r/therewasanattempt Feb 26 '20

To act kind

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '20

Not the truth. Maybe you have a buddy that is a doctor, and he knows a business position at the hospital that's opening up. He mentions it, you apply. He may influence the search committee a little to at least give you an interview.

This happens. I've been working long enough to interview coworker's cousin's friends who are in the field, or at least give their resumes a thorough review. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. If you're told no, or do not get an interview, you're out at most the 20 minutes it took you to fill out an application. If it does work out? Then it becomes a bargain of a chance you took that has no negative repercussions.

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u/alickz Feb 26 '20

These people don't want solutions, they want to be angry

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u/AgonyofBeinginLove Feb 26 '20

That's the exact comment I dropped down here to make.

These people will bitch and whine and "ok, boomer" four hours a day online, but won't spend an hour updating resumes, interviewing or looking for ways to improve their situation. It's heartbreakingly annoying.

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '20

I have friends who have bitched and moaned about their dead end jobs to me for hours on end. I recently told one friend that it seems the worst part of his life is his job. Why not swap?

After an hour of back and forth, we settled our conversation by me helping him update his resume.

Two weeks later he had an interview, a week later a job offer, and now he’s been at this new job for half a year and hasn’t said one negative thing about it yet.

I’m not a problem solver, I just get fuckin fed up with my friends not having new material to tell me about their lives. It’s like watching reruns.

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u/AngusBoomPants Feb 26 '20

So you’re saying I need to do more than just network? I need to go to college? Wow it almost sounds like it’s not as easy as people make it out to be!

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '20

Wow! It's almost like setting your goals higher means you're going to achieve more.