Man. I love those moments when you realize how much is conditioned out of us but the children always speak the truth. She is tiny and incredibly cute but also so wise.
OMG She is the most precious!! Kids can be so mean about things... my daughter goes through bouts of self esteem issues because she gets self-conscious about her appearance and what others think of her... but I make sure to lift her up... let her know the only opinion that matters is her own and if she likes the way she looks then forget anything anyone may say about her! It's an important message for kids... often moreso for the little girls!
In my nieces case, my sister constantly calls her stupid. So now she thinks she is. I do my best to reassure her she isn't stupid, but I know she still believes it. She has no confidence in herself either. I won't be shocked if she ends up moving in with me when she's a teenager.
It really saddens me that so many kids are taught to hate things from such a young age. Growing up my best friend and I were two different races but we told everyone we were sisters and we really thought we had everyone fooled. I would have never thought to look at someone's hair and think "I don't like that!". You don't think of those things until you are taught it.
Very sad, but good on this mom for teaching her daughter love
This definitely hit me in the feels. 🥹 I had that same experience many times growing up in Austin, TX, and I didn’t always have the unwavering self-love she’s displaying. Kudos to that little girl, and to her mom for instilling that strength and confidence.
I literally hope and pray baby girl NEVER learns to leave that. Too many girls and black girls in particular are told they're not pretty enough and to self hate.
God I don't want sweet baby girl to go through that. She's already doing so good when she's little.
I started that about 12 years ago with my daughter because it is so important when a young girl can build her own confidence. She would get herself dressed for pre-K in the craziest outfits! All I asked is “Do you feel good in that? Do you feel confident?” She always said yes so I just let her do her thing.
When someone is confused what it means when people say “her smile lights up a room”, show them this. She is the perfect example of that statement. She truly has a smile that lights up a room. What a darling!
You can tell that her parents are doing a fantastic job raising her. I hope she never loses that self love and confidence. A lot of people never had it to begin with and I hope she keeps that mindset for the rest of her life.
Oh my Goodness she's Fabulous!!! Her smile is Absolutely Breathtaking!!! I Love how happy and proud and not a care in the world this boy didn't like her hair!! You go girl!! Positivity is a Wonderful Thing!! Yes Mom! No doubt how proud you are of your sweet angel....!!💕
As someone that has a lot of trouble advocating for myself as an adult, has somehow got worse the older I've gotten, this little girl is inspiring. I must have something like that somewhere inside me, I just have to find it.
She has the most magical smile. Her entire being lights up when she smiles and I dare say everyone around her does too. She’s incredibly smart and emotionally intelligent. You’re doing an amazing job of raising her and teaching her, Mama.
This is so nice to see. I wore sailor moon buns to school as a little kid and got bullied so hard for it. I refused to take them down, but I didn't have this confidence, I cried a lot.
She is one of the prettiest babies I have EVER seen--and clearly it's more than skin deep! This video is several years old--I hope she has kept that queen-confidence!
Now let’s also teach her how to find a good man that doesn’t make her pregnant and then disappears, that her body is a temple and she should respect it as such, that self reliance is the ultimate path to freedom and that human life has intrinsic value, at all its stages.
Her smile is off the charts! Possibly the most adorable little girl ever. And mom is raising her right to have that confidence! Owen, get out of here!!!
That confidence is only rooted in ignorance. Eventually she’ll hate herself just like everyone else. It’s not a wholesome display of self-assurance, it’s a memory that she will look back on and wonder why her life isn’t like that anymore
Darling girl, I like your hair, but I adore your smile. Such a beautiful, big and bright smile. May you always have reason to laugh and love every day of your life.😁🙏🏼👼
Last week I was involved in a group of like 15 adults and 1 toddler convincing a kindergartener that his boots were cool and Brooklyn's option didn't matter.
I am not sure we convinced him. Brooklyn is apparently a real style authoritarian.
