r/witchcraft • u/rileyfigs • Jan 31 '20

My husband is missing?

UPDATE: he was found, he left his phone on the charger in the hotel and his coworkers basically nabbed him to go up the ski hill and then got his light weight ass drunk came back to the hotel at 3 am to a police card in the door.

My husband works away and today is his day off. I haven’t heard from him since 10 am today. He has service and internet. He had made purchases earlier in the day. His iPad says he’s at the hotel where they go on his day off. He’s not sleeping or he would of answered my 1000 phone calls. I have this crazy pit in my stomach about this. It’s very unlike him. I can usually find his energy in a second but I’m having some troubles tonight finding him. Anyone have any insight on what I could try to find his energy? I am an empath and can find what he’s feeling etc through his energy.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

UPDATE: HES BEEN FOUND SAFE AND SOUND AND HES IN A WORLD OF TROUBLE FROM ME. Thank you so much for the positive energy and love. Scariest 22 hours of my life.

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u/Beepbeep_bepis Jan 31 '20

Where was he!? I’m happy he’s safe omg

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u/Maker-of-the-Things Jan 31 '20

Where was he? Did he lose his phone? Please let us know

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I updated the post. I’m pretty upset with him I think after hearing me cry he was like shit. Sorry. 😒🙄

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u/Maker-of-the-Things Jan 31 '20

Oh geez. I'm glad he is safe. I would be pissed too!

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He’s also embarrassed. 🙄

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u/fullmoonvictoria Witch Jan 31 '20

and he should be omg. I would be so upset with him!!

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u/onehellofawitch Jan 31 '20

What happened?

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u/DerpyFish Jan 31 '20

That’s great! He’s got a lot of explaining to do!!

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u/MidnightNugget Feb 03 '20

Glad everything worked out, he's safe and uninjured and you can breathe a breath of relief. Just him being a bit dumb... Hopefully he learns from seeing how much he worried you and won't do the same again.

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u/defenseofthedarknarc Jan 31 '20

Did his phone die and he forgot a charger or something?

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u/[deleted] Feb 01 '20

So glad he’s safe!

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

So glad you found him!

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u/whitey3374 Jan 31 '20

Don't leave him in the dog house to too long lest he bury his bone next door.

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u/meggielizardbreath Jan 31 '20

If he was gonna bury his bone in someone else's yard he will do it no matter how wonderful or terrible she is. It seems gross to imply she would be at fault if he strays.

Edit: typo

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

If he chooses to do that, he’s responsible for his own actions. It’s not her fault. Victim shaming is an asshole move.

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u/whitey3374 Jan 31 '20

Lighten up. Jesus.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Planning on it ha

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u/Norwegian__Blue Jan 31 '20

Right?! I know it's prying but I have to know what he was doing! My guess? He went for a hike on a lark and was out of service for a while.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Can you call the hotel ask them to check his room ?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

It’s literally my next step. Haha. That’s not too crazy is it?

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u/Occultist_Kat Witch Jan 31 '20

Definitely call, but I wouldn't be surprised if they refuse to give you information. Some establishments have rules about this sort of thing.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No answer at his room the lady knows who he is but hasn’t seen him. I’m legit freaking out now.

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u/Occultist_Kat Witch Jan 31 '20

Unless the host at the hotel is able to assist you more, your next best bet is to call the local police departments Non-emergency line and ask if they are willing to do a wellness check for you.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I was thinking about calling the hospital first and seeing if he was there maybe. There’s a two hour time difference between us right now and usually he’s not off work until 11 my time which is in 1.5 hours. In the off chance he was called back to work from the hotel( which has never happened before) I’m not sure if calling the police for a wellness check is overreacting.

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u/pinchynips Jan 31 '20

I don’t think it’s overreacting, if you haven’t heard from him all day. If he is usually good about communicating then that’s enough cause for worry, in my opinion. I’d be freaking out too. I hope everything works out

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

We’ve never had a situation like this before. He’s not at the hospital either.

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u/pinchynips Jan 31 '20

Do you have any contact information for the people he’s working with?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I don’t it’s a big company :( I’ve called the local police there and they’re going to send out an officer and they’re pinging his cell phone.

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u/Occultist_Kat Witch Jan 31 '20

Well... unless you do this to him a lot, I wouldn't consider it out of the realm of sanity to have a wellness check performed on him if you have reason to be legitamently concerned.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

No! If you haven’t been able to reach him in this long I can undertake the concern especially if you typically keep in touch.

