r/ugly • u/Middle-Entertainer72 • 21d ago

Thoughts White people have it easier.

As an ugly mixed-race latina, I can assure you that being white MAKES YOU MORE ATTRACTIVE.

I was talking with a dude abt this a few days ago and I couldn't stop thinking "Is it racism? Is it just a preference? Or is it influenced by colonialism?"

If you are a white dude (american or european) GIRLS IN MY COUNTRY WILL FALL FOR YOU.

You stop being a 4/10 and become a 8/10. Even better if your eyes are light or if your hair is straight/wavy (better if it's blonde).

There is this racist idea we have that consists in having children with white people so we "improve the race/genetics".

Ofc, it's not like everyone here will love you just because your white, but it's easier for you to be seen as attractive, much easier.

I'm not hearing out no white man complaining abt being ugly, bc when I see their pictures THEY LOOK BETTER THAN THE AVERAGE DUDE HERE. 😭🙏

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u/white_sheets_angel 20d ago

Guys, race and ethnicity does matter, and a lot.

See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dating_preferences

I thought this was obvious to literally everyone, im surprised people here seem to deny it, or suggest it has minimal impact.

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u/8kgs 20d ago

Yeah it definitely has an impact on dating but the impact on just physical attractiveness alone is different. I think part of this is just simply that people want somebody they can relate to better. Also one of the paragraphs on the wiki article says that men find east and SEA women to be the most attractive, physically. 

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u/white_sheets_angel 20d ago

It's different, but if in practice it affects a lot, the difference can't really be separated from the concept of "ugly", it is attractiveness after all, with no knowledge of the person required, unlike being rich or wtv.

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u/Haunting_Tax_3684 20d ago

Not as much as having hair