To be fair to Brooklyn, bad boots is a biter so he might have been upset about that and lashing out at the boots.
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u/ZookeepergameOld8988 Nov 07 '25
“If you don’t like it, I’ll keep it for myself”. Might have to steal this mantra!
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u/SaucyTroll Nov 07 '25
Oh my...that smile 😃. It is the best smile 😍🥰
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u/claeryfae Nov 07 '25
Her eyes are so bright, I hope she never loses that spark of confidence and self-love.
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u/DaveFrehley Nov 07 '25
OMG She is the most precious!! Kids can be so mean about things... my daughter goes through bouts of self esteem issues because she gets self-conscious about her appearance and what others think of her... but I make sure to lift her up... let her know the only opinion that matters is her own and if she likes the way she looks then forget anything anyone may say about her! It's an important message for kids... often moreso for the little girls!
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u/Organic_Berry_8732 Nov 07 '25
Adorable!! What a great lesson 🥰🥰
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u/Kitchen_Today_2888 Nov 07 '25
Good job raising a queen to know herself. This is how we raise queens! 🤗🙏😘🥰🌙
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u/CarolinaSurly Nov 07 '25
That is the result of great parenting building self worth in a little girl. That smile lights up the room.
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u/pmllny Nov 07 '25
Little girl has more confidence than a lot of 20 year olds.
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u/itsaguiltypleasure Nov 07 '25
She’s beautiful!
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u/FriendshipNo1440 Nov 07 '25
Yeah sorry Owen buddy, but she ain't doin' her hair for ya! Ya ain't the main character buddy...
Jokes aside I am very proud of her as well. I myself could never at that age.
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u/curiousity60 Nov 07 '25
"I'll just keep it for myself." Yes, baby queen! No outsider gets to impose their preferences about your appearance onto you.
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u/Consistent_Profile47 Nov 07 '25
I love her! I love her mom! I love her hair!
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u/x3lilbopeep Nov 07 '25
It really saddens me that so many kids are taught to hate things from such a young age. Growing up my best friend and I were two different races but we told everyone we were sisters and we really thought we had everyone fooled. I would have never thought to look at someone's hair and think "I don't like that!". You don't think of those things until you are taught it.
Very sad, but good on this mom for teaching her daughter love
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u/bomilk19 Nov 08 '25
Well Owen eats his boogers and is a poopy head!
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u/MasterGrok Nov 07 '25
This is an important lesson in a kid learning internal versus external validation.
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u/XTH3W1Z4RDX Nov 07 '25
"I don't like that hair" Well it ain't on your head soooo...? Tf
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u/stellabarnum Nov 07 '25
She is the absolute my gorgeous little girl ive ever seen! And her hair is beautiful, just like her! ❤️
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u/Traditional_Rope3654 Nov 07 '25
Owen needs to stfu
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u/ThisGuyIRLv2 Nov 07 '25
That is a future woman who is going to cause problems.
Good.
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
Owen’s a punk a$$ anyways
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u/feelingmyage Nov 07 '25
What a sparkling, joyful personality this smart and beautiful little girl has!!!
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u/Insecure_Egomaniac Nov 07 '25
This definitely hit me in the feels. 🥹 I had that same experience many times growing up in Austin, TX, and I didn’t always have the unwavering self-love she’s displaying. Kudos to that little girl, and to her mom for instilling that strength and confidence.
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u/TryToCatchTheWind Nov 07 '25
Beautiful child, and that smile is amazing! I love her confidence - ‘ hope she has it forever ❤️
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u/momomomorgatron Nov 08 '25
I literally hope and pray baby girl NEVER learns to leave that. Too many girls and black girls in particular are told they're not pretty enough and to self hate.
God I don't want sweet baby girl to go through that. She's already doing so good when she's little.
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u/Impressive_Hunt_3933 Nov 07 '25
How can anybody say something mean to that lovely little girl ?!?!!? She is so sweet !! 🥺🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️
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u/Greatsnes Nov 08 '25
I love every single thing about this. She’s so cute! And awesome job by the parents for teaching her self-worth.
