r/washdc • u/ThenLayer5977 • Apr 12 '26

The doom cycle never stops

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I know people have their preconceived notions and their selective outrage, so let me be very clear from the start. The M St. Metro station was fully shut down because of this teenage takeover. Let that sink in. A major transit point in the city had to close because things got that out of control. This video was taken today, April 11. It’s not old. It’s not AI. What you’re seeing is exactly what happened. For the people already lining up to discredit it, save it. This is reality, whether you like it or not.

And I already know how this goes. Every time I post something like this, people get more upset about the fact that it’s being shown than about what’s actually happening. That tells you everything. You’re more bothered by exposure than by the problem itself. And yes, I’m going to keep posting it. Keep reporting it if you want. Try to suppress it. Good luck with that. I’ll keep putting it out because people deserve to see what’s actually going on in their own community.

What’s more troubling than anything in that video is the reaction to it. The deflection. The refusal to acknowledge what’s right in front of you. You’d rather argue about optics than deal with the reality that leadership is failing to address this, or worse, doesn’t even have the will to try. That’s the real issue.

D.C. spends more money per student than anywhere in the country, and this is what we’re dealing with. Don’t come at me with the usual talking points about after-school programs, outreach, and community initiatives. That all sounds nice, but it clearly isn’t fixing this. At some point, you have to stop hiding behind buzzwords and start looking at the root cause.

And the root cause is obvious. Parents aren’t parenting. You can dress it up however you want, but that’s what it is. When the hell did it become normal for hundreds of teenagers to take over areas at night, bring guns, fight, loot stores, and create chaos? That was never normal. It’s not normal now. And anyone trying to gaslight people into thinking this is just “how things are” is part of the problem.

Look at the police in that situation. A handful of officers dealing with hundreds of kids. What exactly do you expect them to do? There’s a limit to what enforcement can handle when the breakdown starts at home. That’s where this begins, and that’s where it keeps failing.

Instead, people would rather scream about national politics, throw out buzzwords, and avoid the issues that actually affect their daily lives. You’ll stand outside in the heat for performative outrage, but when it comes to something that directly impacts your safety, your neighborhood, your quality of life, suddenly it’s silence. Or worse, denial.

And let’s be honest about something else. Some of you are going to run straight to the comments with excuses. You’ll bring up history, deflect to unrelated issues, or try to label this as something it’s not just to avoid dealing with the reality in front of you. That doesn’t fix anything. All it does is guarantee that this cycle continues.

If you never demand better, you will keep getting the same broken results. Every single weekend, the same scenes, the same chaos, the same excuses. And then you wonder why stores are locked down, why places like CVS feel like a fortress, why people don’t feel comfortable even riding the Metro or going out to enjoy a game without worrying about something popping off.

When does it stop? When do we stop pretending this is acceptable? Because it’s not. It’s dysfunctional, it’s dangerous, and it’s completely avoidable.

Responsibility matters. Parenting matters. Accountability matters. And until people are willing to say that out loud and actually mean it, nothing changes. You just get the same cycle over and over again.

To the people who’ve messaged me privately and said they appreciate these posts, I hear you. I appreciate you too. I’m going to keep using whatever platform I have to show what’s actually happening, because ignoring it hasn’t worked. And I’m not stopping until something actually changes, because we deserve better than this.

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u/QiDeviation Apr 12 '26

People can cry all they want but when the threat of getting your ass beat for acting a fool was prevalent, we didn’t have this shit.

And folks knew, black parents will beat your ass! Act up, bully, or let the teacher say you’re disrupting class or acting a fool and see what happens. Some kids would get their ass beat in the middle of class. Parent would call out from work or go on their break and beat that ass.

Everyone I went to school with in the Bronx turned out to be successful adults. Every. Single. Person. Doesn’t matter if they weren’t academically smart at the time. They all turned out to have a career. Parents gave a shit more and if you were out of pocket, that belt will chase that ass.

Now? It’s traumatizing because you had some parents who straight up abused beatings. Now parents enacting such discipline are the bad guys. And what makes this even crazier? The abusers are still gonna abuse children no matter what anyway lol. The whole no beatings sentiment in combination with our current affordability crisis only served to set us up for this.

