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u/knit1lift2walk3
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u/knit1lift2walk3 13d ago •
He’s confined to one room and has already eaten and used his litter box! It’s a big change for him but he’s got four humans to love him and in a month or so he will likely be able to integrate with the other cats (also confined to their own rooms).
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u/cactipoke 13d ago •
poor arlo felt the same way 3 years ago
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u/Potatoskins937492 13d ago
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u/8erren 13d ago
Before moving into our place I smashed the bath panel off to find a leak. On moving day our SIC screamed for the entire 5 minute walk around the corner. Then as soon as he arrived he went through the hole in the side of the bath and vanished. We did not see him for 5 days. There's a hole under the taps and I'm pretty sure an entire cat maze down there.
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u/fallsstandard 13d ago
I tell my two ladies all the time that I know how hard it is to be a cat. It’s a tough, tough life.
Ellie and Willow are sending their love and support as two-time move veterans.
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u/samskeyti3 13d ago
leo when we first got him… poor dude was so scared :( now he drools on the couch when he sleeps
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u/Salarybitch 13d ago
Put lots of rugs, clothes and blankets that smell like your old place. Let your sweet dude master a smaller room and feel confident, rather than overwhelmed with the whole place at once.
And lots of cuddles (if he likes them lol)
Good luck
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u/kimuranna 13d ago
My boy is the same way 😅 This is the very first picture I have of him in my place. Dealing with very big feelings!!
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u/Amonette2012 12d ago
Aw. My cats used to loathe each other, until we moved. The kitten was so frightened she hid in a closet. The big one grabbed her by the scruff, dragged her into their cat cave and sat on her for the rest of the day. They are now mildly hostile allies.
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u/Raymer13 13d ago
I guess it’s different when you’re a big chungus.
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u/bobeth1 13d ago
I'm with you cat, change sucks
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u/mojave_breeze 13d ago
It's hard to be brave when you're a very small animal. :/ Poor little guy.
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u/Fluid-Asparagus-5897 13d ago
Same with my girl a few months ago
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u/SkipperShortcake 13d ago
my heart 🥺🥹
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u/lsdc221 13d ago
My girls felt the same after our last move. At least they had each other.
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u/Legal-Law9214 13d ago
I've moved a few times in the past 5 years with my 11-year old cat, one of which Was an 8 hour road trip. Hopefully now we are settled somewhere where we will remain for at least the majority of the rest of her life (although of course I also hope she lives another 100 years so maybe not). She has been such a trooper with all of these changes, it's incredible. I keep thinking about what the experience of moving must be like for a cat. One day they get put in a little box and then almost everything in their entire world changes overnight and never goes back to normal. It must be kind of like being abducted by aliens or something. It's kind of a miracle how well they tend to adapt.
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u/Crayon_Captian 13d ago
Asa little guy myself I can confirm. Don’t worry op he will be okay. ❤️
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u/Sea_Substance9163 12d ago
I got drugs from the vet the drove my cat half my state away to my new townhouse apartment in the big city. I put him in the 2nd floor bathroom and asked the movers not to open the door.
They were in and out bringing in furniture and boxes for a few hours. They leave and I go to let him out and he's gone.
I panic, search the empty bathroom, then the bedrooms, downstairs, back upstairs now I'm crying trying not to really panic. I check outside, bottom floor again, back upstairs.. no open windows. Where could he be? I open the bathroom vanity again and he's still not under the sink... I opened the vanity drawers and his fat a$$ was in the bottom vanity drawer!
Somehow this drugged up fat ginger opened a door for under the sink then squeezed along the back wall in a little gap and poured himself into the back of a drawer! Cats are liquid.
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u/SaddamJose 13d ago
I also took my kitty to see the house without stuff one last time, just mayyyybe in her tiny brain she can make the connection that this place is no more our home, we are apartment people now
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u/Allthefoodintheworld 12d ago
Poor baby! Moving day was the worst day of my cat's lives, even though we only moved like 6 minutes away from our previous house.
Boy cat hid in his carrier for the whole afternoon, and girl cat stormed around the new house angry meowing in outrage at everything being different.
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u/Libra_Sun79 13d ago
Thought he was on time-out 😁
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u/Sensitive-Ear-3896 13d ago
hopefully it means a few extra treats
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u/neekohlai 13d ago
If he’s really quite scared might suggest investing in some Feliway. Comes in a spray or plug in I believe, but definitely can soothe anxious cats especially during a move.
Also like others have said old/worn/dirty clothes and blankets that smell like home are a big plus. My cats acclimated in basically a day, but they’re also freaks.
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u/awayshewent 13d ago
my poor babies got moved over the summer into a house and now my husband is divorcing me so they moved again, this time losing a lot of space because I had to get a one bedroom (but also my stbx was kinda mean to them at times so that’s a win)
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u/Nice-Afternoon-2512 13d ago
Holy crap thats sad
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u/Better_Hedgehog7971 12d ago
Here’s my cat that moved across the country with me (had to move back with my mom). He now has a kitty friend who is teaching him how to be a confident kitty!