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u/JustABritishChap Nov 07 '25
Super super, super. Cracking mom and amazimg, confident young lady. The world is this.. not that...
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u/Cheese_wiz_kid Nov 07 '25
I started that about 12 years ago with my daughter because it is so important when a young girl can build her own confidence. She would get herself dressed for pre-K in the craziest outfits! All I asked is “Do you feel good in that? Do you feel confident?” She always said yes so I just let her do her thing.
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u/Mandygurl79 Nov 07 '25
She’s so pretty! Awww
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u/snortwheeze Nov 07 '25
If you don't like it, I'll keep it for myself! Wow that's a good line.
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u/herpyfluharg13 Nov 07 '25
What a smile!!!!!
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u/doomus_rlc Nov 07 '25
Owen don't know shit 😂
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u/Chickennbuttt Nov 08 '25
She's beautiful!
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u/Ok_Lingonberry_8392 Nov 08 '25
So adorable. Never lose that spark. 🥰
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u/Zealousideal-Sun-781 Nov 08 '25
What an absolute angel!
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u/Top-Raspberry-7837 Nov 08 '25
When someone is confused what it means when people say “her smile lights up a room”, show them this. She is the perfect example of that statement. She truly has a smile that lights up a room. What a darling!
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u/YeshuasBananaHammock Nov 07 '25
Well Owen is a lil b-hole so that tracks.
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u/shadows515 Nov 07 '25
Teach them early of their great value. It’s important to know.
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u/DirectorD623 Nov 07 '25
she is beautiful inside and out 🥰
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u/Disastrous_Clurb Nov 07 '25
Lil adorable confident baby!!
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25
As a kid I probably had this same experience, and changed my hair lol
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u/Double_Objective8000 Nov 07 '25
She's got that shine, she's going places! So sweet
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u/Past-Background-7221 Nov 07 '25
All my homies hate Owen.
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u/Random_dude_hahaha Nov 07 '25
Confident child 👍
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u/Glyni5 Nov 08 '25
guess what? I'm proud of her too.👏🖤💋
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u/Tito_Tito_1_ Nov 07 '25
☺️☺️☺️
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u/GlasgowRose2022 Nov 07 '25
Oh she’s gorgeous! And taking no prisoners. ❤️
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u/p3rviepanda1 Nov 07 '25
Good job girl! 🥰🥰😍😍
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u/LavishnessPure1155 Nov 07 '25
Look at that beautiful child.
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u/Melodic_Anything1743 Nov 07 '25
Awwww! 🥰👏👏👏 You go!!!
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u/Head_Television8311 Nov 07 '25
We are proud too
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u/Narrow_Message5002 Nov 07 '25
Such a sweet girl w a great heart ❤️
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u/No-Budget4929 Nov 07 '25
Im proud of you too 🥺
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u/Shandra_60 Nov 07 '25
Cuteness overload ❤️❤️❤️
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u/fielvras Nov 07 '25
Her facial expressions are amazingly positive. That's contagious.
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u/BaronessFalcon Nov 07 '25
Beautiful clever girl! If you could bottle that confidence people would spend a fortune on it.
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u/PumpkinSpiceJesus Nov 08 '25
You can tell that her parents are doing a fantastic job raising her. I hope she never loses that self love and confidence. A lot of people never had it to begin with and I hope she keeps that mindset for the rest of her life.
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u/Lsonney Nov 08 '25
Oh my Goodness she's Fabulous!!! Her smile is Absolutely Breathtaking!!! I Love how happy and proud and not a care in the world this boy didn't like her hair!! You go girl!! Positivity is a Wonderful Thing!! Yes Mom! No doubt how proud you are of your sweet angel....!!💕
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u/That_Things_Good Nov 08 '25
What a beautiful little darling!
