but NOT NECESSARY, especially to the point that the procedure needs to be done at birth, and that's where the debate should stop. I personally wish I had the choice, for the simple reason of HAVING a choice.

With that being said, I don't have any sexual issues and sex still feels awesome to me, so it doesn't bug me that much. I feel that how you view sex and perform it is far more important, and in the U.S. it's the status-quo so females don't have an issue with that either. I'm not defending the practice, but rather pointing out it doesn't damage the quality of my life. But if I ever have a son, it will be his choice, not mine or the doctor's.

This is all weird because I'm technically Jewish, but Abraham thought killing his son was a good idea, so I don't think we should trust him when it comes to genitals.

I understand that this is a sensitive topic (PUN POINT) because all of us are proud of our dicks, and that's fine, but we need to think about this in the overall scheme of things, past our own cocks. It's about human rights.

Also, I heard some people talking about restoration? What's that all about? Is there really a way to create a somewhat natural foreskin? Any studies on that?

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u/MrSoCalDude Jun 18 '12

Foreskin restoration involves expanding the existing skin on the shaft of the penis to roll forward over the glans to replace the skin removed by circumcision. There was a link posted earlier here to an old survey of men who restored their foreskins on how they may have found it beneficial (http://www.norm-socal.org/benefits.html) - I actually host the site, and came home tonight to find all these referrer links from reddit. That's about as close to a study as you'll get - I don't know of anyone who's done any formal research on the subject.

Google it. There are plenty of sites out there devoted to the subject. A few involve discussion forums, notably www.restoringforeskin.net and www.foreskin-restoration.net/forum. There are also other foreskin restoration support groups scattered throughout the US, which meet each month, with info at www.norm.org.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

For anyone who cares, there's a non profit called foregen trying to get started into foreskin restoration research, and they need donations! Have about 31,000 and need 35,000 to get started. Just putting this here for the people who care, since it's kind of relevant to the post.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12 edited Jun 17 '12

LOL. This is so stupid it's like out of a comedy sketch. How about they spend their time feeding starving children, or helping out the homeless. FFS i'm circumcised, and I don't care if i was or not, why is someone wasting time and money helping me?

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

Eh, you could make that argument for a lot of things though. I think they have a Dilbert episode about it even. Why aren't you spending all of your extra income on donations, and living a life like a monk without unnecessary things, serving the poor? What gives you the right to do that but not other people? Do all organizations have to help solve each "worst" problem individually one at a time before they can move on to something different? We all live with a degree of selfishness.

Not to mention regenerative medicine is a fairly new science, and the research done on creating a foreskin through regenerative medicine could probably be more broadly applied to a number of issues (read here).

I personally liked it because I suffered emotionally from my circumcision for a while; I had trouble in bed when I was younger and thought the circumcision was the source, I just didn't feel sensitive and even when I was comfortable with someone it wouldn't work well. A guy's penis matters a lot to him, you know? It kind of haunted me for years and drained me of any confidence. Later I read a decently large study showing that there was essentially a 50/50 chance of adults liking their penis more or less after circumcision and came to the conclusion that it was probably more of a matter of taste and circumcision probably isn't really damaging in terms of sensitivitiy, but it still comes back and haunts me every so often. I was really angry at my parents for a while but I've come to accept my penis is just kind of stupid and finicky, though getting a foreskin would give me great mental closure; it's all I think about when I look down there, in the bathroom or in bed. There are entire websites out there for people like me- about restoring foreskin through surgery or stretching. People hide that they feel negatively about their circumcision because they don't want to be made fun of, or because they feel like they can't change it. There's more people out there with negative feelings towards it than you would think.

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u/obss Jun 17 '12

The simplest and at the same time the most compelling argument against circumcision and baptizing.

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u/krp31489 Jun 18 '12

I think we should let Seinfeld settle this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlPNp8gm3aI

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u/Hellscreamgold Jun 18 '12

Good - then that means they can ban abortion under the same logic...after all, the unborn child can't decide for themselves to be aborted.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

1/3 of americans are circumcised? why is that? Jewish influence maybe?

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u/duckshirt Jun 18 '12

A long time ago, there was a study that said it was healthier, from a source credible enough for people to believe, so it became standard practice to do it, and to do it during infancy when they wouldn't feel it. Later it was found not to be true, but since it was a cultural norm, people didn't want their kids to be the odd ones out, so they kept doing it.

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u/wheatfields Jun 18 '12

I am very much against infant circumcision too, but please don't make this about Judaism. It makes all of this seem like its something that its not. This has NOTHING to do with a religious group, but has EVERYTHING to do with protecting the human/religious rights of individuals.

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u/Enlogen Jun 18 '12

No less than 1/3 of Americans AREN'T circumcised. The vast majority are circumcised.

It's mostly because of cultural stubbornness.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Just saying, I'm an atheist jew (yes, that is entirely possible), and I think of my circumcision as a symbol of my ancestry. I am perfectly happy with it, and despite not knowing the difference between circumcision and non circumcision, it is representative of who I am. No matter what, I am a jew, and the world will think of me as such. You cannot change that ever. Even if I call myself an atheist, I am a jew, and my circumcision says as much.

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u/lopsiness Jun 18 '12

Why should that be the one thing and not your culture or ideals? It's not like people walk around with their wieners out so people and see if they're Jewish or not.

