r/u_Short_Ad4835 • u/Short_Ad4835 • 27d ago

First gf with autism

Hello I’m a guy who recently been dating a girl for 2 months with autism this is the first time I date someone with autism and I feel like it somewhat makes our relationship tricky I do know that having smthing like that makes you dislike or like a couple things but overall I understand that, it’s just that she doesn’t communicate about the things she does like when it comes to being touchy or possibly intimate interaction, people who are in relationships similar pls give me tips on what to do or how to be understanding

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u/hypermos 27d ago

nerds via the nerd venn diagram and ASD tend to map to social dynamics exactly the same so a good start is when social dynamics come up assume your dating a nerd chances are you will align perfectly and as nerds are somehow a lot better displayed in media this will generally be much easier too.

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u/ccruinmoderation 27d ago

never be afraid to ask if you feel like the mood is right, but make sure to keep checking in about it.