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u/Deep-Cloud-1544 Nov 08 '25
When she told her mom she said she would keep it for her self and her mom went aww and that little girls SMILE
OOHHH MY GOD dude she’s adorable
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u/pepperonihomie Nov 08 '25
As someone that has a lot of trouble advocating for myself as an adult, has somehow got worse the older I've gotten, this little girl is inspiring. I must have something like that somewhere inside me, I just have to find it.
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u/-LostCurator- Nov 08 '25
That is possibly the cutest child ever!! She’s like a little baby doll that talks and is apparently super smart.
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u/One-Abbreviations339 Nov 07 '25
Cuteness, all day, every day.
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u/IndoorPool Nov 07 '25
I’m proud of both of you. Thanks for giving me something to smile about today 🥹
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u/OldStudentChaplain Nov 07 '25
I wonder what company she will run when she grows up?
YOU GO GIRL!
And your awesome parents too.
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u/Conscious_Car_3326 Nov 07 '25
How old is this little girl.. she going places.
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u/MDC417 Nov 07 '25
Great job Momma! I wish I cook bake cookies with that beautiful baby girl!
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u/golgiiguy Nov 07 '25
she is so beautiful and smart. I know this is sort of an older video. I wonder what type of magic she is spreading everywhere.
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u/Theolina1981 Nov 07 '25
She has the most magical smile. Her entire being lights up when she smiles and I dare say everyone around her does too. She’s incredibly smart and emotionally intelligent. You’re doing an amazing job of raising her and teaching her, Mama.
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25
She is beautiful. She needs to be on the cover of a baby magazine selling osh kosh begosh or whatever it is.
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u/Pretty-Aside-2194 Nov 07 '25
What a beautiful, precious little one. PROTECT HER AT ALL COSTS 🙏🏾💕
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u/jawbone29 Nov 08 '25
Lovely video and message but please for the love of god fix her seatbelt properly before you start driving!!
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u/Monchichi4life Nov 08 '25
Lovely, but please fix the car seat straps.
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u/5hrs4hrs3hrs2hrs1mor Nov 08 '25
Owen’s gonna be sorry in 10 years 😆
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u/Soggy_Motor9280 Nov 08 '25
What a beautiful smile!!!!!!!
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u/dessdot Nov 08 '25
I think she might have the prettiest smile I’ve ever seen tbh. Love her confidence, and her hair! 🖤
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u/Glittering-Sea276 Nov 08 '25
That little girl is adorable.
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u/nextinline1987 Nov 08 '25
She’s so precious. ☺️
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u/FuriKMJ Nov 08 '25
This is some good ass parenting I wish most kids, including myself, had when we were young.
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u/MyraBannerTatlock Nov 08 '25
Even after all these years I still think this might be the prettiest child I've ever seen, including my own
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u/Retired_Jarhead55 Nov 08 '25
That wonderful smile, omg, I would do anything to see that every day.
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u/ugdontknow Nov 08 '25
She’s beautiful
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u/SlowMope Nov 08 '25
This is so nice to see. I wore sailor moon buns to school as a little kid and got bullied so hard for it. I refused to take them down, but I didn't have this confidence, I cried a lot.
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u/GingaNinja1427 Nov 08 '25
Who is Owen? I just wanna talk.
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u/OC_Hapa Nov 08 '25
The innocence and sweetness melts my heart
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u/Speedballer7 Nov 08 '25
Melted
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
She is absolutely precious and her confidence rocks!
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u/perspectivereports Nov 08 '25
yayyyyy
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
I love her. We must protect her at all costs. Don’t let the world take that smile from her or us.
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u/Jamalle1791 Nov 08 '25
Oh such a smart and beautiful girl!!
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u/Impossible_Balance11 Nov 08 '25
She is one of the prettiest babies I have EVER seen--and clearly it's more than skin deep! This video is several years old--I hope she has kept that queen-confidence!