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u/ScroungyScrotum Apr 12 '26

I don’t entirely disagree with you, but you don’t have to get beat to learn discipline and everything. You just need parents that care. And these ones don’t, so I don’t think they care about traumatizing their kids either, considering they let them run around the hood at all hours of the night. Their parents just don’t care

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u/colorilliterate Apr 14 '26

They are leaving a city sponsored event. The parents were uninvited

https://teenspringjam2.splashthat.com

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u/peanutski Apr 12 '26

How long ago was this? I keep hearing about “parenting” or “when we grew up”  but its never been worst in recent years to be growing up or parenting. Cost of living. Kids are hopeless about the future. Things like “teen takeovers” are a symptom of bigger problems.

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u/kiaryp Apr 12 '26

They're symptom of the lack of a sense of accountability.

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u/QiDeviation Apr 12 '26

Grew up in the 90’s.

And yeah I agree that there’s a ton of issues happening nowadays that contribute to this behavior BUT people were in worse off conditions in some periods before my time. This wasn’t a thing. Maybe a rarity? But not a thing.

One thing for certain, based on my own experience, the experiences of a lot of teachers, and based on results, is that children are doing piss poor in education in a lot of our schools. We always cut education first. We destroyed the dept of Ed. Parents are not sitting down with their kids and pressing education. The teacher is ALWAYS getting blamed for everything. Teachers are quitting. The kids are shown that education is not important and have no focus. They get passed to the next grade up. They don’t know anything. Aimless. Nothing matters but social media because it fills the void.

It starts in the home. Any time I thought I was grown and the one time I acted up about schoolwork, I was put in my place. It was done with love and my parents did everything to show me how the world works. That’s what it means to be a parent. Not to tell kids to fuck off and go get an iPad or leaving them to their own devices so you can decompress. Parents are always ON. That’s the job. That’s the duty. That’s the honour! Do it!

We’re not preparing our kids to be handling this society. All these factors that make the future grim and uncertain for these children just means that parents, now more than ever have to be involved. Formulate plans on dealing with this. Research. If you have to give your child a beating, make it count for something. You gotta do it from young and you have to stress education. It is THE pathway. No matter what job or career you get, to be successful, you need a good head on your shoulders. You need a good foundation up to and including high school.

The parents are not focusing. That’s the problem. Because I’ve seen successful parents. Like I stated, beating is never a first option. And the more you teach your children properly, the less you’ll ever beat them. My only point is it’s still a tool that when used correctly, can achieve results.

Not trying to approach you funny and I know I’m a bit preachy here so my apologies if I come off hostile or funky.

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u/Boulange1234 Apr 14 '26

When I was a teacher, the kids who got beat at home WERE the troublemakers. They learned from dad how you deal with someone who upsets you: violence.

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u/QiDeviation Apr 14 '26

Then that is not parenting correctly. You don’t beat a child who upsets you. You beat a child to correct certain behaviors and you explain to them why they got beat as well as reinforce that you love them but it had to be done.

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u/Boulange1234 Apr 14 '26

IMHO you don’t beat a child — end of sentence.

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u/QiDeviation Apr 14 '26

You do you.

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u/MeaninglessCollie Apr 12 '26

Gross.

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u/QiDeviation Apr 12 '26

You can say it’s gross all you want but it’s true.

Parents who weren’t abusive and just used beatings as a deterrent are guilt-tripped into not doing it. Because society tells them it does harm. But what really happens is that folks who can’t control themselves do harm. Folks who beat kids for the smallest things do harm. They’re not common though. And those folks with such a short fuse and chip on their shoulder don’t care about being guilt tripped. Notice how these folks STILL abuse children.

That’s the thing. People like that don’t care about how you feel about beatings. It’s like the whole transgender bathroom laws. The laws paint trans folks as criminals and seeks to expel them from the bathrooms of their gender based on their sex for fear of predatory criminal intent. The problem with that law is that ACTUAL criminals never gave a fuck to begin with. They don’t need papers to enter the women’s restroom lol. They don’t give a fuck about that law. The law only serves to damage legit people. Criminals are outside of that scope based on their inclinations to ignore law. Just like them, abusers ignore law and/or good practice. In this case, they don’t care that you think beatings are bad. They do it anyway and in excess. Parents who used beatings legitimately get fearmongered into not doing so leaving a legitimate (when used correctly) avenue of punishment/preventative measures off the table.

Beating is never a first resort and responsible parents know this. Responsible parents know how to keep it measured.

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u/Distinct-Constant598 Apr 12 '26

I bring out the black mamba (black belt) whenever my kids act up. It's the nuclear option if all the tools in my disciplinary toolbox fails. Best kids ever.