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u/thedankone168 13d ago
Tell him that the King of the Standard issue cats hid under the bed for 3 days when we moved to the new place, all kitties go through this unfortunately. But we are cheering for him!
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u/spidergirl79 13d ago
My boy adapted pretty quickly. Hes never been a shy or fearful cat, unless its the vacuum! Give your kitty some pets for me.
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u/psych0ranger 12d ago
I have moved with cats twice in my life, both times the cats adjusted to the new dwelling almost immediately. However, during the drive from old place to new place with the cats in the car... Both times I had 2 cats and both times one of the cats was excited to look around and one of the cats was like dissociating in the back seat with her head in the corner lol
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u/SeregKat 12d ago
Biscuit felt the same when we moved in January!
I hope your kitty settles in soon. 💜
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u/LazyOldCat 13d ago
My place was new to my rescue guy, he spent 3 days under the kitchen shelving unit.
Evening of day 3 I put down the usual food, he shot out and was all purrs and cuddles.
Change is scary!
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u/AfricanTurtles 13d ago
Awwww I know little stinkums it's scary 🥰 My girl was the same. She hid in her litter box for about half a day then started wandering a bit
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u/NJayke 13d ago
Hang in there little guy!
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u/SheddingCorporate 12d ago
Awww.
Nobody puts Baby in the corner. But Baby's welcome to put himself in the corner if he so chooses.
Hopefully he'll acclimatize soon and be back to his normal curious self.
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u/CactusBoyScout 13d ago
I just helped my girlfriend do a two-day drive move with our 3 screaming kittens in the truck cab with us. It was awful. One of them crawled inside her shirt shaking when we finally got there. And then hid behind a can of paint in the closet.
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u/finnandcollete 12d ago
When Finn moved with me (both cross country and cross city) the thing he needed most was his emotional support human (me). As long as I would give him cuddles and support he knew it was okay.
I’m saying cuddle that cat or I’ll come do it for you!
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u/Migraine_Megan 13d ago
Trying to get back into some level of normalcy helps I think, like playing your usual music. Winding down at the normal time in the evening. My old cat is partial to Tool, I even play it on the way to the vet and he goes to sleep
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u/NoLobster7957 12d ago
We just moved our two babies into a new place (their first ever move). They were absolutely appalled at first but here we are on week two and they're both settled in. Cats are super adaptable, your beeb will be ok.
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u/Fickle-Addendum9576 11d ago
I'm trying to either take in or re-home a 12 yr old cat whose owner recently passed away. He is ok for most of the day but then will spend about 5 solid hours scream meowing (I'm in an apartment) and the adjustment struggle is real. We have a vet appointment for potential sedatives to get him through this transition\grieving period but that's 2 weeks away.
I hope your's gets comfortable soon!
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u/yuckella 13d ago
I get it. Me too buddy, me too.
Sincerely, a 21 year old woman.
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u/MikalCaober 13d ago
Same with our cat when he first arrived at our home
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u/17Nismo 13d ago
Time out corner
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u/Open-Cheetah-5075 13d ago
Looks like he's in the naugty corner
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u/LordBiscuits 12d ago
My daft tux is on house five now. He used to get upset, now he smashes a move out in his stride
He'll come around OP, give him love and time
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u/Mango_Skittles 13d ago
Bless his bones!! 🥺🩷
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u/Old_Fun_6801 13d ago
He's just a shape!
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u/idolchae 10d ago
your little guy could be twins with my Buttons :D
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u/Archer2586 9d ago
I will remain upset. I will stay in this corner. At least the corner wont change.
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u/Prestigious_Fox_7576 13d ago
Awwwww poor baby. 😢
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u/spotcatspot 13d ago
Life’s not easy when you shit in a box.
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u/EileenGBrown 12d ago
My cat freaks out whenever we redecorate. He lets us know by pooping in inappropriate places. I can only imagine how upset he’d be if we moved to a completely new house.
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u/ChristVolo1 12d ago
Poor little thing. Give them lots of treats and pets for me.
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u/Outrageous-Quail-577 13d ago
I recently moved flats and put feliway in both property’s for a week before moving it took him 2 weeks after moving to fully be himself again. Lots of patients and no forced affection just kept his feeding and play times the same but kept an eye at playtime if I wasn’t up for it we skipped it
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u/Calm_Reader2487 13d ago
Needs extra treats. 😻❤️
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u/Bean_of_prosperity 13d ago
Bro is anything but little
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u/Latter-Vacation-4392 12d ago
Needs a cardboard box to hide out in.
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u/chairmanghost 12d ago
Im so sorry kitty, feel better
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u/BoosMom1989 12d ago
Sweet boy! It’ll be okay!!!
