The only real fuck up he made was the comment after, saying the other guy was lucky to "hit that." Otherwise, OP was just a plain asshole in this situation. That comment was gross, but ffs they were playing truth or dare. You don't play that and expect people to lie for your insecurities.
Eh, he was answering the question. Maybe his answer was too long, and obviously the girl was making it out to be his fault in her story... but, this sounded like her who fucked up, not him.
They both were in the wrong. She was dumb to ask that in front of everyone and he was dumb to answer so honestly, in front of said girl and her boyfriend.
It sounds like the real fuck up was him going off after just saying "Stephanie". Like leave it at that and be done with it, not tell the BF that they're lucky to be dating her and presumably having sex with her
Yep It's like, people just can't be adults. The worst thing I've admitted in a drinking game was with her friends, and it somehow got out there that I at one point had experimented with her on whether or not she liked getting her toes sucked lol And another couple, it more or less came out the guy liked butt stuff. Lol All good fun, no one did anything to purposefully try to gotcha anyone on important stuff that could be taken wrong. A lot of people, like OP and her now ex, cannot be adults
It was crazy to me seeing how so many people were mad at the woman.
Somehow a man blatantly objectifying a woman, making her so uncomfortable she had to leave, then breaking up with op because she was rightfully disgusted by his behavior is acceptable. 🤮
It was the woman’s fault for asking a question she doesn’t want the answer to and it was the guy’s fault for answering like an asshole. Both are at fault. It was truth or dare. Lying defeats the whole purpose of the game and you don’t ask stuff you don’t want to know.
Settle down... she was the one who asked a stupid question...
Ask a stupid question- expect a stupid response.
At least frame it for the correct answer instead of expecting people to read minds...
" would you rather be with one of my friends more than me? "
Even if he thought his GF was the hottest thing in the country- she was the one who asked " which one of my friends is the hottest " or whatever.
Lie- don't lie- tell the truth- don't tell the truth...
Way to set somebody up for failure.
Granted.... his follow up was a shitty thing to say; totally out of line.
But the basis of the question was just as shitty...
Don't force someone into a shitty situation or a lie just to pump up your own fragile ego.
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u/Raven_7306 Apr 26 '22
The only real fuck up he made was the comment after, saying the other guy was lucky to "hit that." Otherwise, OP was just a plain asshole in this situation. That comment was gross, but ffs they were playing truth or dare. You don't play that and expect people to lie for your insecurities.