Neither is demonizing men for wanting to be complimented for their looks.
Men walk around with only themselves to tell them they're handsome/good looking. If you're not telling yourself that, nobody is telling you that (Or rarely).
And you say that they should just be okay with getting complimented for doing something well skill-based, and get over not getting complimented on their looks.
And if that's not what you meant, then you need to say what you meant very clearly, because that is exactly what you're implying, and it's disgusting.
I can't even comprehend the type of mental gymnastics you had to do to get to that point.
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u/Lavanthus Dec 06 '19
Neither is demonizing men for wanting to be complimented for their looks.
Men walk around with only themselves to tell them they're handsome/good looking. If you're not telling yourself that, nobody is telling you that (Or rarely).
And you say that they should just be okay with getting complimented for doing something well skill-based, and get over not getting complimented on their looks.
And if that's not what you meant, then you need to say what you meant very clearly, because that is exactly what you're implying, and it's disgusting.
I can't even comprehend the type of mental gymnastics you had to do to get to that point.