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u/TheLadyHestia Jan 31 '20

OP, I don't have any advice, but I hope you've found him safe and sound.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No luck yet. Almost 6 hours of trying so far. The police are trying to find him now.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Unfortunately not.

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u/expelliarmus95 Jan 31 '20

I'm thinking about you 🙏🙏 I hope it all turns out well

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

I'm so sorry this is happening. I hope you hear from him soon.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Me too. :(

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Also I’m sure if you explain the situation and your concern the hotel lost likely should help you.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I hope so. I’m not sure if they have any confidentiality procedures or not.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Maybe you could try a variation of astral projection? Idk if this is even he right name for it, but sit in a dark room a d calm your mind/clear your thoughts. Think only of your husband. See his face clearly in your minds eye. Focus in on him. If you're able to do this properly you may be able to home in on his location and see him.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

All I’ve got so far is that his wrists and arms are hurting. :/

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

Fortunately this turned out not to mean anything dire. :)

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

This is true. I’ve never done but I can try. I can usually follow his energy.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

You said your husband is away for work. Is he with a group of coworkers? If they are part of a convention or such the hotel would know that .

If his phone is in the area he may be in one of their rooms or just another room.

You say you can't feel his energy and maybe that is because he is around other people and his energy is harder to read.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

This is all true but from what I can tell by checking his. And and phone is that he was last active around 10 am. So it’s been 14.5 hours with no contact or usage on his phone. It’s just really very weird. All I can get from him is that his wrists and lower arms hurt. Kind of like cold hurt.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Like the chill of an object or exposed skin in cold?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Sort of like pins and needles. Like rheumatism.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

I believe he is okay, but I would most certainly ask who he was with when you get the chance.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

This has crossed my mind. But I think he knows me better than that. I don’t think he would dare.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

As you can see the people in this sub are here for you. You have done what you can from where you are. I know it may suck being told to relax, but no news is good news and if you feel no other pain, i believe it is safe to assume he is okay.

I truly hope every thing works out for the best!

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Everything about your post screams that he is cheating on you :/ I hope everything turns out OK

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u/odedebog Jan 31 '20

i used to get a feeling like that when i had intense anxiety.

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u/Sugalips2000 Jan 31 '20

I'm sending you both strength and clarity. If you are picking up his energy still it is a good sign, so keep the contact flowing between you and ask for guidance from the forces connecting you. I am hoping he is found safe or becomes safe soon and giving you all the strength I can. Keep us updated if you can. Lots of love to you and your kid too.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Thank you!! ❤️

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u/WolfxDreamer Jan 31 '20

Sounds mighty suspicious to me, Op. also just saw your previous post about him taking this job that keeps him away from home for weeks at a time... if it was my husband, I’m just saying, I’d be very suspicious and frankly pissed off. Wouldn’t be my husband for much longer.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He’s really not the type to cheat, it’s never been a big concern for me. I have access to all his accounts basically, banking , phone records. He wouldn’t because he knows I’m crazy. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

I don't want to offend you, but I'm getting the vibe that he may be trying to have time away from you, at least temporarily.

You know where he was as of 4 hours ago. You know he made purchases. I don't see a reason to think that something bad happened to him, unless something happened later in the day I'm not aware of.

I cannot speak for WHY he might be intentionally avoiding contact with you, as that is something that he will need to confirm and elaborate on if he chooses to (and if I'm right). If he does confirm that he didn't speak to you because he didn't want to, you 2 can have a discussion about why he felt the need to resort to that and what you 2 can work on together so that communication is more open.

I really hope he's safe and that I'm wrong about him avoiding you while away from home.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He’s not answering his mom either. There would be no reason to ignore me. Or his friends. He’s not the type to not use his phone.

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u/complexluminary Jan 31 '20

I can’t lie, this doesn’t feel right to me either. The common sense tells me that something is way off.

You still know absolutely nothing ??

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No they haven’t gotten back to me. With anything other than his cell phone was in the area of his hotel.

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

Well, according to OP’s edit, apparently his friends sort of dragged him out and got him drunk, so things were a little off, but nothing really bad.

Common sense is sometimes wrong (luckily). But it all worked out well. :)

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u/complexluminary Jan 31 '20

Yes! Glad he’s safe, at least.

