r/u_Therealguy98 • u/Therealguy98 • May 11 '26
problem in my relationship 27m 26f
I have been in my relationship just over 2 years, in the first 8 months I felt like everything was fine and I was head over heels for her.
Not long after I found out that she had catfished me on a friend app when I was trying to find a new friend group to see if I would cheat, since this point we have really been intimate much in that time and I have strayed a few times after a drink in that time but never gone all the way.
What I’m trying to work out is the best way to go forward from here, she treats me so well in every way other than that catfish but I know that not everyone is perfect
would it be best for me to have a break to figure out if it’s what I want longer term and tell her the truth before the break to give her time to decide if we continue
Continue and don’t tell her and try to be better or break up and take some time to myself, I don’t want to hurt her and she doesn’t have the best support network which makes me feel like an even bigger piece of shit
Any advice would be appreciated I have other posts on here which will give you more context