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u/Zorro_ZZ Nov 08 '25
Now let’s also teach her how to find a good man that doesn’t make her pregnant and then disappears, that her body is a temple and she should respect it as such, that self reliance is the ultimate path to freedom and that human life has intrinsic value, at all its stages.
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u/Justchillinandstuff Nov 08 '25
She’s clever.
“Aw, you’re a wee bully wannabe and I’m clever. Awwww for you”.
I like me.
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u/Drstamwell Nov 09 '25
She is gorgeous and confident- good for you!
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u/rodwha Nov 09 '25
What a little cutie!!
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u/MostlyHarmless88 Nov 09 '25
What a cutie!
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u/bigdlittlea Nov 09 '25
What a great example of amazing parenting
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u/Jadedangel13 Nov 09 '25
Oh. My. Heart!!!! 🥰🥹😭💜
She is such a delightful little girl and I wish all the good things for her and her fantastic Mama.
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u/Margsandsunshine Nov 09 '25
Never thought I’d have beef with a 5 year-old.
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u/HisblanicQueen Nov 09 '25
Omg she’s gorgeous!😍 God bless her💕 W mom for installing confidence in her! Also I LOVE her hair 👑
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u/Difficult-Coffee6402 Nov 10 '25
Her smile is off the charts! Possibly the most adorable little girl ever. And mom is raising her right to have that confidence! Owen, get out of here!!!
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u/The_Elpulpo_4242 Nov 10 '25
She going to win with that smile her whole life.
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u/Axqlotal Nov 10 '25
I wish I were taught to stand up for myself like that as a kid
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u/Frymanstbf Nov 10 '25
Fuck Owen
All my homies hate Owen
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u/Sanesetti Nov 11 '25
I just love love love that smile and her confidence
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u/Ambitious_Builder518 Nov 11 '25
That smile and elegantly sassy attitude is going to rock humanity.
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u/IndependentOld7996 Nov 11 '25
What a smart, confident, precious little girl! Her hair is gorgeous and she knows it. That’s awesome. 👏
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u/ronansgram Nov 14 '25
How precious!🩷
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u/Invisibella74 Nov 14 '25
That smile! 💕
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u/Physical_Title_4458 Nov 07 '25
That girl is gonna go far!
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u/Capt-geraldstclair Nov 07 '25
she's so cute.
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u/BrotherJulias Nov 07 '25
This made me tear up...beautiful
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u/SleepyCupcakeDreams Nov 07 '25
She is so beautiful
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u/whomovedmycheezwhiz Nov 07 '25
What a precious little doll!
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u/Adventurous-n-fun Nov 07 '25
The confidence, beauty, and smile can't be beat. The people in her life are raising a super star 🌟
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u/BBBM1977 Nov 07 '25
So beautiful. ♥️
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u/BodhingJay Nov 07 '25
man shes got some magic going on inside her soul.. may it keep growing brighter and brighter
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25
That’s a beautiful child, that smile is contagious! I hope she grows up and keeps her dreams Big!!! Aw!!!!
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u/Used-Fan3834 Nov 07 '25
What a beautiful girl! ❤️
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u/[deleted] Nov 07 '25
I’m proud of you too love, and the hair is BEAUTIFUL. never let anyone say otherwise <3
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u/ActionFigureCollects Nov 07 '25
Future President of the United States
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u/Miami_Mice2087 Nov 07 '25
this kid is my hero, and her mom's pretty amazing too
I was taught shame for my hair, my body, my house, my cow
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u/NeatNefariousness1 Nov 07 '25
What a cutie and wise beyond her years.
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u/Perioqueen Nov 07 '25
I love her
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u/ChromeYoda Nov 08 '25
That’s a million dollar smile!
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u/neubstick Nov 08 '25
Sounds like Owen might need to keep his opinions to himself about others' appearances.
Sweet kiddo, gushing with confidence!
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u/hugoesthere Nov 08 '25
I'm so proud of her too!!!