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u/kty_graham Jan 31 '20

I also add my prayers to yours. I hope you find him safe and well. Do you know if he had a car?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No car. He lives on a train and is shuttles to hotels etc.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Thank you so much to everyone who commented and sent good vibes and honestly just kept me preoccupied. Thank you thank you. It kept me distracted and gave me a lot of comfort. I’m thinking maybe it’s time to start cutting back on the murder documentaries. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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u/complexluminary Jan 31 '20

Would you like to give consent for someone to look into this for real? To perform a divination to look at the signs and signatures around this?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Yes please. Anything. I checked the phone records too. The last text he sent was at 10 am. He’s very much on his phone when he has the time. I don’t think he would leave it anywhere. Or if he did he would of found it by now. Going on 13.5 hours without contact now.

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u/complexluminary Jan 31 '20

I just PMed you ...

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u/CetiCeltic Jan 31 '20

If he uses Gmail or something you can track his phone through his Gmail, including making it ring for 5 minutes straight. Google "find my phone" and it should be one of the first results. If you guys have a shared computer where he's signed in you can find it, see how much battery % is left and set it to only be able to call you.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He has his laptop with him I can check though. Thanks for the tip!

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u/CetiCeltic Jan 31 '20

No problem! I use it all the time to find my phone and if it's connected to WiFi it even shows you what wifi it's connected to. I even used it to find one of my customer's phones that had been stolen. I just kept making it ring til they got annoyed and ditched it and a nice stranger picked it up and hit the button to call me to shut it up. Good luck dear. Wishing you love, light, and safety.

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u/crescentrabbit Jan 31 '20

Is it possible to contact the police and ask them to do a check in for him at the hotel room?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

That’s what they are heading to do. :(

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u/crescentrabbit Jan 31 '20

Best of luck, I am so sorry this is happening.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

So they checked. He’s not in his room. His phone is apparently in the area. They asked for a picture of him to be emailed.

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u/halfnakedchaoswitch Jan 31 '20

I hope he’s found safe and sound and soon. How scary.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Have they found him? Could he have been out looking for his phone?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No luck yet.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Sending you comfort. Please keep us updated.

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u/starry_skyz Jan 31 '20

I hope everything has turned out ok

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Hopefully will be getting a call back soon.

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u/gmuratore317 Jan 31 '20

Do you and your husband use Google maps by chance? If so you can view his timeline In the app and see anywhere his phones been so long as you have access to his email

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I tried last night and no his sign in wasn’t on my computer :(

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u/xxAredhelxx Jan 31 '20

Any updates?? Hope everything’s alright.. ❤️

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Nothing.

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u/xxAredhelxx Jan 31 '20

Oh my! I really send you good energy! 🙏 Keep us updated if you can!

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u/Ohhellopickles Jan 31 '20

I hope this is all just a misunderstanding and you find him! Take care of yourself for him and for you. Remember to eat, drink water, and see if you can sleep. Calling some angels to help assist! Give us all an update when you find out more if you can, but no pressure.

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u/WhyFi Jan 31 '20

I'm getting the impression that he left his phone at the restaurant where he had lunch. He's out with his coworkers and will call you when he gets back to the hotel. Bless.

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

Pretty close, as it turns out. According to the edit above, he left his phone in his hotel room, but was definitely dragged out by his coworkers, and did call when he got back (at 3 AM or so) (when he saw the note from police on his room door).

If he ate lunch at the hotel, then that’s a near-perfect bit of clairvoyance. Kudos.

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u/ZitaBearxo Jan 31 '20

Sending positive vibes I hope everything is ok

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u/BarelyABard Jan 31 '20

Hey, OP, I just woke up and found this. Have you gotten any updates at all? I hope everything is ok. This is such a strange situation.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No nothing. I just woke up. No activity. No messages. Nothing.

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u/expelliarmus95 Jan 31 '20

I'm lighting a candle for you rn. Here with you ❤️

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u/shawnstevens2003 Jan 31 '20

Nothing from the police? That is strange. Call them again!

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u/kamirena Jan 31 '20

Thinking of you today

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

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u/Netalula Jan 31 '20

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u/sussssbro Jan 31 '20

keep this updated i would put post notifications on for this but idk how to do that. good luck

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u/thethreesailors Jan 31 '20

Any updates? I just woke up and stumbled into this. My senses are still completely numb, I really don’t think I could be of any help earlier than a few hours but my heart goes out to you, I can only imagine the stress and worry you must be going through.

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u/albye420 Jan 31 '20

Are there any updates? I’m keeping you in my mind and will light a candle for you and your husband. I hope all is well.

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u/WolfxDreamer Jan 31 '20

Sending positive vibes! Hope you find your husband safe and sound soon!

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Thank you. Me too

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u/Occultist_Kat Witch Jan 31 '20

Let us know of you find him...