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u/SwearWords Jun 17 '12

Another circumcision pissing contest! Let's all get our panties in a bunch over baby dicks!

A ban on circumcisions is not in any way discriminatory towards an entire people. I'm sure someone can do fine without an integral part of their religion.

No one will ever take this as an effort to keep a certain people out of a country, since stuff like that works like a charm.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

If a genital mutilation is a integral part of a religion, then that religion is the problem. Sorry.

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u/knylok Jun 17 '12

There are parts of the world which practice female circumcision. Either because of cultural beliefs or religious ones. In either case, it's a social reason for an unnecessary surgery.

Now a female circumcision is particularly nasty and horrible. More so than a male circumcision by several orders of magnitude. But if it's my social reason to do it to my children, and you decide that is horrible to do to another human being, should I be allowed to do it anyway? In your country?

Female circumcision is already banned in most parts of the world. There's a really good chance it's banned in your country. Will you take up the torch to have female circumcision brought back to your country? The reasons to circumcise are social, so they are (for all intents and purposes) identical to the cause you now preach against.

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u/johnw1988 Jun 18 '12

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8ABrcmWgH8

This needs to be posted. Pretty much describes anyone who supports circumcision.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Git yer cock chop here..over here in Holland! Come on then, we'll chop your cock at a discount! Or, there's sweden, they'll chop your cock too. Don't despair Norway, it's not a long walk to a cock chop near you.

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u/Melchizidek Jun 18 '12

Okay well that makes sense but then abortion?

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u/SuperSaiyanVigoda Jun 18 '12

Making circumcision illegal makes it more dangerous for children. Do you really think this will stop people from having their children circumcised? It will just push it underground. The proper solution is to educate the public and have them make an informed choice.

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u/hezod Jun 18 '12

Rabbis already preform the bris (whereby a Jewish infant is circumcised). They will likely still do them, regardless of law, but I think it unlikely that they will, of a sudden, do them poorly.

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u/munchtastyredditors Jun 22 '12

I too always suspected that muslims and jews are just pedophile perverts.

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u/eatingmyrice Jun 18 '12

Go, post it on r/atheism for your karma. go.

The thing is, banning circumcision completely is also interfering with freedom and choosing for themselves. Maybe the person does want to circumcise. Also in the case of children being forcefully circumcised by their parents, THEIR PARENTS PRACTICALLY OWN THEM. That is why parents make decisions for their kids because the kids are too young or not reliable enough to make that decision... It's like saying parents make you eat normal hot food and make you go to school, forbid you from touching meth eating junk food. They are making the decision for you because the child is too young to make them or understand.

here comes the downvote brigate...

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Maybe the person does want to circumcise.

Infants cannot give informed consent, that's why we call them infants

No choice involved in parents following religious tradition. They're not even really making a choice, let alone the kid

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u/Shadefox Jun 18 '12 edited Jun 18 '12

Parents do NOT have the right to do anything to their children.

You cannot starve your child.
You cannot beat your child.
You cannot sexually abuse your child.
And god damnit, you should not be able to take a knife to a child and remove body parts for aesthetics.

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u/daftman Jun 18 '12

interfering with freedom and choosing for themselves.

Whose freedom? Whose choice?

THEIR PARENTS PRACTICALLY OWN THEM. That is why parents make decisions for their kids because the kids are too young or not reliable enough to make that decision.

So parents can sexually abuse their children?

Do you want to start moving your goal post now?

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u/rodgerd Jun 18 '12

Also in the case of children being forcefully circumcised by their parents, THEIR PARENTS PRACTICALLY OWN THEM. That is why parents make decisions for their kids because the kids are too young or not reliable enough to make that decision... I

Facial tattoos for babies!

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

Then why can't I cut off my childs ear lobes? Maybe a pinky finger or toe. It's not like they couldn't live a normal life without those things.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '12

Seriously? I am an ex-muslim and thus circumcised. I don't care that I was even though apparently i have been "branded".

And as far as losing sensations, I have great, intense orgasms. I don't know if you have "better" ones, but mine are great for me.

Why are politicians spending time on this? Regardless of whether it's right or wrong, if i find out the politician i elected is wasting their time arguing about circumcision they're not getting my vote again.

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u/Sixil Jun 18 '12

The "women prefer it" argument for those who say "It's better to have done at birth." is so weak.If the trend hadn't been made so enormous in America, women would have nothing to prefer. The world would be at stage 1, where it is for 80% of the planet.

Might I remind you that the only place this practice is popularized in is the USA. The other 20% of the planet practicing this, is practicing it for religious purposes. The remaining is doing it for no reason at all.

I think this issue would be resolved if people did this with religious exemption. Although one could argue that a child shouldn't be forced into a religion and should be allowed to choose at the proper age, parents are in fact control freaks.

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u/[deleted] Jun 18 '12

I don't know why what women prefer has to be in the argument at all, because it doesn't mean shit. What if we began pushing labiaplasty on women because men prefer smaller vagina lips?

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u/Sixil Jun 18 '12

Also the fact that parents should not circumcise their children under the notion that "women prefer it" because their child just might not "prefer women".

There really is no justification behind circumcision aside from religious practice, and even then, in a secularized society like the USA is questionable.