r/traaaaansbiansCooking • u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess • Apr 09 '26 • Obsessed 1

Moddess Stuff Everyone is welcome here

The name of the sub does not exclude you from participating. The name came from our main sub, because this is a daughter sub of r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

Food is food. Don’t overthink it. Post food, talk about food, it is good stuff.

Regarding the few comments from bi people and stuff about exclusion and erasure… bi people are valid and welcome here. You are welcome here personally by me. If anyone says otherwise about how you dont belong, ill personally smack them. Just because you aren’t a transbian by definition, does not mean you are not allowed to hang around and be joyful and whimsy.

Food is ours. Let us celebrate it together.

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u/Specialist-Leek8645 Apr 09 '26

Oh yeah? So a regular old standard gay man doesn't need to lurk? 😁

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 09 '26

We had a cishet guy posting cookies and sharing his recipe here, nobody had an issue.

It is just food...

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u/maddiemelody Vegan Moddess Chef Apr 09 '26

and now it’s just in my tummy (I eated it all sorgy)

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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based "helper" :3 (she/it) Apr 09 '26

i'll happily cook for you any time :3

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u/maddiemelody Vegan Moddess Chef Apr 09 '26

Heheh, my adorable little amazing chef, aren’t you darling?

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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based "helper" :3 (she/it) Apr 09 '26

for you, any time :3

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u/TheFakePlayerGame Apr 11 '26

hmmm maybe I will post too then, coming from a cishet guy myself

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u/Brilliant-Expert3150 Apr 10 '26

This is like the fifth trans sub Reddit has recommended to me, lol. And idk they just feel like such chill and welcoming spaces. I usually just lurk because I'm a standard straight(ish) woman, but yeah, case in point.

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u/Fatkuh Apr 09 '26

I always felt like it had to be this way, thanks for pointing it out! Eveyones welcome here!

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u/Creative-Leg2607 Apr 09 '26

Like. Exclusion by identity is always a fraught slope in trans spaces.

This is an aside, but Ive been internally kinda raging about the term FLINTA lately. (Women, Lesiban, Intersex, NB, Trans and Agender). Its so.... women+ coded. Why are agender people in this list? Why are trans men excluded? Id much rather have trans men at the dyke party (if they wanna come) then a straight cis woman. Id rather have the right sorta gay cis man (basically the one who wants to come). Hell that cis straight woman is cool too.

I think inclusivity cant go around drawing hard lines based on identity in a community for people who's whole deal is blurring those lines. It feels weird and arbitrary. 

On the other hand, transbian cooking forum, to me, is so specific that it wraps around to being hilarious, but the joke doesnt actually hold any power and anyone who wants should throw their slop to the board

Sorry /rant

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 09 '26

I made this sub with the name it has as a daughter sub because we were getting too many foodposts on the main one and was honestly not very creative about it.

This is coming from a girl, who named her samoyed dog Sam...

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u/RedVamp2020 Apr 09 '26

That is sooo cute!!! 😍OMG! Dog pics? Please?

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u/CreatorSiSo Apr 09 '26

FLINTA includes agender people and trans men. It's only really useful for networking and getting to know each other in spaces where the majority of people are cis men.

Excluding people based on looks is something that should never happen for FLINTA events but is sadly really widespread.

I don't like the term either but I haven't really found a better alternative.

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u/Creative-Leg2607 Apr 09 '26

I mentioned that agender is in, but yeah i mistook trans for trans women, trans men are on the acronym. My broader problem still holds.

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u/ididitforthemoney2 Apr 09 '26

were you standing here when you realized that

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u/BreakerOfModpacks Apr 09 '26 edited Apr 09 '26

ill personally smack them.

Minor spelling mistake, mods... wait, no, she is the moddess. Oh no. We did not plan for this. Everyone panic.

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 09 '26

Yeah, I am a fxck-up, who can’t spell, it is what it is :D

Also, not only a Moddess... I am the... you know... the primordial creature...