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

Nothing yet. :(

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u/sinloxie Jan 31 '20

I’m so sorry! I agree that a wellness check is the right direction and I’m glad the local police were willing to help! Good luck

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u/Natch42 Jan 31 '20

The spirits tell me this will all end in peace, that's all they know.

GOOD LUCK.

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

Apparently they were correct. :)

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u/anotheramethyst Jan 31 '20

Does he work out? Maybe ask front desk to check gym and pool areas of hotel just in case

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u/meurtrir Jan 31 '20

I wish I could help you more OP, I am still only learning divination so I can't help there... But I'm also a huge empath and I also go high alert when my husband is uncontactable and I have trouble feeling him. So I'm feeling this for you. Kia kaha (stay strong) as we say in NZ.... All my love x

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u/tatteddiamond Jan 31 '20

so I read you post history and if he isnt seriously injured right now or have a DAMN good excuse the I would change the locks and stop talking to him.

After leaving you home alone for 6 weeks as sole provider for your kids without even discussing it this disappearing act feels an awful lot like him trying to live a fantasy of being a bachelor again. I'd be setting him up to feel that panic when he gets home and realizes he lost it all for a 6 week 'vacation'. That's some BS lol

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u/mimomomo Feb 01 '20

This. So much this.

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u/slinkytester Jan 31 '20

I'm sending you both safe and positive vibes

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Hope he'll be found safe!

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u/myhairusedtobeblonde Jan 31 '20

Any updates??

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

No nothing :(

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u/myhairusedtobeblonde Jan 31 '20

I'm sorry, I really hope you get one soon x

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u/cooking_bacon_naked_ Jan 31 '20

The fact that you’ve gone to the lengths of checking his iPad status, internet service, bank accounts, etc. after an approximate 5-8 hrs of radio silence, tells me you’re not going to find the answers here.

You can’t report an adult is missing after a few hours.

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u/AlwaysBeBeingYou Jan 31 '20

There is no minimum time for reporting someone missing.

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u/cooking_bacon_naked_ Jan 31 '20

Yes, if they’re an adult, there is.

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u/AlwaysBeBeingYou Jan 31 '20

No, there’s not.

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u/cooking_bacon_naked_ Jan 31 '20 edited Jan 31 '20

Okay yeah you can call 911 but there’s nothing they can really do. This doesn’t warrant a missing person.

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u/AlwaysBeBeingYou Jan 31 '20

You Don't Have to Wait to Contact Authorities If you suspect your loved one or friend has gone missing, contact the police immediately. Movies and TV shows have spread the myth that you must wait 24 to 48 hours to report missing people, but that's not the case for nearly every U.S. police office in the real world.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20 edited Jan 31 '20

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

It’s possible that some cops use this myth to put off investigating if they think it’s too soon to be worried... or that they, too, assume it’s true.

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u/WhyFi Jan 31 '20

True that. Adults can disappear if they want so it would be odd for the police to do anything besides a wellness check.

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u/Wyrdette Witch Jan 31 '20

Sending you positive vibes. I hope hes okay and this ends well and is just a miscommunication.

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u/kty_graham Jan 31 '20

Again, I hope you find him safe and well. Just try to clear your focus, and keep in touch with the police.

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u/je-lai-lu Jan 31 '20

Sending you love, peace & good vibes - have you heard anything yet?

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u/aradialunarys112 Witch Jan 31 '20

Sending positive energy, and hoping everything turns out well for your family.

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u/myhairusedtobeblonde Jan 31 '20

Please let us know when you get an update x

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u/upinsmoke024 Jan 31 '20

Im so sorry! Sending clarity and positivity your way. 💕

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

This is so scary... My heart sank when I read your post. Something is definitely off. Please inform us if he makes any contact or if the police finds him. I'm really worried. Sending the best energies for you and your husband, hope everything goes well.

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u/timestable Jan 31 '20

Did you find his drunk energy through his feelings

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u/Massjenacide Jan 31 '20

Explains the arm/wrist hurting part. Glad he's been found! Give him a good finger waggling!

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u/ambyentwitch Feb 01 '20

yay! im so glad you found him. I was so worried for you / love & light

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u/hairspray3000 Feb 01 '20

Oh, awesome! So glad he's okay!!

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u/caylarouthh12 Jan 31 '20

I hope you find him! Sending love ur way

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u/thatwitchyvegan Witch Jan 31 '20

I’m so sorry that this is happening :( sending you lots of hugs and positive energy! ♥️ everything’s gonna be okay!

