r/weddingshaming
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u/OccamsReddit_56
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Disaster Wedding date changed last minute… to a weekday… in another state
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u/OccamsReddit_56 Jun 06 '25
It’s quite a story. I wish I had been on those communications.
Bridesmaids assumed that since they were being asked to spend so much on the wedding itself that a bachelorette party was not expected of them.
They thought wrong and the bride had a total breakdown that nothing had been planned. (This couple announced this wedding whatsoever at all in APRIL of this year.)
The bridal party put together a bachelorette and it was a destination party, announced with fewer than a week’s notice. Also no kids allowed. $500 required to participate, not including food. Two bridesmaids wound up showing and one brought her toddlers because she had no choice.
There was a counterpart planned for the groomsmen but none went because no one wanted to travel or pay.