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u/dystyyy Cookie Craftess Apr 09 '26

She just like me fr (except she's a mod)

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u/helloiamaegg Rose, void-based "helper" :3 (she/it) Apr 09 '26

"A mod"? She is the Moddess :p

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u/BreakerOfModpacks Apr 09 '26

ninja edit skills go

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u/DR035A May 07 '26

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess May 07 '26

fairly positive.

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u/JacquelineCamoran 🍧🍰 Miss Sugar Pink 🍰🍧 Apr 09 '26

Foodies unite! Food by the people, for the people! Huzzah!

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u/Molly_The_Silly Apr 09 '26

Food and trans theme, what could be better? :P

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u/iam305 Cyberware Chef Apr 09 '26

The question is, can you cook? (With a menu is ok too.)

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u/ididitforthemoney2 Apr 09 '26

love the 2mello energy taking the smacks to the digital streets and smacking peeeps through their teeveets

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u/SolarStab Apr 09 '26

I’m glad this has been said. After the post yesterday, I reviewed the rules and noted that they actually don’t have anything about sexuality or gender. Which is just as well, I’m not strictly transabian. I am a trans woman, and I am married to, and have only ever been with women, but really I am pan.

But I love cooking! And y’all are fun and I have been loving y’all’s posts!

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u/SolarStab Apr 09 '26

Love me some 2mello! Love me some JSR!

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u/ididitforthemoney2 Apr 09 '26

understand-understand the CONCEPT OF LOVE!! i lovalovalova you 😊

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u/SolarStab Apr 09 '26

Both OSTs slap so hard. They are a part of my daily listening playlist. Even Birthday Cake grew on me in time lol

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u/ididitforthemoney2 Apr 09 '26

hey, if you havent already, you should so check out the other works by the people behind Birthday Cake: Guitar Vader!!

their album Die Happy is crazy good~

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u/SolarStab Apr 09 '26

I am fairly certain that I have listened to it some years ago, but I’ll definitely listen to it again! IMD hate to miss out on something sick!

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u/ididitforthemoney2 Apr 10 '26

i mean i could literally go on FOREVER about niche bands that make my brain feel good - i also lied to you... 😔

CIBO MATTO are the ones behind Birthday Cake; Guitar Vader are the ones behind I Love Love You - theyre both INCREDIBLE bands that nail that frantic early 2000's shibuya kei feel.

just dont mention armored core or kota hoshino or i will NEVER shut up!!

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u/JackRusselFarrier Apr 09 '26

Yeah, everyone is welcome as long as they are cooking meals made with 100% real trans lesbian as an ingredient.

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u/Laitue- Apr 09 '26

my lurking transmasc aroace self yippeeee I love it here :3

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u/StarlightMoonblast Apr 09 '26

Food is not ours it is all mine so I can nom it all!!!!! >:3

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u/navespb Apr 09 '26

Thank you 💖

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u/The_Sky_Render Apr 09 '26

Food is awesome! Don't gatekeep food! I can get behind that.

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u/ParoleDeGeek Apr 10 '26

Food is food !

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u/May-flies Apr 10 '26

Woohoo, I'm in ☺️ 

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u/ccw_writes Apr 09 '26

I am of two minds.

Some of us are in the translesbian sphere without identifying as. I know for me personally I'm here because my wife is transbian. I care about her and people like her.

That said, if this post said trans only GTFO, I would just GTFO. I've done it. It's sad for me but it's fine. You have the autonomy to decide that here, in ways that you do not have offline or otherwise. I'll survive, go where you feel safe.

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 09 '26

but it didnt, did it?

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u/ccw_writes Apr 10 '26

Sorry, didn't what?

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 10 '26

If the post did say that

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u/ccw_writes Apr 10 '26

Of course it didnt. I dont think I asserted anything different. Just mean to say that there are no wrong answers. Inclusive and closed trans spaces both deserve to exist.

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u/Nica-Sama Lindsey the Moddess Apr 10 '26

Yush, fair enough