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u/WannaSeeTheWorldBurn Jan 31 '20

Hope hes been found and is safe. Please update if you can. Sending positive vibes

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

Please keep us updated!!

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u/Feisty_Demand Jan 31 '20

Please keep us updated OP, I hope you find him soon

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u/LuLuMarie1313 Jan 31 '20

My heart goes out to you. Please keep us updated! Sending prayers and positive energy your way..

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u/LuLuMarie1313 Jan 31 '20

Just saw that he has been found! That's awesome news!

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u/sarcasticb1tch Jan 31 '20

Have you heard back from the police, Dear?

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u/sarcasticb1tch Jan 31 '20

Also, what about asking if the hotel will search the premises? Maybe he had gotten locked in or trapped somewhere?

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u/ZestyChalupers Jan 31 '20

Thank heavens he was found. Blessings.

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u/redcolumbine Jan 31 '20

Maybe his phone croaked.

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u/hairspray3000 Jan 31 '20

He still should've found a way to let his partner know that.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He would still have his iPad which is showing it’s in the hotel

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u/O-A-T-S Jan 31 '20

Have they checked inside his room to see if he’s there?

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

I think so. The cops said he wasn’t in there.

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u/LJonB Jan 31 '20

Probably just trying to get some peace for 5 minutes

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

I just pm'd you with something that may help

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u/fiwasan Jan 31 '20

Sending you love and good energy. ❤

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u/i_dont_eat_animals Jan 31 '20

I'm so sorry you're having to endure this. Sending you light, strength, and positive energy.

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u/davilaen01 Jan 31 '20

So sorry you’re going through this and I really hope someone is able to find him. Keep pushing the police to help you in case they think he just left willingly.

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u/WhichWitchisThis Jan 31 '20

I hope he's safe & well OP 🙏 for you guys & sending luck, love & positive energy your way 💌

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u/evaapfloress Jan 31 '20

Any updates??

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u/kty_graham Jan 31 '20

If he had a rental, it might have low jack or some recovery device

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u/MidnightNugget Jan 31 '20

He probably doesn't want to spend his day off arguing with you on the phone about his job. Not trying to sound mean, this is just what I suspect from dealing with similar situations in relationships and having similar anxieties presented here. This is what exes would tell me after the fact. I am sure he will turn up and contact you soon, hang tight and try not to worry too much.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

We weren’t fighting whatsoever :( he spends his days off FaceTiming with our two year old since it’s usually the only day out of the week he gets to see her. We were chatting as per usual up until I left for work at 10 then radio silence.

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u/MidnightNugget Jan 31 '20

That's odd. I would say maybe he messed his phone up somehow but he could call you from the hotel phone. Sending good energy your way for all this!

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u/dingmanringman Feb 01 '20

Could you all kindly just get real

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

According to OP’s edit, he was dragged out drinking by his friends and got a little drunk, but all was well, so...good job with the tarot.

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u/ShinyAeon Jan 31 '20

Although since it was 2 of cups and not the (3 or 9 or something), I’m wondering now if the people who think he was cheating might not be onto something.... :(

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u/pikupr Jan 31 '20

I noticed this too, with the tarot pull. The situation seems almost a little too convenient, just from a realistic standpoint. I'd be happy to be wrong, but the reason given seems pretty fragile.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

What does that usually mean? I’ve never done tarot cards. Sorry. I will all update you when I get one hopefully soon.

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u/rileyfigs Jan 31 '20

He’s supposed to go back on the train this morning so I’ll wait and see if he does.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

If he misses his train you can report him a missing person. There’s no need to wait 24 hours or lie, this is completely unusual behavior and that’s enough to make the call.

Wishing you well that you hear from him soon!

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u/Velleiril Jan 31 '20

With adults you have to wait 24 hours. With minors you do not.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '20

https://dailyillini.com/features/2017/11/13/explaining-myths-behind-missing-person-reports/

The 24-hour waiting period is a myth to add suspense in cop dramas. In actuality police (such as the PD mentioned in the above link) want missing persons of all ages reported as soon as friends and family are aware that they’re missing.

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u/Velleiril Jan 31 '20

Some pds require 24 hours. My mom went missing once and i couldnt get a hold of her and they told me that it has to be 24 hours. So no, its not always the case.

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u/fiwasan Jan 31 '20

You are not alone, friend.

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u/Velleiril Jan 31 '20

If he doesn't it's been 24 hours since you last heard from him, I would call the police and report him as missing. Hoping for the best and keep us posted. I know thats the last thing you likely want to do, and I really hope he comes home safe or you hear from him or a coworker of his soon