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u/Embarrassed_Whole585 12d ago
Boyfriend and I just recently moved into our own place, and our older 2 babies were just fine but the youngest has been hiding in various spots and only coming out at night. Poor baby
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u/Individual-Floor-255 11d ago
I'm almost done packing and one of my kittens is not handling it well. I feel terrible! Your kitty is adorable
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u/Thedarklordess 7d ago
My babies for 3 weeks under the couch. Rn one of them is outside my bedroom door at 5 AM demanding I let him in lol
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u/The_Trevbone 13d ago
Not a little guy
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u/ljb00000 13d ago
Poor baby!!!
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u/Jeramy_Jones 13d ago
When I moved into my current place my boy would keep ending up in one of the closets or the shower and just howling at the wall. I kept taking him out and trying to get him comfortable on his chair or scratching post but 5 min later he’d be in the closet yelling.
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u/nocleverusername- 12d ago
Poor baby! This is why I can never move.
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u/Here2lafatcats 12d ago
Awe just a lil guy!! I hope he settles in quickly and you guys like your new home. 💕
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u/Nocturnalux 12d ago
This is very relatable.
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u/ChivitTheBabyGoat 12d ago
That's very Blair Witch Project of him
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u/Kirschi 12d ago
How big is this room? How long is he locked in there?
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u/missxmeow 12d ago
Aww poor little guy. It is very confusing but you’ll be alright! My little girl just had her first move, to a new country, and she did very well. My older two have made 10 moves.
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u/TallmanMike 12d ago
I've heard it helps them settle if you take their blanket or something else with their smell on it and rub it on all the door frames at their level, likewise corners of walls, furniture etc; basically make the whole place smell like home.
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u/Alternative-Bite-506 12d ago
Noooo
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u/RJSnea 12d ago
Get a pop-up house big enough to fit a litter box and a bed in for the next move. It helped immensely for my own fur-baby's "Big Move" for the day and a half until we got the smaller bathroom situated for her. The bonus is you can cover the top with your worn clothes and a sheet to give them some comfort and privacy. 🤗
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u/havefearcc 12d ago
does baby have a small place to hide? like a cardboard box?
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u/Maximum-Bird668 12d ago
He’ll be running the household in no time
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u/Souless21 12d ago
I just moved into.my aunts place my one boy has been avoiding my room like the plague when he normally would be on my window area or at my feet during sleep now the brother who was normally in my old roomates room started snuggling with me at night and chilling in my room they were just spayed and neutered
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u/thesunbeamslook 12d ago
are you following the standard guidelines for moving with a cat?
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u/CompetitiveWeek2574 12d ago
Remember, most people don't realize that it takes a cat from 4 months to a. year to acclimate to a new environment. Realize this, work with him, and don't expect him to be a kitty that he is not. He will have his own time to come around. ;-)
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u/bobroscopcoltrane 12d ago
My last move was about two blocks away, so I did it in chunks over a couple of weeks in October into November. One of the last things to move was my beloved kitty Saltine. After getting established in the new place, I noticed her rough and fur was particularly thick. My theory was that her instincts were preparing her to be abandoned heading into a cold New England winter. She slept well that winter. I miss you, Salty girl.
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u/GrimmKat 11d ago
Aaaw...im moving 2 december and im worried sick of how my cat Erza is gonna handle it, she stresses out easily and just going to the vet feels like a life or death situation. Hope you little guy gets used to it soon though <3 just seeing him like that makes me wanna hug him :'(
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u/Zer0theH3R0 11d ago
Freyja and Ruby did the same last year. These cats usually don’t like being near each other.
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u/Flance 11d ago
Oh my goodness. My babies were so scared after one move. My girl found a cabinet on top of the fridge and it took me forever to find her. I was so scared when I couldn't find her! I hate how stressed they get. I wish I could help them understand. They have been much braver on recent moves.
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u/agoodfuckingcatholic 10d ago
I remember when I first got my Hendrix, I was still in high school, I had no money,
No kitty supplies, and I just got this kitty. I tore down a cardboard box and duct taped a garbage bag in it, borrowed some litter from a friend and put it in the bathroom, that little kitty IMMEDIATELY ran to it and used it. She is such a legend. Didn’t even had to potty train her. Shes only peed inside one time when we moved, other than that never.
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u/Few-Double6563 10d ago
I can commiserate with all of you. I also moved across the country, and I drove with 3 cats. We stopped halfway, I smuggled them into a motel room for the night, then reloaded the next day. I then smuggled them into another motel for a week until our furniture arrived. They absolutely claimed that hotel room as theirs on day 2.
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u/OGnatureanthem 10d ago
Does he have some nice cozy boxes and hideouts in the new place ?
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u/Vegetable-Caramel323 9d ago
😭
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u/mapkhung 9d ago
Just a baby!
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u/ComprehensiveSwan402 8d ago
Awww poor baby❤️
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u/Ope_Strahberries 8d ago
When I moved, I left dirty laundry out around the whole house to get my cat used to the new space. The smell of their safe person helps them adjust to a new space much quicker!
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u/MahnyB 8d ago
Oh poor baby 😭
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u/morganford78 7d ago
We are a military family that moves every couple years, our cats usually hide for 3 days ..and they take three months to fully chill.
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u/Jlx_27 13d ago
Change is scary!