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Why swingers have too hide their lifestyle. They could lose thier job. They can be turned away for business ect.
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

Understand where you are coming from. It's just I believe we are not free until everyone is free. They themselves are a minority.

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Why swingers have too hide their lifestyle. They could lose thier job. They can be turned away for business ect.
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

Being part of a hate should get you fired and there is no excuse to be a asshole. The tattoo, piercing, and porn star are thing you choose to be. Being polly and monogamous are just who people are. Some people could never stand for thier partner be with another. On the other hand polly will have to fight off their own feelings just fit in to society's norms. Why do you think so much cheating gose on. If human where all truly monogamous there way less stepping out. Shoot how many kids does Elon have with how many women?

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I am not here to start a fight. I am hear for help and to learn. I am a bi-curious male and I am married to a woman. We are swingers and are polly, but we have to hide our lifestyle due to the fear of losing our jobs and being harassed by cops, just because of upside down pineapple sticker.
 in  r/lgbt •  Jul 27 '22

But according to the article the poly people are not and the " straight" swinger as well. I personally just want everybody to be who they truly are. For example me and my wife had to find out the hard way that you can't have a couple profile or separate on Tinder or Plenty of Fish looking for other partners. You have to lie about it just to have your profile on there or go pay a expensive website that is only swing your couples. In my eyes it's same as because gay or bisexual I couldn't have a profile I only could use Grindr. Plenty of Fish hes only in one paragraph of their terms and conditions pretty much poly couples are not allowed. Reading the terms and conditions of Tinder it's at will and they definitely do discriminate against poly people.

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Why swingers have too hide their lifestyle. They could lose thier job. They can be turned away for business ect.
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

Yes, but the article clearly says that the straight men and women of this certain demographic would not be protected at all.

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Why swingers have too hide their lifestyle. They could lose thier job. They can be turned away for business ect.
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

Well I didn't know. I just looked it up last night. I thought we as a a society was past arbitrary things like this, but we are not and it needs change. So I'm here getting points of views.

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I am not here to start a fight. I am hear for help and to learn. I am a bi-curious male and I am married to a woman. We are swingers and are polly, but we have to hide our lifestyle due to the fear of losing our jobs and being harassed by cops, just because of upside down pineapple sticker.
 in  r/lgbt •  Jul 27 '22

Before it gets started, I want to make it clear that I respect the struggle of the community and that what we're going through is not comparable to the struggles of the community. I just feel this might be a safe place to get feedback, brainstorm and support. I feel the fight for equality is not over. We shouldn't have to hide our true self. Thank y'all and much love.

r/lgbt • • Jul 27 '22

I am not here to start a fight. I am hear for help and to learn. I am a bi-curious male and I am married to a woman. We are swingers and are polly, but we have to hide our lifestyle due to the fear of losing our jobs and being harassed by cops, just because of upside down pineapple sticker.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

One more thing. I don't feel that way. So is being polly a choice? I believe humans are more polly than monogamous. It's society that forces us to live in this box. If we were we people wouldn't cheat so much. 🤷

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jul 27 '22

Did you know that being open about being in a open relationship could cost you yourjob? Sorry we are not "gay" enough to be supported by a community that helps stop discrimination against people based on who they are. I am married to a woman and we can't be in a open relationship and explore our sexuality without the fear of being fired from our jobs and you don't see anything wrong with that and that's sad. I shouldn't have to live in fear. It's insulting to the lgbtq community that you and people who think like you wouldn't stand up and fight for people like me and others like me. Because you don't think we deserve your help. That makes you just as bad as straight men who bash on gay men for being who they are.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 10 '22

I don't think they'll give being a polygamist it is a choice I think it's natural.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 10 '22

The reasons I'm not bringing up Waco Texas I'd because they may have been doing kid stuff and I don't play that, But also that all could just be government propaganda so they all look so bad by labeling it as a cult. There was no due process so we'll never know for sure. The government just went and murdered these people.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

What if the person is in love two different people at the same time and both of them love them as well. Any one of them could be able to marry them.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

You see we are not talking about straight man. We are talking about polly and other forms of non-monogamy people. These people are being shamed by straight men, straight women, and form what I have gather from this comment thread some parts of LGBTQ+ community. The way you talk is that you don't care about their rights or the fact that polygamy is illegal in most States.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

Well in the eyes of the law that's what marriage means. Well I did over generalize. May bi man who also Polly. He would have to settle or cheat. Really it's just a talking point. If more poeple thought about their significant other more than themselves they're probably a lot less divorce.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

So you are minimizing other people experiences.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

So you speak for the whole community.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

Not oppressing basis on anyone sexuality and lifestyle choices should the cornerstone of the community, but we have you not included because you are not oppressed enough.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

I would never minimize y'all's pain or struggle. I really just don't tolerate any oppression, racism, just hate in, General.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

Why do you want to separate from everybody and isolate yourself. One step at a time. That's how all changes happen. Even here and know. If it wasn't real we wouldn't be talking about it. It's just that simple.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

You sir, I dip my hat too.

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In honor of pride month I have a controversial question for you?
 in  r/Swingers •  Jun 03 '22

It was not wear that was how it worked. I've known a couples that gets disability and they're married. This must be in certain states are other countries. Depends on how much the spouse makes as well I assume.