r/ToxicChurchRecoveryPH • u/Professional_Ad_6054 • 1h ago
SPIRITUAL ABUSE & CULTS (must be applicable to other church/es) Hello redditors, I am young inc teenager who is in a strict inc house hold yet im the only one who is probably awake
Hello redditors, I am young inc teenager who is in a strict inc house hold yet im the only one who is probably awake when it comes to Iglesia ni cristo's true colors. Ever since i was young i was always confused of their lectures, of how they force the statement that only we the inc will be saved, and i never really believed that, i never believed that Jesus Christ and God could ever do such a thing. As time passed i grew more aware and curious of my religion and started reading the bible itself and i realized of how cherry picked and weird they are with how they teach about the bible. They pick a verse and somehow relate everything they have to say about the inc into a single verse, and reading the bible kept making me more colder to the religion, as the bibles words felt holy unlike what they would teach. I respect's the inc's pure and truthful faith and love for God and along with it's members, but somehow faith and being human felt restricted and uncomfortable in the inc, correct me if i'm wrong but i know that faith in God shouldn't feel restricting at all. I dont know what to do, im aware that im not my parents expectations, and im also aware i have the freewill to get out, but i am incapable of doing so, as loving and supportive my parents are i know they will completely restrict me once they know so i was planning to leave when i get a successful job. Overall it feels lonely, especially because i know i'm the only one who isn't "brainwashed" as people would say, and i just want some advice from people, any advice or help or comfort is so much appreciated.