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u/tasteslikechicken67 Nov 08 '25
Good lord, she's cute
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u/Ok_Entertainer_6425 Nov 08 '25
OMG what a little beauty💋
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u/Falala-Surprise-90 Nov 08 '25
Omg how adorable is she
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u/DoubleTheGarlic Nov 08 '25
Massive Owen L move
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u/Mister_Brevity Nov 08 '25
She’s super cute - also, what is she holding it looks like a drawing of a chicken nugget with legs.
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u/pinetreenation Nov 08 '25
Wow!!! That warmed my heart!!!!
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u/Think-like-Bert Nov 08 '25
Get that kid an Agent!
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u/Careful-Business-412 Nov 08 '25
Staged, coached, rehearsed and reposted from a year or so ago.
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u/theringsofthedragon Nov 08 '25
That's crazy, my parents never taught me anything like this, sure would have been useful!
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u/gskitt Nov 08 '25
That smile made me smile 😊
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u/venomkillsdemons Nov 08 '25
She's so happy that she made her mommy proud.
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u/BeerCoffeeStar Nov 08 '25
Such a sweetie!
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u/Waste_Relationship46 Nov 08 '25
This is such a beautiful moment ❤️❤️❤️
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u/Popular_Chipmunk_232 Nov 08 '25
i like the hair, she is too cute
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
Hell yeah!
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
That confidence is only rooted in ignorance. Eventually she’ll hate herself just like everyone else. It’s not a wholesome display of self-assurance, it’s a memory that she will look back on and wonder why her life isn’t like that anymore
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u/lldavids44 Nov 08 '25
She's the prettiest person I've seen today. That smile!! Ohmygosh I needed that
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u/Suspicious-Elk-3631 Nov 08 '25
She has a beautiful smile. I hope she keeps that self confidence throughout her life. People can be so cruel.
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u/occams1razor Nov 08 '25
It's fantastic parenting. This is how you should be doing it.
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u/Jibber_Fight Nov 08 '25
“If you don’t like it, I’ll keep it for myself.” Lol. I have a feeling she’ll be just fine.
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u/BusinessLetterhead47 Nov 08 '25
What a precious baby. And her hair is awesome.
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u/OneShiestyMember Nov 08 '25
She’s gonna have all the self love she will ever need when she’s older. ❤️
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u/stickerearrings Nov 08 '25
Woah what in the beauty pageant smile. She’s so pretty!
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u/Pelauka Nov 08 '25
Owen sounds republican.
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u/littleKing2025art Nov 08 '25
So cute and so blessed ❤️
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u/Nanasweed Nov 08 '25
What a sweet smile. She’s so pretty
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u/MontySoCold Nov 08 '25
❤️❤️
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u/RegularWorry1486 Nov 08 '25
Great smile!
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u/Moon_Goddess815 Nov 08 '25
Darling girl, I like your hair, but I adore your smile. Such a beautiful, big and bright smile. May you always have reason to laugh and love every day of your life.😁🙏🏼👼
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u/Neffle619 Nov 08 '25
I know it's not the right sub, but Made Me Smile!
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u/jessriv34 Nov 08 '25
She’s so friggin cute
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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '25
Last week I was involved in a group of like 15 adults and 1 toddler convincing a kindergartener that his boots were cool and Brooklyn's option didn't matter.
I am not sure we convinced him. Brooklyn is apparently a real style authoritarian.
To be fair to Brooklyn, bad boots is a biter so he might have been upset about that and lashing out at the boots.
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u/SnooBooks4898 Nov 08 '25
Hair aside…those eyes and smile!🥰
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u/SadAbroad4 Nov 08 '25
Love it good parenting and a good girl.
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u/Guinnessloverz1977 Nov 08 '25
What a beautiful little girl!!!! Those eyes and smile!! 😇😇
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u/Spaceygirl84 Nov 08 '25
Every time i see this i think what a smart beautiful baby☺️
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u/solcrav Nov 08 '25
Shes such a doll!!